水瓶座女性 - 性占星学

用她自己的话说

记忆

“It was Valentine’s Day and my boyfriend took me to a hotel. He blindfolded me and I had no idea where I was going or what the night had in store. He led me down a flight of stairs. I heard a key in a lock. I heard the door open and felt a sudden rush of warm air. The room was very hot and there was a smell of lavender in the air. Then my boyfriend led me through the door and told me to stay there. I heard the door close and what sound[ed] like footsteps. I thought that maybe someone else was [there]. There was a sudden flash of light and my boyfriend’s voice telling to take off the blindfold. When I did I saw a path of rose petals starting at my feet [and] leading to an upstairs room. I followed the petals and as I came up the final step I saw that the bed was covered with rose petals and surrounded by candles. As I got closer to the bed, music started to play. My guy came up behind me and put his arms around me and told me that he loved me very much. That was the best night of my life. He did everything right and made me feel very special.”

水瓶座的吸引力与约会

是什么吸引了你？

空气星座的水瓶座被头脑、思想和语言所吸引。首先吸引她注意的是男人的智慧，甚至是他的声音。她还强调诚实和有礼貌。漂亮的外表也同样重要。

“The inside of a person, his behavior and character, is what makes him attractive. I love a sense of humor, intelligence, and a person who is honest.”

“I’m usually attracted to someone’s eyes. If I feel a connection, then I begin a conversation with him. I also need someone who is fun, likes to do new and different things, is honest with me, and cares about my family.”

“I notice his eyes, energy, behavior, intelligence, sense of humor, and good manners.”

什么会让你不喜欢？

对水瓶座女性来说，缺乏自信、心胸狭窄、对时事不感兴趣以及对其他社会中人们所面临的问题总体上缺乏好奇心，这些都是水瓶座女性的首要问题。

“Vulgarity in speech or action and unclean, smoker, sarcasm, hostile nature, negativity, doom and gloom personality …”

“Ignorance, rudeness, being insulting or uneducated, bad energy, someone without confidence.”

“Rudeness, head games …”

约会时您喜欢做什么？

Aquarius enjoys being out and about. Active dates and doing things a bit out of the ordinary—going to demolition derbies, viewing the stars at an observatory, consulting a psychic—all please her more than the traditional dinner and a movie.

“Horseback riding, walking in the woods or city, listening to my favorite group playing music or any classic rock band, dancing … I like to try new things of interest to my partner.”

“Taking a drive and seeing the country, petting zoo, corny plays, short outings.”

“Doing something spontaneous, from a sports activity to dinner and theater…”

幻想

“I fantasize that my partner is a stranger to me. We encounter each other in a bar. Our eyes meet and there are a smile and a wink. He sends a drink over. I thank him by sending one to him. He comes over to thank me in person and we begin the getting-to-know-you-stage. There is light touching on the shoulder and slowly going to the arm and finally to the leg. Once my hand is on his leg I slowly rub it back and forth, letting him know that I’m interested in him. He starts to whisper in my ears things like, ‘I’ve never done this before,’ ‘there is something different about you, don’t know what it is.’ I tell him that I’m ready to leave and he is more than welcome to join me in leaving. We leave together and at the car we begin to kiss like high school kids do on their dates. He is kissing my neck and sucking on my earlobe, getting me ready to have him. I start to rub his back and I kiss his ears slowly, blowing into them. We find a hotel and make passionate love and leave at separate times, still going with the game of being strangers.”

你有情调吗？

水瓶座善于调情，但方式独特。她是一个出色的健谈者，她倾听的方式，她提问男人并让他敞开心扉讲述自己生活和工作的方式，就是她的调情方式。

“Very much so, verbal banter … I will take it to the level right before physical contact starts to take place.”

“I feel that when I flirt it is subtle and sometimes guys don’t pick up on it.”

你嫉妒吗？

For Aquarius the key words are “I know.” Her relationships are based on open communication. Her confidence in her ability to know someone results in her being fairly trusting. Nevertheless, she has somewhat of a tendency to be jealous.

“Yes, when I see a girl showing interest in my boyfriend. But, when I’m with someone I trust, then I realize that I have nothing to worry about.”

“Sometimes I get jealous, especially with someone I care about. I do have a spiritual side and tell myself if it wasn’t meant to be then let it go.”

“Yes, I have that trait and I used to be jealous but now I have a boyfriend I can trust.”

你对公开示爱有何看法？

水瓶座是代表外交的星座，她天生举止得体。她还认为亲情、爱情和性爱是健康的体验。因此，她只喜欢含蓄的公开示爱方式。

“How nice …”

“Hand-holding or putting your arm around your partner is fine, but other than that it should be kept private.”

“A hug is okay, but for anything further, there is another time and place.”

