Virgo Woman

A Virgo woman is diplomatic, practical, dependent and a perfectionist due to being ruled by Mercury. She is known as a critic although will be modest and shy in some areas of her life. She pays close attention to detail in all areas of her living and loves, but cannot overlook faults, in herself or in others. Virgo women are health conscious and extremely active in today’s life style. However, they are also helpful, caring, loving and reliable. Her reliability is a strong point for her friends, making her loved by all. She supports them in everything they do and helps them solve their problems with analytical thinking. When they need her, she will always be there and believes dedication, love and loyalty to her friends are important.

When it comes to a love relationship, she is old-fashioned in her ways. She is loyal and dedicated to her partner and believes that a partnership should be a faithful, loving one. She will never cheat on her man. She is also efficient since she is able to analyze and pay attention to every detail. She will always look into the minor details to make sure today’s and every day’s work is flawless. Her analytical skills are perfect for her work. Women with this sign can seem skeptical, interfering and sometimes overly critical. However, they are often nervous but do very well at hiding it. Her interference is her trying to help her friends. She thinks she is helping them improve their lives but others won’t see it that way. She simply doesn’t realize that her ‘helpful advice’ often isn’t wanted or needed. It can lead to friends feeling uncomfortable around her.

Love relationships can be problematic too, since she will always find the faults that her other half has. She breaks down every little point in the romance, “what happened today, what happened yesterday?” this can lead to her partner feeling bad about everything. She also had a tendency to nag when there is a fault within the partnership and it can lead to negative thoughts. Virgo women are naturally worried and nervous about situations and it can cause professional tensions. She can lack confidence at work, which leads to her performance being less than adequate. Her nervousness can also lead to co-workers being annoyed with her. While a woman with the Virgo sign is helpful and caring, she can come across as critical and it can have negative consequences.

She keeps her passions on a tight rein, but underneath emotions are surging. Outwardly she may appear calm, sometimes even remote and unreachable, for the quintessential Virgo has a serene, almost classic repose. Yet hers is one of the most conflicted signs. Basically, Virgo woman distrusts and is a little afraid of emotion. To her it represents the unknown, turbulent sea on which she may be set adrift without map or compass or rudder. Because of this a man may wonder if she isn’t a bit cold. She isn’t. Virgo’s enormous capacity for loving will pour out, as from a rich treasury, once her emotions are unlocked. Virgo is a much misunderstood sign, and Virgo women particularly are often characterized as timid, evasive and reserved. This is also untrue. What Virgo women do have is self-possession, a sense of passion that is controlled by discipline.

Virgo is an earth sign, and like all the earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) she is an enigmatic combination of sensuality and conservatism. The Virgo woman likes men, but she is very careful about allowing herself to become too involved with them. Even if she’s wildly attracted to you, she shows aloofness. Her eyes and body may say come close, but her manner puts up a shield. To begin with, she would never stoop to be obvious. She knows she’s worth a man going to a lot of trouble for. Also, she fears being trapped into a long-term living arrangement with the wrong man. Before she marries or enters into a meaningful affair, she is careful to note where the exit doors are. For a Virgo woman, falling in love can take a long time. She moves forward step by step, revealing the layers of her deep sensitivity, learning to trust.

She is discriminating. Rather than go out with a man who doesn’t interest her, she’ll stay home and read a good book. This does not mean (as some have tried to imply) that she thinks lovemaking is a poor substitute for a good book. It’s just that she doesn’t mind waiting for Mr Right to come along. When he does he will find behind her cool facade a real woman waiting, warm and responsive. Meanwhile, her off-putting manner has served a useful purpose. It kept Mr Wrong from intruding where he was not wanted.

The real clue to understanding Virgo woman’s amorous nature is to remember that she believes in true love. When she truly loves, her inhibitions are never in control of her passions. She adores pleasing her man and can be extravagantly sensual, endlessly willing to experiment with techniques that heighten the ecstasy. However, this is not a woman you can take for granted. You must strive hard to win her, please her, fulfill her. If you can, you will have a partner who pays you back in lifelong dividends of love, loyalty, and happiness.