处女座女性 - 性占星

用她自己的话说

记忆

“In a freshly cleaned house, we showered and washed each other, [and] then he carried me to the bed. There were scented candles going, adding enough light to see and be flattering. There were flowers in a vase placed where I could look at them from the bed. He smelled so fresh and his skin was soft. We rubbed lotion on each other. Then we made love. Very soft, very romantic.”

吸引和约会处女座

是什么吸引了你？

处女座非常挑剔。阴茎的大小确实很重要：太大可能会有问题，太小则会让人失望。

“What attracts me is confidence and a dominant attitude. Physique counts: I hate flabby men. His hands must be sensitive in sex.”

“First a man’s smile, eyes, looks, energy, intelligence, warmth, humor. Physical attributes important to me, height, not too skinny, not bald, penis size not tiny.”

“Eyes, definitely, overall outward appearance, and the way he dresses. Penis size is important to me.”

什么会让你不喜欢？

处女座的人看起来整洁得无可挑剔，就像能把棉絮拒之门外一样，她也希望自己的男人也能如此。不注意卫生总是会把她拒之门外。

“No sense of humor, bad hygiene, no goals in life, always complaining, obesity.”

“Poor choice [in] clothing, bad teeth or breath, sloppiness or messiness, poor hygiene (I am a Virgo, after all) …”

“I like a man who is squeaky clean—good and clean enough to eat—so bad breath, not being well-groomed, or a man who is unshaved all repel me.”

约会时您喜欢做什么？

大多数情况下，处女座女性喜欢与伴侣共度宁静时光。偶尔她也喜欢徒步旅行、航海和参加县集市。她还喜欢逛书店、艺术画廊和古董店。

“Something different, like a carnival or a zoo; something other than a movie, which is so boring; a chance to talk and laugh, get to know each other, even if it’s just driving.”

“Ice skating, dinner, concert, theater, museum, movies, maybe a boat ride, sit and have coffee, walk.”

“Dinner and dancing, then going parking … Sex in the car or giving head on the highway.”

“Anything out of the ordinary is better, like 4-wheeler mudding, but a movie is okay.”

记忆

“A party at a high rise. We went up several floors in the service elevator. My boyfriend hit the stop button, pushed me against the wall, pulled my skirt up, hoisted me to his waist, and shoved his extremely hard cock into me. He fucked me hard, grinding against my clit. I came almost immediately. He kept his hand over my mouth to keep me from screaming. He didn’t cum, but [then he] took me up to the roof, bent me over the railing, and fucked me from behind for a good hour. He made me cum over and over before cumming himself.”

你有情调吗？

Surprisingly, the reputed “Virgin” is a flirt. She may be coy about it, but she turns on the charm with ease almost anywhere and almost anytime.

“Very flirtatious. I am married but not dead. I can read the menu; I just can’t eat off it.”

“Yes, I frequently make sexual jokes and comments with people who respond positively to me.”

“I like to ‘car flirt’ with cute guys driving next to me.”

“I know when not to be or when enough is enough.”

你嫉妒吗？

处女座是一个善于分析的星座。在人际关系中，她很细心，也很清楚发生了什么。如果她认为她的男人对她关注不够或对其他女人关注太多，她更可能生气而不是吃醋。

“A little, but not to the point of being psycho … I like my possessions and am cautious about who I allow playing with them.”

“I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who would put me in the position of having to act jealous. It is a very undignified feeling and behavior.”

你对公开示爱有何看法？

对处女座来说，含蓄的公开示爱总是很好的。有时，甚至稍稍超越这一点也会让人感到愉悦。

“I’m very open to it: good for me and the public. I think people enjoy seeing it. I know I do. It is exciting and a turn-on for me.”

“I love showing public affection. I want the world to see how much he means to me.”

“Less is more. Too much is just gross. I can’t stand having a man all over me in public.”

“I think they are great, as long as they are measured. Holding hands is okay, but not getting too physical.”