幻想

“Having sex with another female while my partner watches and is turned on.”

“Making love to my boyfriend in a pool, on the Fourth of July, with fireworks overhead. A little boring perhaps, but it has always been my fantasy.”

“I fantasize about attractive men, sometimes about one of the guys I work with. They come to my door. I welcome them in and tell them to make love to me.”

性态度和性行为

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

她每周都会有几次性生活。水瓶座女人满足于经常做爱。

“I think I am preoccupied with sex, but I’m happy having it once or twice a week.”

“I think about it maybe once a week. How often we have it depends on our schedule, but usually at least twice.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

The ideal time spent on sex for Aquarius is less than 30 minutes. Lots of time is devoted to foreplay, but not necessarily in bed. Foreplay of the verbal sort, from the hint over breakfast of things to come at night to phone sex in the middle of the day, is the major turn-on for Aquarius. Quickies can also be a lot of fun for her.

“Foreplay is sometimes the best part of making love.”

“Foreplay, all day, in small ways … anticipation is really important.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

如果气氛已定，任何时候都可以，但水瓶座主要是夜间情人。

“At night or in the morning; a nooner is good, too. Hell, any time of the day.”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

对于水瓶座女人来说，只有在与爱人进行电话性爱时，自慰才会变得有趣。

回忆

“My partner shaved my pubic hair and then performed oral sex. It was really amazing because he loved it as much as I did.”

“The first time I made love with my current boyfriend. He made me feel special and he worried about what I wanted. It was magical to me. His skin smelled amazing. The room was quiet, with the moonlight coming in the window.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Aquarius is not a woman who wants to include sex as a first date activity. Far from it. She really wants to know a man and be clear about future prospects before getting sexual.

“Ideally I want to meet a man, ask him to speak to my family members about marriage, and then jump in bed with him after that meeting to see if we are really a pair.”

“On average it is about six months.”

“I want to know someone about three to six months before getting sexual.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

水瓶座对匿名性爱不感兴趣。她的基本天性是需要言语刺激才能兴奋，这取决于她是否能与男人建立相当牢固的联系，然后才能从性爱中获得很多乐趣。

“It’s unsafe and not for me.”

“It is unsafe and self-destructive.”

记忆

“It was outside in the woods. We walked to a restaurant with our friends and had dinner. Seven of us all sat around, had some drinks, and chatted for a while. We were all on our way home and he said, ‘I have to piss,’ so he walked into the woods. The next thing I knew he grabbed my arm and pulled me in with him. He threw me up against [a] tree and we did it against the tree until we came together. Then we walked back to our friend’s house and got picked on, but it was great.”

您相信一夫一妻制吗？

For Aquarius, sex is far from being the most important part of a relationship. Communication, the world of ideas and the plans she shares with her partner matter much more. The bonds that grow out of all of these attributes give her sexual energy. Aquarius cannot form such a connection with more than one man at a time.

“Yes. When you commit yourself to someone, that commitment is both sexual and emotional.”

“I believe that monogamy is the basis for a relationship in terms of trust. The shared experiences, that special communication with exclusively one other person, makes for a much healthier relationship.”

“Yes, for the sense of trust. You know he may look at another and think about it, but he won’t have sex with anyone else.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Aquarius is a woman of ideas and inspiration. The world of emotion is more difficult for her to handle. Sex at its best is emotional, intense, and passionate. In the bond that sex helps her to experience with her partner, it becomes a spiritual act.

“Yes. I believe that when you are having sex with someone you love, both souls are coming together as one.”

“When I have sex with a man, it is like giving him a piece of my soul, an invisible attachment to him.”

“Definitely. I view sex as the bonding of two souls, which makes it much more satisfying than merely a physical experience.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Aquarius is a bit reticent about taking the initiative and it takes verbal foreplay to get her started. Considering these aspects of her nature, it makes sense that Aquarius is more comfortable when her partner begins the conversation about sex.

“Sometimes I get scared that my guy will think I’m not a ‘good girl’ if I’m the aggressive one, but there are times that I just want him so badly I forget that I’m shy.”

“No, let the man see how lovely I am and take appropriate action.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Aquarius is a verbal Sign. Words turn her on, keep her going, and add to her stimulation. Granted, words are most important before the experience is actually taking place; in the throes of passion she won’t be doing a lot of talking. Overall, she is comfortable using words along with gestures to express her sexual desires.

