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In her own words…

A Memory

“My wedding night. Best sex of my life. The emotions of the day made me very vulnerable. It was late. We had showered and were lying in bed. He took his time. Lots of foreplay. Lots of oral sex on me, and then I had an amazing orgasm through intercourse. Quiet room and two people who really loved each other expressing that love.”

Attraction and Dating a Taurus

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

Taurus is an exceptionally physical sign. She says that energy, sense of humor, and self-confidence matter. But, in fact, appearance and being in good shape are indispensable.

“He has to be in shape. That shows he cares about himself and it spills over into the rest of his personal life. Penis size does matter.”

“It is all one big package: physical appearance, as well as sense of humor, and being emotionally available.”

“Physique and eyes, confidence, sense of humor, [being] physically fit but not preoccupied with himself …”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Talking about his other lovers, being out of shape, and being cheap all turn Taurus off. A man need not be rich to involve a Taurus, but he must have financial security. Stability and security are crucial to her.

“I don’t like aggressiveness like some people say ‘come suck this.’ Taking the romance or sensuality out of sex is a big turnoff.”

“No sense of humor, dirty fingernails, being cheap, putting others down.”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

The Taurus woman has an inner quality rather like Cinderella. She wants her man to ride in on a white steed, make that a stretch limo, and take her off for a magical night. But no, he doesn’t have to do that every time. She enjoys quiet evenings and an occasional concert. One constant on any date is sharing food, whether at home or at a restaurant.

“I like having fun, to go out and do something. A weekend at Daytona Bike Week is the best date I ever had. Fun, adventure, and more fun, but I also enjoy cooking dinner together and hanging out at home.”

“Dinner, walk in the park, art show, something outside. Not going to a movie, being stuck inside. I love nature.”

“I enjoy time with just him and me, and time with crowds, walking on the beach in the late day, riding bikes, going to concerts, hanging out at the local pub with friends.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

Taurus is flirtatious. Her innate warmth is attractive to men and, although she is loyal by nature, her partner had best let her know she is appreciated or she’ll find a way to compensate.

“Often my general friendliness is mistaken for flirtation. Well, I guess I just enjoy flirting on many levels.”

“Yes, with anyone I find attractive to see if they are attracted to me.”

“Yes, very much so especially because my husband, a Capricorn, is too work-oriented and doesn’t give me the kind of attention I crave. I got that from my gorgeous former lover. Wow! He was something.”

Her fantasies reveal how important it is for her partner to be attentive.

Fantasies

“Having sex with my former boss in a secluded area somewhere. Him paying total, one hundred percent, attention to me.”

“My ultimate fantasy is romantic and sensual. The more my partner wants to seduce and satisfy me, the more arousing it is. The more he reacts when I tease or seduce him, the greater the arousal for me.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

For Taurus the key words are “I have.” She holds on to things that are important to her and definitely has a possessive streak.

“I can be, but only in my insecurities. When I feel confident and secure with myself and a partner I am not jealous.”

“Yes, I feel jealous, but on the other hand, if another woman can take my man, then I never had him to start with.”

“I like to be secure in my relationships or it won’t work.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Taurus considers public displays of affection pretty natural, within limits, of course. It pleases her to have her lover show the world his affection by holding her arm and hugging her in public.

“Great within reason, hand-holding, caressing, kissing. Groping is out. If you look and act like you need a room, get one.”

“I’m not overly showy, but some can be exciting, like sneaking a handful in a crowded place or slipping off to somewhere more intimate, but in general I like mild affection in public, hand holding, a few kisses or strokes.”

“If it’s not too bold I like it, but grabbing at the crotch or breast, no.”

A Memory

“I was not quite nineteen and a virgin. He was my first lover, a lifeguard, tanned, and fit. He invited me to a party, after which we went back to his place, a dive of a beach house. We had extremely physical sex that night and several more times in the following weeks. I was an avid runner/cyclist at the time, very muscular and strong. The first night we rolled about his bed and I threw him off and we rolled all around the floor.”

“When he began intercourse, I pushed him off me with my legs—it hurt, especially because I was pretending it wasn’t my first time. Then I let him crawl back on top of me and repenetrate me. We slept. Later, I woke up and he spread some lubricant between my breasts and proceeded to rub his penis between them until he came. We fell asleep again—we must have had sex six or seven times. The smell was sweaty and full of release, of salty air and cum. I loved it. Sex with this guy was like [with] two wild animals. It was quite fantastic, the loss of my virginity in a mixture of passion, pain, aggressiveness, summer, ocean, pride, and strength.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Taurus thinks about sex almost every day and would like to have sex that often. If time doesn’t permit, she will be content with four encounters weekly.

“I’d like sex every day, some days more than once.”