性态度和性行为

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX

The Virgo woman may not think about sex every day, but she’d like to make love daily. She’ll settle for three or four times per week.

“I like sex as often as possible, but I don’t want to climax every time. I enjoy being desired sexually.”

“Always … I am not kidding.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

前戏不必太长，只要足够让她兴奋就可以了。她很善于表达，而且反应灵敏，她希望伴侣知道什么时候该从预演进入正戏。快餐偶尔也很适合她，但她更喜欢慢慢来。

“What is most important to me is how much time is available. Quickies are okay, but longer [sessions with] more foreplay are better.”

“Any amount of time: quickies or long sessions. I enjoy the closeness, intimacy, being wanted by a man, quickie or not. As to foreplay, a half-hour would be great, but 10 to 15 minutes will suffice.”

“Thirty minutes or so depending on feelings at the time and, yes, quickies can be good fun.”

幻想

“A man who really loves me approaches me with loving-kindness, talks to me, appreciates me verbally, and handles me. I am fully comfortable with him. We find a quiet bedroom for foreplay and intercourse. We live together forever.”

“Sex with men I don’t know, with more than one man, with other women, being watched during sex or masturbation, and having that person be turned on. My fantasies often feature receiving oral sex rather than intercourse.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

She’ll make herself available at any time. “I’ll take it whenever I can get it,” she says, but she really does have her preferences. As far as sex in the morning, Virgo prefers coffee first please. If at night, before she gets too tired.

“Not first thing in the morning and not too late at night when I’d rather be sleeping.”

“As long as I am awake …”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

She believes that sex is good for her health so if she has no lover, she takes care of herself. Virgo usually pleasures themselves about three times a week.

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Her answer almost always begins with, “It depends.” The determining factor in Virgo’s mind is developing some sense of emotional closeness. What’s tricky is that she will want some indication from a potential lover that he’s interested in her before signaling that she has such an interest herself.

“It depends on how long it takes for us to be in love. I don’t like being sexual unless there is love.”

“It depends on the person and how comfortable I feel with him.”

“That depends on the kind of relationship I want with a man.”

记忆

“Candles lit in a white room. A king-size bed. The blinds are up and it’s not yet dark. We play some gentle music and get out the plastic bed cover and sundae ingredients. We take turns being a sundae and scream while getting licked free of the most delectable sweets.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

随意的性爱对处女座来说并不吸引人，主要是因为这个星座的人有一种疑病症，她害怕感染性传播疾病。

“It’s unwise to have multiple partners, for physical and emotional reasons.”

“It is unsafe and leaves you feeling empty.”

“I am not into casual sex. I have to have some feelings for a man before I can be intimate.”

您相信一夫一妻制吗？

Absolutely. Being health-conscious, as well as a woman who takes a little while before allowing a relationship to become intimate, one lover at a time is it for Virgo.

“I can’t bring myself to share.”

“Yes, I think in order to fulfill one’s wildest fantasies, there can only be one lover.”

“I give and expect monogamy in a committed relationship.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

处女座认为亲密的性爱是极其重要和充实的，对人的健康有益，而且要经常进行。性体验上升到精神层面。

“I wouldn’t call it spiritual, but I believe it is very special between two people who care deeply about each other.”

“Yes, I feel it brings us together in a way that no other action can. It unites us as one.”

“I think that sex is an act of sharing your soul, a sacred energy exchange that shouldn’t be abused or taken too lightly.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

处女座善于分析，并且能够理解伴侣，因此她知道什么时候话题是合适的。不过，她更倾向于表明自己的意愿，然后等待男方采取主动。

记忆

“At our beach house in the spa, mid-afternoon, blue sky, sun beating down, birds chirping, and the smell of fresh[ly] mowed grass. We started kissing, stripped off our clothes. He was caressing my body and sucking on my nipples, driving me crazy. He turned off all but two jets and positioned me so that one was on my clit and one was on my anus. It felt like he was in me both ways at the same time. He turned the pressure up to maximum. I exploded.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Let’s face it; Virgo wants to get it right. She may be a tad reticent initially but in short order, she will be specific, telling her lover how to please her, letting him know what’s working and what isn’t.

