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O amintire

“In a freshly cleaned house, we showered and washed each other, [and] then he carried me to the bed. There were scented candles going, adding enough light to see and be flattering. There were flowers in a vase placed where I could look at them from the bed. He smelled so fresh and his skin was soft. We rubbed lotion on each other. Then we made love. Very soft, very romantic.”

Atracția și întâlnirile cu o Fecioară

CE VĂ ATRAGE LA CINEVA?

Fecioara este foarte pretențioasă. Dimensiunea penisului contează: prea mare poate fi o problemă, prea mic va dezamăgi.

“What attracts me is confidence and a dominant attitude. Physique counts: I hate flabby men. His hands must be sensitive in sex.”

“First a man’s smile, eyes, looks, energy, intelligence, warmth, humor. Physical attributes important to me, height, not too skinny, not bald, penis size not tiny.”

“Eyes, definitely, overall outward appearance, and the way he dresses. Penis size is important to me.”

CE TE-AR PUTEA OPRI?

Fecioara arată atât de impecabil de îngrijită, ca și cum ar putea respinge scamele, și așteaptă același lucru de la bărbatul ei. Neatenția la igienă o va îndepărta întotdeauna.

“No sense of humor, bad hygiene, no goals in life, always complaining, obesity.”

“Poor choice [in] clothing, bad teeth or breath, sloppiness or messiness, poor hygiene (I am a Virgo, after all) …”

“I like a man who is squeaky clean—good and clean enough to eat—so bad breath, not being well-groomed, or a man who is unshaved all repel me.”

CE VĂ PLACE SĂ FACEȚI LA O ÎNTÂLNIRE?

Cel mai adesea, femeia Fecioară apreciază timpul liniștit alături de partenerul ei. Ocazional, îi plac drumețiile, navigația și participarea la târgurile județene. De asemenea, îi place să meargă la librării, galerii de artă și magazine de antichități.

“Something different, like a carnival or a zoo; something other than a movie, which is so boring; a chance to talk and laugh, get to know each other, even if it’s just driving.”

“Ice skating, dinner, concert, theater, museum, movies, maybe a boat ride, sit and have coffee, walk.”

“Dinner and dancing, then going parking … Sex in the car or giving head on the highway.”

“Anything out of the ordinary is better, like 4-wheeler mudding, but a movie is okay.”

O amintire

“A party at a high rise. We went up several floors in the service elevator. My boyfriend hit the stop button, pushed me against the wall, pulled my skirt up, hoisted me to his waist, and shoved his extremely hard cock into me. He fucked me hard, grinding against my clit. I came almost immediately. He kept his hand over my mouth to keep me from screaming. He didn’t cum, but [then he] took me up to the roof, bent me over the railing, and fucked me from behind for a good hour. He made me cum over and over before cumming himself.”

FLIRTEZI?

Surprisingly, the reputed “Virgin” is a flirt. She may be coy about it, but she turns on the charm with ease almost anywhere and almost anytime.

“Very flirtatious. I am married but not dead. I can read the menu; I just can’t eat off it.”

“Yes, I frequently make sexual jokes and comments with people who respond positively to me.”

“I like to ‘car flirt’ with cute guys driving next to me.”

“I know when not to be or when enough is enough.”

EȘTI GELOS?

Fecioara este un semn analitic. În cadrul relațiilor sale, ea este atentă și conștientă de ceea ce se întâmplă. Este mai probabil să fie furioasă decât geloasă dacă crede că bărbatul ei nu îi acordă atenția cuvenită sau acordă prea multă atenție unei alte femei.

“A little, but not to the point of being psycho … I like my possessions and am cautious about who I allow playing with them.”

“I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who would put me in the position of having to act jealous. It is a very undignified feeling and behavior.”

CE PĂRERE AVEȚI DESPRE MANIFESTĂRILE PUBLICE DE AFECȚIUNE?

Manifestările publice subtile de afecțiune sunt întotdeauna frumoase pentru Fecioară. Uneori, chiar și a merge un pic mai departe de atât este, de asemenea, plăcut.

“I’m very open to it: good for me and the public. I think people enjoy seeing it. I know I do. It is exciting and a turn-on for me.”

“I love showing public affection. I want the world to see how much he means to me.”

“Less is more. Too much is just gross. I can’t stand having a man all over me in public.”

“I think they are great, as long as they are measured. Holding hands is okay, but not getting too physical.”