“I don’t have a partner right now, but this questionnaire is making me want to go out and find a man right away.”

“How often depends on how happy I am with my partner. If he’s good to me, every day …”

“I’d say four or five times a week at least would be a good average.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Taurus, being a highly physical Earth Sign, likes to take her time having sex. Foreplay should never be less than 15 to 30 minutes. She wants to make sure that every one of her erogenous zones is attended to. Quickies can be fun, though not as a steady diet.

“I love foreplay, in-between play, after play, foreplay to round 2, 3, 4, 5, et cetera. All sensual touch is wonderful.”

“I want more than an hour, quickies, not really. I would rather have long, slow sex.”

“Lots, though sometimes we get impatient … When we are most relaxed, it is the best and we enjoy it for a long time.”

A Fantasy

“Passionate kissing, staying at a bed and breakfast, romantic settings, the roar of the ocean, the smells of flowers, fresh sheets, soap, the ocean.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

She relaxes when the sun goes down, and so Taurus prefers to have sex in the early evening or at night.

“Anytime, but twilight is a very sexy time.”

“All times … I am primarily comfortable after my daughter goes to sleep or when she isn’t home. I could spend all day in bed, but nighttime is more often my chosen time.”

HOW OFTEN DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

She seldom pleases herself, primarily because this very earthy woman wants to share sex with a partner. It just isn’t very gratifying by herself.

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Taurus is not a sign that likes to feel rushed. That’s manipulation in her book and it will make her wary. If she feels comfortable, she’ll become sexual in short order. Generally, Taurus wants to know a man for a few weeks before going further than some hugs and kisses.

“It depends on the chemistry. I can feel very sexual and close with someone in a short time. I want to know there’s mutual affection and respect along with the sexual attraction, and that takes a bit of time.”

“It’s not so much the time as it is the quality of time spent. Most often, more than a few weeks …”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

On no level does casual sex fit Ms. Taurus’ personality. The physical is too important to her and her feelings are easily hurt.

“It can be unsafe, and why would I want to give my body casually anyway?”

“It usually screws me up; I always think it will be less trouble than it is. I used to wish that I was better able to handle casual sex. I’m better off without it.”

“I did it for physical reasons, but suffered emotionally.”

Fantasies

“Being with a woman, performing oral sex on another woman, or being with two men.”

“I often think about being with a woman and her performing oral sex on me with my boyfriend or another guy helping himself.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

Considering that Taurus is somewhat jealous and is the Sign of stability and security, in her relationships she is loyal and expects monogamy in return.

“Monogamy helps build trust to experiment and to enjoy lovemaking, not just sex.”

“Yes, I don’t like sharing sexual partners or the chance of getting a disease.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Taurus may be considered the most physical Sign of the zodiac. It is the Sign that fully appreciates the value of all things tangible, and all things that she touches. This idea extends to relationships, especially sexual ones. As a result Taurus views sex as spiritual.

“Yes. It is almost like meditation, you are not thinking, just feeling. You feel a connection to the person, to the universe, and to God.”

“When the mind and the body and the soul and the heart touch each other during sex, then it is very great sex and it is spiritual. I don’t always have sex like this, but I have felt it happen this way.”

“Yes, it is the melding of two spirits.”

“Intimacy, good sex, can leave you spiritually fulfilled. It is healing as well as gratifying.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

With her appetite for sex, once the relationship has become sexual, Taurus is not shy about initiating.

“Yes. If I’ve already been intimate with a man, then watch out!”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

She starts with gestures and progresses to words, as time passes and the relationship deepens.

“If he doesn’t get my more subtle gestures, I feel it’s only right to tell him what I want.”

“I do so verbally, but only after knowing him better.”

“Mostly by gestures, but if need be I will come out and say what I want.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

She is primarily a mainstream lover and far prefers sensuality, touching and kissing, to the use of toys or role-playing activities. Of all activities beyond straightforward sex, the one that Taurus most likely enjoys is incorporating food into sex play.

“I think those toys are a turnoff, frankly, and get in the way of the sensuous experience of making love, clean and natural.”

The Tauran who is more experimental might be open to anal sex, spanking, bondage, having sex in public places, role-playing in underwear, and would like to have attention paid to her feet.

“I want to explore and experiment. I’ve always been a little off mainstream, and I’m opening to more and more.”

“I am very open, but I don’t usually initiate kinky activities because I don’t think my lover is interested in it.”

In her fantasies she is usually forced to have sex and often with two partners.