“Both. I will say it first and if that doesn’t work, I will move his hands where I want them, then moan to let him know that that is right.”

“I used to do to my partner what I wanted him to do to me, thinking that he would pick up the hint. I have learned to be specific with words to get what I need.”

“I use words most of the time. My partner and I have great communication. We always check in with each other about likes, dislikes, and trying new things.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

传统的处女座是性生活的主流，包括爱抚、口交和性交。她喜欢长时间的性爱，而且非常注重身体，会不遗余力地满足伴侣。但除了处女座，古代处女座的象征还有 "艳妇"（Nymphet），她既可爱又极具性欲。

虽然这两种类型的处女座女性在公共场合都非常得体，但在卧室的私密空间里，仙女则是动静皆宜的母老虎。这种处女座的女人想要的是一个有丰富性欲的男人。她会喜欢通过口交让他兴奋，然后再拼命让他准备好第二轮。

This Virgo’s range of sexual behaviors goes from just beyond vanilla sex all the way to kinky. She may be willing to try bondage, dominance and submission, role-playing, wearing costumes and boots, using hot wax, incorporating food, being spanked, and being shaved. For sex toys she’ll try vibrators, dildos, handcuffs, paddles, and anal beads.

“My favorite summer treat [is] filling a condom with water and freezing it. The cold of that and the warmth of his penis are great.”

“I like to use cucumbers and hand-carved dildos.”

处女座的幻想包括拥有多个伴侣、偷窥以及支配和服从的元素。

幻想

“A wonderful dinner in a candlelit room with a hooded man dressed in leather. Dinner finished, he grabs a handful of my hair and tells me that the training will commence now. A night on my knees, in a cage, hanging, being flogged and tortured— followed by his wonderful raping of my bound and gagged body. Afterward, he cradles me and looks deeply into my eyes and tells me how happy he has been with everything.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Virgo shows her affection primarily with attentiveness, by extending herself for her lover. She strives to maintain an impeccable home and to serve tasty, well-balanced meals. Her intention is to make him feel comfortable, relaxed, and attended to.

“Soft kisses, cooking, massage, compliments, even doing things I don’t want to [do in order to] accommodate him.”

“When my husband comes home from work, I make him a gourmet dinner and wait on him hand and foot. I enjoy making him happy. I derive great pleasure from this.”

“Making sure that he is taken care of in any way and listening to him is important.”

五感

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

处女座说她对性爱的环境并不太挑剔，但她接着列举了一些重要的因素。事实证明，环境非常重要，尤其是要干净和温暖。

“I don’t care too much about the setting for sex but clean, crisp, new sheets are a decided turn-on.”

“I don’t care about the décor but if it’s not clean, that’s a deal-breaker.”

“It’s not too important, once you are at ease with a person. Candlelight preferred, the temperature comfortable and, of course, a clean environment.”

回忆

“It was about 95 degrees and we were outside on a blanket. It was so hot, from both the sex and the weather, that we were completely drenched in sweat and were licking it off each other’s [bodies] and rubbing our sweaty bodies together.”

“Nighttime, full moon, swimming pool, candles. [We] started out skinny dipping. Night insects, aggressiveness, our own talking in whispers and being watched by some high school boys.”

“Outside on the grass, under the stars on a warm summer’s eve, we started kissing and fondling each other. After a half-hour I couldn’t take it anymore and I had to have him in me.”

你喜欢在哪里做爱？

她最喜欢的性爱场所是卧室，但处女座说她愿意在任何符合她标准的地方做爱。所以，在海边或车里提供一个干净舒适的地方，她会说好的。

“Anywhere that is not physically uncomfortable and [is] fairly private.”

“Bedroom mostly, but the other parts of the house are fair game … Also the woods on a nice summer day or night.”

