Scorpio is the sign of extremes and with Venus in Scorpio you can be a Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde when it?comes to 关系. Once you fall in love, no-one could be more passionate?and devoted than you. You will do anything for your loved one?? climb the highest?mountain, swim the deepest sea, endure the most trying hardships. You are unflinchingly loyal and protective towards your partner?? but this can quickly turn to?possessiveness and obsession (the old Fatal Attraction syndrome).

Having a Venus in Scorpio, once your ardor has died or (heaven forbid) your lover betrays you, your love? can turn to hate overnight?? and you hate with a hostility and wounded rage that? can be very frightening to less intense people. But you demonstrate great resilience, and (once you have obtained your pound of flesh) arise Phoenix-like from?the ashes, proud, unbroken and ready to love again. Whether your ex survives the?experience as well is another matter!

As an individual with Venus in Scorpio, when looking for a new love, you like to be secretive and mysterious. You never?openly go after someone you fancy, because of your fear of rejection. Instead, with?a few subtle looks, words and actions, you draw that person to you, and make?them think they are doing all the work. And you won?t declare your feelings until?they have done so first. Only when their cards are on the table and they have?pledged their undying love?? only then will you show your hand and commit yourself to the relationship, body and soul.

With a Venus in Scorpio, you are a control freak (especially if your?Sun is in Scorpio too) and in some ways you resent falling in love because it?means losing control of your feelings. So you require a strong and stable partner,?someone who can cope with your tempestuous nature and contradictory emotions.

Additional Information on Men with Venus in Scorpio

A Venus in Scorpio man is usually attracted to a sensual, emotional women with one or more planets in Scorpio (or Pisces and Cancer, which are the other water signs). A Venus in Scorpio man appreciates a?woman with a mysterious aura?? what they see isn?t necessarily what they get?? and?they like to be constantly surprised.

金星在天蝎座的爱情兼容性指南

You and Venus in Aries

Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Aries is a very passionate combination that is either enriching or destructive???rarely in between. Problems arise from your contrasting natures. They are open and?guileless, whereas you are complex and secretive. This can lead to misunderstandings, and it takes them a while to work out that what you say isn?t necessarily?what you mean.?

You and Venus in Taurus

In the Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Taurus combination, there is an undeniable attraction here as Scorpio and Taurus are polar opposites.? You find their earthy sensuality very appealing and they are drawn to your brooding?intensity. However, you like to plumb the emotional and physical depths in a relationship, and they can be too practical and safe for your bent tastes!

You and Venus in Gemini

With a Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Gemini, your relationship needs are poles apart. Your motto is ?till death do us part? while?theirs is ?till boredom do us part?. You want deep and meaningful emotional exchange, while they want mental stimulation and carefree good times. If your Sun is in Libra and/or their Sun is in Cancer, then there is more chance of finding some?middle ground.

You and Venus in Cancer

The combination of Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Cancer makes for an intense and emotionally-charged relationship with many highs?and lows. When things are running smoothly you are a passionately devoted couple but, when you disagree, expect power struggles (Scorpion vs Crab) and long?moody silences as you withdraw from each other.

You and Venus in Leo

The Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Leo combination rates well in the longevity stakes, especially if your Sun is in?Sagittarius and/or their Sun is in Cancer. You are both loyal, passionate and full-on?about the relationship, and thrive on dramatic break-ups and tearful reunions. But?jealousy and possessiveness (on both sides) can mar an otherwise well-suited?partnership.

You and Venus in Virgo

Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Virgo makes for a stable and mutually supportive union (especially if your Sun is in?Virgo and/or their Sun is in Scorpio). You both take the relationship very seriously?and value privacy and discretion. But you can find them too discriminating and?prudish, while they worry about your obsession with the dark and seamy side of life.

You and Venus in Libra

The combination of Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Libra works best when your Sun is in Libra and/or their Sun is in Scorpio, otherwise?your emotional needs are just too different. They are into balance and you are into?extremes. They want light-hearted, romantic good times and you want to get deep,?meaningful and very intense. They want fun and companionship and you want a?life-time pact (written in blood).

You and Venus in Scorpio

In the double Venus in Scorpio combination, you both crave a deeply mystical love experience and resemble two emotional?volcanoes about to erupt. When you meet you go off! You are both so intense?about the relationship?? and so focused on each other?? that you can see little?else. Learn to lighten up and chill out occasionally or you?ll both end up emotionally drained.

You and Venus in Sagittarius

When Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Sagittarius get together, you are so intense and serious about love, whereas they are non-committal and?inconsistent with their affections. Unless you have your Sun in Sagittarius and/ or?they have their Sun in Scorpio, this pairing is bound to end in a broken heart (usually yours!)

You and Venus in Capricorn

With Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Capricorn, you both take the relationship seriously and are prepared to put in the time and effort to work any problems out. When you pull together you can accomplish great?tasks. But your emotional make-up is very different: you find their business-like approach to love hard to relate to and they find your emotional highs and lows hard?to fathom.

You and Venus in Aquarius

For the Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Aquarius, you have quite different approaches to love. You like to get extremely close and?intimate, whereas they prefer to keep their distance emotionally. This can lead to?unfulfilled needs and resentment on both sides. You do have one thing in common?though?? you are both very stubborn!

You and Venus in Pisces

The Venus in Scorpio and Venus in Pisces combination makes for a compatible and devoted partnership. Both sensitive?and tuned-in emotionally, you can reach a deep level of emotional interchange together. It?s not all smooth sailing though?? their restlessness and lack of focus?annoy you, while your possessiveness frightens them.

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