A Fantasy

“Being captured and forced to be a sex slave to a powerful man or woman. Having to worship and service a man or group of men. Being part of a group of women who are sexual servants to one man. Being trained to obey, worship, and sexually satisfy a particular powerful man for a long period. Being penetrated in all orifices at the same time. Being fed through fellatio and not having any other source of nourishment. Having a man feed me with his penis as a baby uses a bottle. Having intercourse with one man while performing fellatio on another man, usually in a ritualistic setting/context. Living only to please one man sexually while spending my ‘off-time’ in bed pleasuring myself with a woman friend. This man has complete control over both of us.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Taurus is a remarkably caring and loyal lover. She has a knack for buying just the right gift for her partner and generally shows affection for him through her attentiveness.

“I buy him little gifts, things I know he likes, and stock his favorite kind of ice cream in the freezer. I might initiate a new little sexual experience, adding something in that he has dreamed of.”

“Do things for him, pick up his clothes, call when I am going to be late, buy him things, touch him.”

“I love doing things for my partner. I love to touch and kiss when he is not expecting it. I just love to show him how much I care.”

“Having things ready for him, anticipating what he will need. Love notes, initiating sex, taking some of his workload off him.”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

Taurus cares about being warm. Beyond that, the environment for sex is not overly important, though cleanliness and soft lighting are a plus.

“Cleanliness is a big issue. The others just fall into place.”

“The only thing that matters to me is lighting—no harsh lights. I do like candlelight, clean sheets are important: I hate crumbs or gritty sheets.”

“I prefer candlelight and a space that is somewhat neat, but I am not overly picky, especially if I’m with a man I’ve known quite a while.”

“Not as important as our feeling for each other at that moment, but it can set the mood.”

Memories

“Making love on a balcony in Barbados, overlooking the ocean. The sound of the ocean, the soft trade winds, the bright moon.”

“The first time my husband and I did it on his mother’s couch, when she was upstairs sleeping. It was risky, fast, and aggressive.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

Anywhere that can be comfortable and warm will suit a Taurus—most of the time that’s the bedroom. Of course, if that bedroom is in a cozy bed and breakfast or in a motel by the sea, her pleasure will be enhanced.

“I used to like having it wherever I wanted it: library, floor, car, beach. Now I wait ’til we get home to enjoy the comfort of a warm bed. Maybe at twenty-eight I’m just getting old.”

“Bedroom … I’d love to do it outdoors or in a public place, but my husband will have no part of it.”

“Primarily where I am comfortable, in the bedroom, but I like a bit of adventure too.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Taurus is a very sensual woman. Stimulating her senses, sights, sounds, smells, and tastes are her turnons. Passionate kissing and a massage will almost always work, and food definitely will. From preparing a meal together to dining out to even shopping at the supermarket, food will get all her senses juicy.

“Exercising, Indian food, when he cooks me a great meal.”

“Sunsets by the ocean, seeing my lover in a jock strap or nude, the roar of the ocean, jazz music, my lover whispering …”

“Music, hot salsa Latin beats, being near the ocean, walks in the park, getting undivided attention from my mate, dinner with just the two of us.”

“Eating strawberries with whipped cream …”

“Sexy music, love scenes in a movie (not porn), showering together, talking about sex with my husband, snuggling …”

A Memory

“My partner came over to pick me up for the evening. He walked in, told me I looked beautiful, and locked the door behind him. He ravished me right there. He was assertive, but not aggressive, dressed nicely, and smelled like he had just stepped out of the shower. When we went for dinner afterward, all I could think about was how wonderful it was and how I couldn’t wait to get home and do it all over again.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD PORNOGRAPHY?

Above all, Taurus is the Sign of touch. It is the physicality of being with her partner, the feeling of intimacy, and passionate kissing that excite her. Pornography is a poor substitute for caring embraces.

“Pornography is just so unemotional. It is mechanical. I don’t care for it.”

“It can be okay as a casual thing, but porn shouldn’t be necessary to get turned on. If it is, then something else is wrong.”

“I love erotic stories more than movies.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

Taurus loves physical closeness. Watching TV, she wants to be right beside her partner. Out walking, she wants to hold hands. She enjoys falling asleep in her lover’s arms.

“A ton, [I] love the sensual feeling of skin to skin.”

“I love affection. Holding hands, feet or head in the other’s lap while watching a movie, a stroke or a hug as you walk past, falling asleep in each other’s arms, all that and more.”

“I enjoy cuddling all the time with my honey.”

“Cuddling is okay, but I would rather have sex.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

This extremely sensual woman is equally tactile and oral. She loves running her hands all over her partner, deep kissing, and both performing and receiving oral sex.

“I want to know every spot on his body.”

“I think touching and exploring is a definite turn-on.”

“I enjoy deep kissing very much: his mouth, his body, giving fellatio, and receiving cunnilingus.”

“I am really oral. I like kissing all over his body … all over. He likes when I do that.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

Her favorite sex acts include intercourse, kissing, and oral sex. Her least favorite sex acts are mutual masturbation and anal intercourse, though some amount of anal play is okay.