Atitudini și comportamente sexuale

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX

The Virgo woman may not think about sex every day, but she’d like to make love daily. She’ll settle for three or four times per week.

“I like sex as often as possible, but I don’t want to climax every time. I enjoy being desired sexually.”

“Always … I am not kidding.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Preludiul nu trebuie să fie îndelungat, ci doar suficient de lung pentru a o excita foarte tare. Ea este expresivă și atât de receptivă încât se așteaptă ca partenerul ei să știe când este timpul să treacă de la preliminarii la evenimentul principal. Ocazional, i se potrivesc momentele rapide, dar ea preferă să nu se grăbească.

“What is most important to me is how much time is available. Quickies are okay, but longer [sessions with] more foreplay are better.”

“Any amount of time: quickies or long sessions. I enjoy the closeness, intimacy, being wanted by a man, quickie or not. As to foreplay, a half-hour would be great, but 10 to 15 minutes will suffice.”

“Thirty minutes or so depending on feelings at the time and, yes, quickies can be good fun.”

Fantezii

“A man who really loves me approaches me with loving-kindness, talks to me, appreciates me verbally, and handles me. I am fully comfortable with him. We find a quiet bedroom for foreplay and intercourse. We live together forever.”

“Sex with men I don’t know, with more than one man, with other women, being watched during sex or masturbation, and having that person be turned on. My fantasies often feature receiving oral sex rather than intercourse.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

She’ll make herself available at any time. “I’ll take it whenever I can get it,” she says, but she really does have her preferences. As far as sex in the morning, Virgo prefers coffee first please. If at night, before she gets too tired.

“Not first thing in the morning and not too late at night when I’d rather be sleeping.”

“As long as I am awake …”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

She believes that sex is good for her health so if she has no lover, she takes care of herself. Virgo usually pleasures themselves about three times a week.

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Her answer almost always begins with, “It depends.” The determining factor in Virgo’s mind is developing some sense of emotional closeness. What’s tricky is that she will want some indication from a potential lover that he’s interested in her before signaling that she has such an interest herself.

“It depends on how long it takes for us to be in love. I don’t like being sexual unless there is love.”

“It depends on the person and how comfortable I feel with him.”

“That depends on the kind of relationship I want with a man.”

O amintire

“Candles lit in a white room. A king-size bed. The blinds are up and it’s not yet dark. We play some gentle music and get out the plastic bed cover and sundae ingredients. We take turns being a sundae and scream while getting licked free of the most delectable sweets.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Sexul ocazional nu este atrăgător pentru Fecioară, în principal pentru că această zodie are o urmă de ipohondrie și îi este teamă să nu contracteze o boală cu transmitere sexuală.

“It’s unwise to have multiple partners, for physical and emotional reasons.”

“It is unsafe and leaves you feeling empty.”

“I am not into casual sex. I have to have some feelings for a man before I can be intimate.”

CREZI ÎN MONOGAMIE?

Absolutely. Being health-conscious, as well as a woman who takes a little while before allowing a relationship to become intimate, one lover at a time is it for Virgo.

“I can’t bring myself to share.”

“Yes, I think in order to fulfill one’s wildest fantasies, there can only be one lover.”

“I give and expect monogamy in a committed relationship.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Fecioara consideră intimitatea sexului extrem de importantă și satisfăcătoare, bună pentru sănătate și care trebuie practicată în mod regulat. Experiența sexuală se ridică la nivelul spiritualității.

“I wouldn’t call it spiritual, but I believe it is very special between two people who care deeply about each other.”

“Yes, I feel it brings us together in a way that no other action can. It unites us as one.”

“I think that sex is an act of sharing your soul, a sacred energy exchange that shouldn’t be abused or taken too lightly.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Cu natura ei analitică și capacitatea de a-și înțelege partenerul, Fecioara știe când subiectul este potrivit. Cu toate acestea, este mai probabil ca ea să își semnaleze dorința și apoi să aștepte ca bărbatul să ia inițiativa.

O amintire

“At our beach house in the spa, mid-afternoon, blue sky, sun beating down, birds chirping, and the smell of fresh[ly] mowed grass. We started kissing, stripped off our clothes. He was caressing my body and sucking on my nipples, driving me crazy. He turned off all but two jets and positioned me so that one was on my clit and one was on my anus. It felt like he was in me both ways at the same time. He turned the pressure up to maximum. I exploded.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Let’s face it; Virgo wants to get it right. She may be a tad reticent initially but in short order, she will be specific, telling her lover how to please her, letting him know what’s working and what isn’t.