“Sometimes I tell him. Other times I move any part of him where I want him.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

她的性生活范围主要是主流：接吻、爱抚和性交。除此之外，水瓶座喜欢穿性感内衣，只要没有被人看到的风险，她会在公共场所做爱。在极少数情况下，她可能会在性游戏中使用食物，特别是草莓、巧克力和鲜奶油。除了振动器，她对其他性玩具兴趣不大。她的幻想基于真实事件，并倾向于浪漫。

幻想

“I remember my wedding night. Closing the hotel door, seeing him already undressing, in anticipation of what’s to come. Just the indescribable feeling of that first sexual encounter and loving him so much is all the fantasy I ever need.”

“All I do is imagine making love gently with the man I love.”

“My fantasies are very romantic and cultured: violins playing, candles, et cetera.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

在水瓶座表达对爱人的重视的方式中，有两件事是最重要的：她为爱人做饭，她认真倾听。当她给他留言、寄贺卡并在交谈中回应他时，她在各方面的沟通技巧都显而易见。

“Remember the things we talked about and fulfill those desires, getting things he especially likes for dinner, checking his horoscope and forgetting mine.”

“I leave him poems, letters; give him a kiss; cook his favorite meal.”

“Cook from scratch his favorite meals, give rubdowns for aching muscles.”

“Pick up things I know he likes when I am out, send cards and small gifts, cook food he likes, help him out, be his friend.”

记忆

“He brought flowers and helped with the dinner cleanup. On the way to the bedroom, we were all over each other with kisses and soft caresses. He rubbed his hands between my legs and we had intercourse. During the evening there was more going down on each other and more intercourse. He brought me a warm washcloth and helped clean off some of his sperm, and then continued some of his sweetness for a while. We slept.”

五感

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

For Aquarius, all of the elements that affect her senses are important. As a result, she cares about the condition of the sexual surroundings. Being in a pleasant place, one that is warm, comfortable, and clean, certainly adds to her pleasure.

“The environment elevates the whole thing. It is primo number one and it should be [at] the top of the list in sex education.”

“Very important: a clean place and I like candles burning.”

“I like a clean environment. It’s important to me.”

你喜欢在哪里做爱？

Aquarius says that sex in different locations is fun and that she likes variety. In truth, though, variety wears thin in short order. She likes the predictability, safety, and comfort of her bed, his bed, a motel, or a B&B.

“Mostly in the bedroom or elsewhere in the house like the living room, kitchen, and the bathroom; but we have had oral sex in a car and in a playground.”

“Anywhere, as long as we don’t get caught by someone else …”

“Any comfortable clean place, in the red rocks with a large blanket, or anywhere where the kids couldn’t come across us …”

“Anywhere. I am up for new things, but usually not public places.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

从音乐到大海，再到爱人的声音，所有这些声音都会为水瓶座营造出一种氛围。当她的爱人说起他想对她做什么，他想如何品尝她的身体，他想把手放在哪里时，她会在脑海中感受到他所描述的一切。对她来说，这就是最终的兴奋点。

“Being around someone who triggers that special chemistry, fragrances, music, showering, and baths get me turned on.”

“Favorite songs, nature of the environment, where I am after a day of having fun with my partner—no kids around.”

“Music, quiet place, clothes, sometimes just the sight of his naked chest and body …”

记忆

“After a warm, beautiful sunny day [of] lying on the rocks by the ocean at Beavertail listening to the sounds of the ocean and birds, and gently touching each other’s back. We came home and had a wonderful experience in bed. My boyfriend [was] very gentle and loving. He slowly and gently touched my body and brought out incredible sexual feelings I had never before experienced.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Because it is words that turn her on, the most exciting part of an adult movies for Aquarius is the soundtrack. Turn off the image and leave just the panting, the moaning, the “Yes, yes. Oh God” and she will respond.

“I wouldn’t want to watch it every day but once in a while it can spice up your sex life.”

“It depends. If it is hard core, no; if it is soft core it may enhance the relationship.”

“Sometimes intrigued, sometimes disgusted …”

“It is okay, once in a while but I don’t need it or love it.”

幻想

“I wish my man would come in, throw me down, and rip off all my clothes. He would push me down, cuff me to the bed, and do whatever he wants like eat me out until I cum on his face and lift my whole body and fuck my brains loose. I wouldn’t even mind if we both had bruises when we were done.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

当他们独自在家时，家务活都做完了，晚饭也吃完了，水瓶座喜欢伴侣坐在她身边，手牵着手。亲密的感觉很重要。性爱并不一定要随之而来。

“I like to cuddle when I’m watching a movie with my guy, or just watch TV with him.”

“My partner and I cuddle all the time. Yes, he really enjoys it.”

“All that I can get, which works in my favor because my boyfriend likes it also.”

你的触觉和口腔触觉如何？

Most of all Aquarius wants to feel things profoundly. When it comes to sex, it doesn’t matter whether her lover turns her on with his hands or his mouth. Similarly, she is equally comfortable using tactile and oral acts to stimulate her partner. Intensity matters, not method.