“Oral sex is great. Fondling / touching all over is great. I love kissing. I like having intercourse with his finger penetrating my ass.”

Fantasies

“To rub my partner with yogurt and lick it all off. To slide my tongue up and down his body until we are both wild with passion.”

“I have sex with a special guy in my bed and use strawberries and cream. I spray the cream on his penis and I lick it off with my tongue while romantic music is playing.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

She is especially skillful at exciting her partner with the use of her hands. Whether giving him a very sexual massage or masturbating him, her touch is remarkable.

“I give great massages. I also love to kiss and lick.”

“How I use my hands to stroke his penis, and the way I use my tongue to lick all over his body.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

She loves the smell of his clean skin right after a shower and finds it fun to use food on occasion. Non-sticky foods like whipped cream work better than honey. If her lover wants to put food on her body, all she asks is that it be nice and warm.

“I love that clean smell, like right after a shower, but something about just plain and simple man smell is great. Many colognes smell fabulous, too.”

“I love the salty taste of skin, but I like to add love oils and food play. I really like that, too.”

“The taste of their skin, the saltiness of their sweat …”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

She seldom has a problem with this and when she is in a committed relationship Taurus is usually comfortable swallowing. The Tauran who objects to the taste tries to avoid getting cum in her mouth, but she still likes performing oral sex.

“It’s not a problem. I usually swallow. Sometimes I rub it on him or myself.”

“I swallow, but use the deep throat method. That way it doesn’t really pass over my tongue.”

“There’s no taste to it, except sweetness. Sometimes I swallow, occasionally spit it out.”

“I like the taste of my partner’s cum. I swallow it mostly or rub it on me.”

“The taste is nasty, but I like giving head. I don’t swallow.”

A Fantasy

“Being led by a man who I know is my soul mate into a luxurious suite in a posh hotel, great fabrics and scents around. We lounge on overstuffed couches, drink wine, fill the Jacuzzi with bubbles and very hot water, sit in it together and take lots of time to explore each other’s bodies, [and] then make love over and over. Later, doing the same on the huge high bed, on the couches, and the deck. It is intimate, emotional, and yet also extremely physical.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

Taurus enjoys watching her partner during sex and climax but isn’t so sure about being watched. She is, by nature, a bit self-conscious.

“I normally close my eyes, but [I] do like to see his eyes light up and [I] watch him sometimes.”

“Recently I have come to enjoy being watched. It is new to me, but quite pleasurable if I am comfortable with a man.”

“It is okay for him to watch me if it turns him on.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Taurus doesn’t achieve orgasm every time she has sex. To ensure that she does requires oral or digital stimulation of her clitoris. Intercourse by itself won’t bring her to climax on any regular basis.

“I will reach orgasm every time there is oral sex performed on me. It doesn’t happen through intercourse. I wish it could because I love intercourse.”

“I don’t climax as often as I would like with my partner. He usually only makes it happen when he gives me oral sex.”

“I have an orgasm pretty regularly, thank God!”

“Unfortunately, masturbation is the only way that I have been able to achieve.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

She enjoys a range of sexual positions, though to achieve orgasm, woman on top and spooning are most successful. Being on top allows Taurus to grind her clitoris against her partner. Spooning is a good position for combining masturbation with intercourse.

“Being on top, spooning, and sixty-nine are the positions by which I’m most likely to achieve orgasm.”

“Woman on top is great, and doggie style is great, and all the rest is great too.”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING A PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

While it’s exciting to achieve orgasm simultaneously with her partner, this is a rare experience for Taurus. When she does have an orgasm, it is usually before her partner.

“I like getting to orgasm at separate times so that each of us can focus on the other.”

“I try to climax before my partner. Reaching orgasm together is the ultimate, but [it’s] not always possible.”

She understands that it’s difficult for her partner to bring her to climax through masturbation.

“I usually have to please myself after sex to satisfy myself. My husband has tried, but it goes on and on and I just end up sore.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

From moderately to quite a lot, Taurus vocalizes her pleasure. Sometimes talking dirty really adds to her sexual pleasure.

“Yes. I moan and make comments and talk dirty.”

“I am very vocal. Yahoo!”

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

Most of all Taurus wants her lover to spend some time interacting with her: talking, cuddling, and even watching TV. She doesn’t want her lover to roll over immediately and go to sleep.

“Walk by the ocean, hold hands, laugh together, talk …”

“Be massaged, kiss, hold hands, listen to music, cuddle, stay in bed, laugh together.”

“Anything as long as we are doing it together … It makes me feel that I am not there just for the sex.”

“Afterward, talk, cuddle. Beyond that depends on the time of day.”

“Shower and do it again and again.”