“Both. I will say it first and if that doesn’t work, I will move his hands where I want them, then moan to let him know that that is right.”

“I used to do to my partner what I wanted him to do to me, thinking that he would pick up the hint. I have learned to be specific with words to get what I need.”

“I use words most of the time. My partner and I have great communication. We always check in with each other about likes, dislikes, and trying new things.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Fecioara tradițională, Fecioara, este mainstream în gama ei de sexualitate, care include mângâieri, sex oral și relații sexuale. Îi place sexul de lungă durată și este foarte fizică, făcând tot posibilul pentru a-și satisface partenerul. Dar, pe lângă Fecioară, simbolul antic al Fecioarei era nimfa, frumoasă și foarte sexuală.

În timp ce ambele tipuri de femei Fecioară sunt foarte corecte în public, Nimfa este o tigroaică în mișcare și efecte sonore, și totul în intimitatea dormitorului. Această Fecioară își dorește un bărbat care să fie bine dotat. Îi va plăcea să îl excite prin sex oral și apoi va munci ca naiba pentru a-l pregăti pentru o a doua rundă.

This Virgo’s range of sexual behaviors goes from just beyond vanilla sex all the way to kinky. She may be willing to try bondage, dominance and submission, role-playing, wearing costumes and boots, using hot wax, incorporating food, being spanked, and being shaved. For sex toys she’ll try vibrators, dildos, handcuffs, paddles, and anal beads.

“My favorite summer treat [is] filling a condom with water and freezing it. The cold of that and the warmth of his penis are great.”

“I like to use cucumbers and hand-carved dildos.”

Fanteziile Fecioarei includ parteneri multipli, voyeurism și elemente de dominare și supunere.

O fantezie

“A wonderful dinner in a candlelit room with a hooded man dressed in leather. Dinner finished, he grabs a handful of my hair and tells me that the training will commence now. A night on my knees, in a cage, hanging, being flogged and tortured— followed by his wonderful raping of my bound and gagged body. Afterward, he cradles me and looks deeply into my eyes and tells me how happy he has been with everything.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Virgo shows her affection primarily with attentiveness, by extending herself for her lover. She strives to maintain an impeccable home and to serve tasty, well-balanced meals. Her intention is to make him feel comfortable, relaxed, and attended to.

“Soft kisses, cooking, massage, compliments, even doing things I don’t want to [do in order to] accommodate him.”

“When my husband comes home from work, I make him a gourmet dinner and wait on him hand and foot. I enjoy making him happy. I derive great pleasure from this.”

“Making sure that he is taken care of in any way and listening to him is important.”

Cele cinci simțuri

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

Fecioara spune că nu este prea pretențioasă în ceea ce privește decorul pentru sex, dar apoi continuă să enumere elementele care contează. După cum se pare, mediul contează destul de mult, în special ca acesta să fie curat și cald.

“I don’t care too much about the setting for sex but clean, crisp, new sheets are a decided turn-on.”

“I don’t care about the décor but if it’s not clean, that’s a deal-breaker.”

“It’s not too important, once you are at ease with a person. Candlelight preferred, the temperature comfortable and, of course, a clean environment.”

Amintiri

“It was about 95 degrees and we were outside on a blanket. It was so hot, from both the sex and the weather, that we were completely drenched in sweat and were licking it off each other’s [bodies] and rubbing our sweaty bodies together.”

“Nighttime, full moon, swimming pool, candles. [We] started out skinny dipping. Night insects, aggressiveness, our own talking in whispers and being watched by some high school boys.”

“Outside on the grass, under the stars on a warm summer’s eve, we started kissing and fondling each other. After a half-hour I couldn’t take it anymore and I had to have him in me.”

UNDE ÎȚI PLACE SĂ FACI SEX?

Locul ei preferat pentru sex este dormitorul, dar Fecioara spune că este deschisă să facă dragoste în orice loc care îi îndeplinește criteriile. Așadar, oferă-i un loc curat și confortabil la plajă sau într-o mașină și va spune că este de acord.

“Anywhere that is not physically uncomfortable and [is] fairly private.”

“Bedroom mostly, but the other parts of the house are fair game … Also the woods on a nice summer day or night.”