“I love to caress and touch. I run my hands over my guy when he is on top.”

“I love touch: doing it very lightly and plenty of it, rather like a ballet.”

“I love anything that will make him feel good, from deep kissing and kissing his body to fellatio. I am very oral.”

“I love giving oral sex to him because he is very appreciative. When we are having sex in the missionary position, I enjoy deep kissing.”

“I enjoy deep kissing on the mouth and light touching of the tongues.”

记忆

“After being away for two weeks, I returned home and saw my partner in his woodwork shop. One look. We were both horny. We started kissing softly, then deeper. Hungry for more, we began undressing each other. Sunlight streamed through the skylight. The muskiness of his body and the smell of pine on his hands turned me on. We explored each other, standing and kneeling, until we couldn’t take it anymore. Our bodies became one on the floor. We could hear nothing except each other and then slowly, very slowly, I could hear the birds in the trees and the waterfall and other signs of life as I lay there next to my best friend.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

水瓶座女性的性行为大多属于主流范围，从接吻、爱抚到阴道性交，她们都喜欢。水瓶座对肛交几乎没有兴趣。

“I do not like anal sex, mutual masturbation, or anything uncomfortable.”

“I enjoy foreplay and intercourse. Anal sex is out. We will never try that.”

“Oral, intercourse, fondling body parts with clothes on to get him in the mood. I don’t enjoy mutual masturbation.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

比起她用手或舌头做的事，水瓶座的动作方式更能让她的伴侣感到兴奋。这包括她脱衣服的性感方式，以及她在床上的反应方式。

“My best skills as a lover [are] knowing how to move my body and knowing what to say.”

“My motions, the way I move.”

“I am very flexible and strong, and like to move a lot.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

保持简单才能让水瓶座最满意。她喜欢的气味包括香皂和辛辣的古龙水。比起使用食物或身体精油和凝胶，他亲吻的味道更能让她兴奋。

“Aftershave, clean hair, and skin smells, and the taste of his mouth when we kiss.”

“Sometimes I like the taste of his sweat when I know we have been enjoying ourselves.”

“I like the smell of a man’s skin and his cologne, and the taste of anything sweet.”

回忆

“One New Year’s Eve my boyfriend and I had sex in front of the refrigerator. I had candles burning all over the house and his cologne smelled sexy and we had romantic music playing.”

“In a hotel room with ocean view: sexy lingerie, slow foreplay, smell of his body, the look in his eyes; no outside interference; and lying beside him, snuggling my head on his shoulder; talking or just relaxing.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Most often Aquarius is turned off by the taste of cum and she does not want her partner to reach orgasm during oral sex. Precum is no problem for her as she enjoys oral sex.

“I don’t like the taste so I have him take chlorophyll tablets. They’re good for breath and everything else.”

“I don’t let him cum in my mouth. I have a weak stomach.”

“I think people should keep their bodily fluids to themselves.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

What Aquarius wants in sex is to feel close to her partner, to experience a wide range of sensations. Watching and being watched become important aspects as a relationship deepens. Initially, however, she is a little shy about him watching her.

“It’s okay to be watched, but only by my boyfriend.”

“If it makes him more excited, then yes …”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

对水瓶座来说，快速做爱不一定总能达到高潮。但如果她的爱人在白天通过电话性爱和性戏谑为性行为本身做好铺垫，水瓶座几乎总能达到高潮。最常见的方式是性交和口交。

你最喜欢哪个位置？

要想通过性交达到高潮，水瓶座喜欢先口交，然后在伴侣身上跨骑。

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES.

OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Cumming together is great, but Aquarius is usually the one to reach orgasm first.

“I need to cum first, and my partner feels the same way.”

“I like to have one first.”

“Multiple orgasms for a woman are best; string a man’s out, I think.”

“Both. Some days I just want him to get there and other times I want us both there at the same time.”

“I want him to cum also, but I usually cum first.”

记忆

“Coming back from a bar, flashing people on a road, and getting so heated up. We drove so fast back to the apartment, ran upstairs, stripped as fast as we could for him to mount me doggie style and slam his cock deep inside me. Oh, how wonderful it was.”

您在性爱时会发声吗？

The Aquarius woman loves to be vocal during sex. If she is in a private place, she allows herself free rein to express the fullness of her responses —both with words and moans of pleasure.

“It is my nature to be, but we live in an apartment building so I have to be less vocal than I would like.”

“A little, we have small children in the house.”

“It’s up to my partner. I love to be vocal.”

性爱之后你喜欢做什么？

性爱之后，水瓶座希望待在家里，拥抱一下，或许一起度过一段安静的时光，然后入睡。

“Kiss passionately, hold hands, cuddle, listen to music, good conversation, sleep.”