“Bedroom, shower, kitchen, and out on the deck.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

简而言之就是 "触摸"。处女座希望她的所有感官和整个身体都参与到性爱的氛围中来。直击她的性感带也许可以满足偶尔的快感，但却无法让她为一夜的美妙性爱兴奋不已。这需要更多的细心，欣赏她大腿的曲线、脖子根部的位置、下巴的沟壑或手肘内侧。

“Seeing my husband toweling off after a shower does it every time. He still turns me on like a light switch.”

“Seeing sex in movies, thinking of sex, bathing, talking dirty, using a vibrator.”

“I love it when we are both clean and fresh smelling, music, fresh sheets, pretty scenes like a vase of flowers next to the bed, or a good smelling candle.”

记忆

“Historic hotel, Bourbon Street, New Orleans, midday, sunlight streaming through the windows, comfy bed with big pillows, quiet, smells of clean laundry. We’d just bought a vibrator system for couples. WOW! My partner used it and oral sex to keep me on the edge of climax for so long [that] my lower abdominal muscles ached the next day. Usually our sex is mostly about him. This day it was all about me and he indulged me very well.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Virgo likes some adult media. She admits that it’s a turn-on but she also finds it occasionally unpleasant. The adult films she prefers have something of a storyline, maybe some romance—or at least some intrigue. They are more than sex scenes and cum shots.

“It can be hot, but it can also be incredibly tawdry and / or repulsive. It depends on what is done and how it is done.”

“I like to watch it, but on the other hand I can see how it can be destructive.”

“I hate to admit it, but I like the soft or mainstream stuff. Playboy and Penthouse are intriguing. I like a good adult movie now and then, but nothing kinky or weird.”

“Occasionally I like it. I find the more gentle images appealing.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

Virgo loves to touch and be touched at rather specific times and in specific places. She’s too busy most of the time to have a lover grabbing for her while she’s getting things done. But she very much appreciates indications of his love for her in the form of cuddling in the evening—whether or not that leads to sex.

“I love to cuddle. That is one of my favorite things. Every night when we get the kids to bed and watch a little TV, he lays his head in my lap. I stroke his hair. And in bed we cuddle and watch TV and fall asleep.”

“I love to be held before and after sex. The feeling of being embraced by someone you love is awesome.”

回忆

“A great dinner at a beautiful restaurant. Back home, he lit candles. We took a long bath together, made love in the bathtub, and then in the bedroom, where the only light came from moonlight and a single candle. It was slow and gentle, then rough and wild.”

“In the Outback, at about midnight, those wonderful country smells, almost full moon, lots of stars, [we did it] on the hard red earth on a blanket.”

你的触觉和口腔触觉如何？

Almost everything about sex is good to the Virgo woman. She loves to kiss. But most of all, she has wonderfully sensitive hands. She loves exploring his body with her fingers and gets very turned on when her lover takes time to move his hands around her body as if discovering it for the first time.

“I am very tactile. I especially love running my fingers through his hair.”

“Very. I love to touch and move my hands all over him and me.”

“I enjoy all: deep kissing, oral sex, even rimming as long as it’s clean.”

“I love all of it. My husband says I have an educated tongue. My favorite activities are fellatio and rimming.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

In addition to kissing, oral sex, and intercourse, Virgo enjoys a variety of other sex acts: having her breasts stimulated, cuddling, feeling skin against skin, and mutual masturbation. Some Virgo women are uncomfortable with oral sex but may be open to it with time and patience. Anal sex is of little interest.

“Oral sex makes me nervous. I worry that I’m not doing things correctly.”

“I don’t enjoy slow intercourse. I prefer rough, hard sex.”

“I don’t like anal sex, but I do like to be touched there.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

处女座的人有条不紊，善于分析。她很清楚什么能让他兴奋，该做什么动作。除了她的妙手，她还为自己能用身体的各个部位来刺激爱人而自豪。

“Using my hands and tongue together, hip moving and grinding skills … I’m also good at seducing someone and bringing him to ecstasy before we even have sex.”