“Bedroom, shower, kitchen, and out on the deck.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Atingerea este răspunsul scurt. Fecioara vrea ca toate simțurile și întregul ei corp să fie implicate în crearea stării de spirit pentru sex. Să mergi direct la zonele ei erogene poate fi în regulă pentru o partidă ocazională de sex rapid, dar nu pentru a o face să se simtă bine pentru o noapte de sex minunat. Acest lucru necesită mai multă atenție, aprecierea curbei coapsei ei, a locului de la baza gâtului, a despicăturii din bărbie sau a părții interioare a cotului.

“Seeing my husband toweling off after a shower does it every time. He still turns me on like a light switch.”

“Seeing sex in movies, thinking of sex, bathing, talking dirty, using a vibrator.”

“I love it when we are both clean and fresh smelling, music, fresh sheets, pretty scenes like a vase of flowers next to the bed, or a good smelling candle.”

O amintire

“Historic hotel, Bourbon Street, New Orleans, midday, sunlight streaming through the windows, comfy bed with big pillows, quiet, smells of clean laundry. We’d just bought a vibrator system for couples. WOW! My partner used it and oral sex to keep me on the edge of climax for so long [that] my lower abdominal muscles ached the next day. Usually our sex is mostly about him. This day it was all about me and he indulged me very well.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Virgo likes some adult media. She admits that it’s a turn-on but she also finds it occasionally unpleasant. The adult films she prefers have something of a storyline, maybe some romance—or at least some intrigue. They are more than sex scenes and cum shots.

“It can be hot, but it can also be incredibly tawdry and / or repulsive. It depends on what is done and how it is done.”

“I like to watch it, but on the other hand I can see how it can be destructive.”

“I hate to admit it, but I like the soft or mainstream stuff. Playboy and Penthouse are intriguing. I like a good adult movie now and then, but nothing kinky or weird.”

“Occasionally I like it. I find the more gentle images appealing.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

Virgo loves to touch and be touched at rather specific times and in specific places. She’s too busy most of the time to have a lover grabbing for her while she’s getting things done. But she very much appreciates indications of his love for her in the form of cuddling in the evening—whether or not that leads to sex.

“I love to cuddle. That is one of my favorite things. Every night when we get the kids to bed and watch a little TV, he lays his head in my lap. I stroke his hair. And in bed we cuddle and watch TV and fall asleep.”

“I love to be held before and after sex. The feeling of being embraced by someone you love is awesome.”

Amintiri

“A great dinner at a beautiful restaurant. Back home, he lit candles. We took a long bath together, made love in the bathtub, and then in the bedroom, where the only light came from moonlight and a single candle. It was slow and gentle, then rough and wild.”

“In the Outback, at about midnight, those wonderful country smells, almost full moon, lots of stars, [we did it] on the hard red earth on a blanket.”

CÂT DE TACTIL ȘI CÂT DE ORAL EȘTI?

Almost everything about sex is good to the Virgo woman. She loves to kiss. But most of all, she has wonderfully sensitive hands. She loves exploring his body with her fingers and gets very turned on when her lover takes time to move his hands around her body as if discovering it for the first time.

“I am very tactile. I especially love running my fingers through his hair.”

“Very. I love to touch and move my hands all over him and me.”

“I enjoy all: deep kissing, oral sex, even rimming as long as it’s clean.”

“I love all of it. My husband says I have an educated tongue. My favorite activities are fellatio and rimming.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

In addition to kissing, oral sex, and intercourse, Virgo enjoys a variety of other sex acts: having her breasts stimulated, cuddling, feeling skin against skin, and mutual masturbation. Some Virgo women are uncomfortable with oral sex but may be open to it with time and patience. Anal sex is of little interest.

“Oral sex makes me nervous. I worry that I’m not doing things correctly.”

“I don’t enjoy slow intercourse. I prefer rough, hard sex.”

“I don’t like anal sex, but I do like to be touched there.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

Fecioara are totul pregătit, organizat și analizat. Ea știe exact ce îl excită și ce mișcări să facă. Dincolo de mâinile ei minunate, este mândră de abilitatea ei de a-și excita iubitul cu toate părțile corpului ei.

“Using my hands and tongue together, hip moving and grinding skills … I’m also good at seducing someone and bringing him to ecstasy before we even have sex.”

“Being able to switch positions with ease and without pulling off …”

“Using my body to get my boyfriend off in the shower …”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

Când vine vorba de sex, curățenia contează pentru Fecioară, nu doar în mediul înconjurător, ci și pe iubitul ei. Pielea și părul, proaspăt spălate, sunt afrodisiacul ei. De asemenea, îi place o aromă ușoară de loțiune de corp sau o atingere de apă de colonie.

“Skin, colognes, and outside smells like grass or wood smoke, clean smells like soap or fresh laundry, sweat if it is clean sweat.”

“His personal smell … The combination of his cologne, deodorant, and body …”

“Chocolate, whipped cream, anything sweet. I like real foods, not the fake body sprays and oils and stuff.”

“After shower taste, combined with his body during sex …”

“All of him.”

Fantezii

“Rough sex, double-penetration, role-play (master/slave). Being punished, through sexual acts, a little roughness, physical abuse, [but] not to hurt me seriously; being tied up, being ‘raped’ by my partner.”

“My favorite is a threesome, watching my husband bend over a gorgeous woman with big, beautiful breasts, with a clean shaved vagina, while I am tied down and made to watch. Then when he is done with her, I am forced to do both of them. You can use your imagination from there and, oh, put some rough stuff in.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Multor femei Fecioară, inclusiv celor cărora le place sexul oral, nu le place gustul spermei. Ea nu vrea niciodată să rănească sentimentele iubitului ei și apreciază dacă acesta ejaculează în vaginul ei sau în afara gurii ei.

“I’ll generally spit it out. I find it unpleasant, salty, and gooey.”

“Normally if I’m giving him oral sex we use some other form of stimulation for the last little bit before ejaculation.”

“It helps if he watches what he eats during the day.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

Având în vedere că Fecioara depune efort în mișcările pe care le face pentru a-și excita iubitul la maximum, este logic că ea ar dori să urmărească efectele acțiunilor sale. Ea se simte la fel de confortabil să fie observată de el.

“I am definitely fascinated with watching him please himself.”

“I like being watched by my partner when I am getting dressed or undressed, and I am comfortable masturbating in front of him.”

“Yes to both. I love to hear him and watch him be pleased.”

“We always look at each other in the eyes.”

Fantezii

“Having sex in public places where being caught is probable.”

“I think of my partner in latex outfits, and then using handcuffs and having sex in unusual positions such as the ‘wheelbarrow.”

“In the kitchen, cooking a delicious dinner, then smearing it all over my lover and having sex on the table.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Virgo cums “All the time, damn it,” or at least almost every time she has sex through oral sex, masturbation, or intercourse with clitoral stimulation.

“I climax almost all the time through intercourse or masturbation, occasionally with oral sex on me. I once had an orgasm from kissing alone. It was amazing.”

O amintire

“We wanted each other so much. We were parked in a remote area and couldn’t help ourselves. We stripped off our clothes and made love in the car. A loud thunderstorm hit the area. It was incredible: the feeling of safety in his arms, the sounds of the downpour, my partner sweating, hot, with very strong thrusts and then gentle and sweet.”

CARE ESTE POZIȚIA TA PREFERATĂ?

Ce să nu-i placă? Spooning-ul o face să se simtă învăluită de partenerul ei, iar șaizeci și nouă este întotdeauna distractiv. Dacă femeia Fecioară are preferințe, acestea includ sexul în stilul misionar sau statul deasupra partenerului.

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Îi place să atingă punctul culminant simultan cu iubitul ei și va lucra cu el pentru a face acest lucru posibil.

“Together. It’s awesome.”

“We try to come together; if not, we make sure each other is satisfied before finishing.”

“I love having orgasms together, but my spouse usually makes sure that I have one or two before he does. Cumming together is my favorite.”

SUNTEȚI VOCAL ÎN TIMPUL SEXULUI?

Fecioara poate fi destul de vocală; de fapt, partenerul ei poate măsura succesul actului sexual după volumul răspunsului ei.

“A little, if it’s bad … a lot if it’s good.”

“Yes, very loud moans and words.”

DUPĂ SEX CE VĂ PLACE SĂ FACEȚI?

After sex, cuddling is paramount. The Virgo woman wants a little time to relax against her partner. What happens next depends upon the time of day.

“Touch each other gently, breathe in his skin, linger in the feelings.”

“I like to lie around and talk or snooze a little; then get up and get on with the day.”

“Something together, it doesn’t matter what.”