“Being able to switch positions with ease and without pulling off …”

“Using my body to get my boyfriend off in the shower …”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

在性爱方面，处女座非常注重清洁，这不仅体现在环境上，也体现在她的爱人身上。刚洗过的皮肤和头发是她的春药。她还喜欢有淡淡香味的沐浴露或古龙水。

“Skin, colognes, and outside smells like grass or wood smoke, clean smells like soap or fresh laundry, sweat if it is clean sweat.”

“His personal smell … The combination of his cologne, deodorant, and body …”

“Chocolate, whipped cream, anything sweet. I like real foods, not the fake body sprays and oils and stuff.”

“After shower taste, combined with his body during sex …”

“All of him.”

幻想

“Rough sex, double-penetration, role-play (master/slave). Being punished, through sexual acts, a little roughness, physical abuse, [but] not to hurt me seriously; being tied up, being ‘raped’ by my partner.”

“My favorite is a threesome, watching my husband bend over a gorgeous woman with big, beautiful breasts, with a clean shaved vagina, while I am tied down and made to watch. Then when he is done with her, I am forced to do both of them. You can use your imagination from there and, oh, put some rough stuff in.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

很多处女座女性，包括那些喜欢口交的女性，都不喜欢精液的味道。她从不希望伤害爱人的感情，如果爱人在她的阴道内或口腔外射精，她会很感激。

“I’ll generally spit it out. I find it unpleasant, salty, and gooey.”

“Normally if I’m giving him oral sex we use some other form of stimulation for the last little bit before ejaculation.”

“It helps if he watches what he eats during the day.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

考虑到处女座为了让自己的爱人充分兴奋而在动作上下功夫，她想观察自己动作的效果也就在情理之中了。被他观察，她同样也会很自在。

“I am definitely fascinated with watching him please himself.”

“I like being watched by my partner when I am getting dressed or undressed, and I am comfortable masturbating in front of him.”

“Yes to both. I love to hear him and watch him be pleased.”

“We always look at each other in the eyes.”

幻想

“Having sex in public places where being caught is probable.”

“I think of my partner in latex outfits, and then using handcuffs and having sex in unusual positions such as the ‘wheelbarrow.”

“In the kitchen, cooking a delicious dinner, then smearing it all over my lover and having sex on the table.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Virgo cums “All the time, damn it,” or at least almost every time she has sex through oral sex, masturbation, or intercourse with clitoral stimulation.

“I climax almost all the time through intercourse or masturbation, occasionally with oral sex on me. I once had an orgasm from kissing alone. It was amazing.”

记忆

“We wanted each other so much. We were parked in a remote area and couldn’t help ourselves. We stripped off our clothes and made love in the car. A loud thunderstorm hit the area. It was incredible: the feeling of safety in his arms, the sounds of the downpour, my partner sweating, hot, with very strong thrusts and then gentle and sweet.”

你最喜欢哪个位置？

有什么理由不喜欢呢？溺爱会让她感觉被伴侣包围，而六九式总是很有趣。如果说处女座女性最喜欢的性爱方式，那就是传教士式或趴在伴侣身上。

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

她喜欢与爱人同时达到高潮的感觉，并会与他一起努力实现这一目标。

“Together. It’s awesome.”

“We try to come together; if not, we make sure each other is satisfied before finishing.”

“I love having orgasms together, but my spouse usually makes sure that I have one or two before he does. Cumming together is my favorite.”

您在性爱时会发声吗？

处女座的人可以相当大声；事实上，她的伴侣可以通过她的反应音量来衡量他做爱的成功与否。

“A little, if it’s bad … a lot if it’s good.”

“Yes, very loud moans and words.”

性爱之后你喜欢做什么？

After sex, cuddling is paramount. The Virgo woman wants a little time to relax against her partner. What happens next depends upon the time of day.

“Touch each other gently, breathe in his skin, linger in the feelings.”

“I like to lie around and talk or snooze a little; then get up and get on with the day.”

“Something together, it doesn’t matter what.”