Femeia Vărsător - Astrologie sexuală

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O amintire

“It was Valentine’s Day and my boyfriend took me to a hotel. He blindfolded me and I had no idea where I was going or what the night had in store. He led me down a flight of stairs. I heard a key in a lock. I heard the door open and felt a sudden rush of warm air. The room was very hot and there was a smell of lavender in the air. Then my boyfriend led me through the door and told me to stay there. I heard the door close and what sound[ed] like footsteps. I thought that maybe someone else was [there]. There was a sudden flash of light and my boyfriend’s voice telling to take off the blindfold. When I did I saw a path of rose petals starting at my feet [and] leading to an upstairs room. I followed the petals and as I came up the final step I saw that the bed was covered with rose petals and surrounded by candles. As I got closer to the bed, music started to play. My guy came up behind me and put his arms around me and told me that he loved me very much. That was the best night of my life. He did everything right and made me feel very special.”

Atracția și întâlnirea cu un Vărsător

CE VĂ ATRAGE LA CINEVA?

Semnul de aer Vărsător este excitat de minte, idei și cuvinte. Intelectul unui bărbat și chiar sunetul vocii sale sunt primele care îi atrag atenția. De asemenea, ea pune accentul pe sinceritate și pe bunele maniere. Nici aspectul frumos nu strică.

“The inside of a person, his behavior and character, is what makes him attractive. I love a sense of humor, intelligence, and a person who is honest.”

“I’m usually attracted to someone’s eyes. If I feel a connection, then I begin a conversation with him. I also need someone who is fun, likes to do new and different things, is honest with me, and cares about my family.”

“I notice his eyes, energy, behavior, intelligence, sense of humor, and good manners.”

CE TE-AR PUTEA OPRI?

Pentru femeia Vărsător, lipsa de încredere se află în fruntea listei, alături de mentalitatea îngustă, dezinteresul față de afacerile curente și o lipsă generală de curiozitate față de problemele cu care se confruntă oamenii din alte societăți.

“Vulgarity in speech or action and unclean, smoker, sarcasm, hostile nature, negativity, doom and gloom personality …”

“Ignorance, rudeness, being insulting or uneducated, bad energy, someone without confidence.”

“Rudeness, head games …”

CE VĂ PLACE SĂ FACEȚI LA O ÎNTÂLNIRE?

Aquarius enjoys being out and about. Active dates and doing things a bit out of the ordinary—going to demolition derbies, viewing the stars at an observatory, consulting a psychic—all please her more than the traditional dinner and a movie.

“Horseback riding, walking in the woods or city, listening to my favorite group playing music or any classic rock band, dancing … I like to try new things of interest to my partner.”

“Taking a drive and seeing the country, petting zoo, corny plays, short outings.”

“Doing something spontaneous, from a sports activity to dinner and theater…”

O fantezie

“I fantasize that my partner is a stranger to me. We encounter each other in a bar. Our eyes meet and there are a smile and a wink. He sends a drink over. I thank him by sending one to him. He comes over to thank me in person and we begin the getting-to-know-you-stage. There is light touching on the shoulder and slowly going to the arm and finally to the leg. Once my hand is on his leg I slowly rub it back and forth, letting him know that I’m interested in him. He starts to whisper in my ears things like, ‘I’ve never done this before,’ ‘there is something different about you, don’t know what it is.’ I tell him that I’m ready to leave and he is more than welcome to join me in leaving. We leave together and at the car we begin to kiss like high school kids do on their dates. He is kissing my neck and sucking on my earlobe, getting me ready to have him. I start to rub his back and I kiss his ears slowly, blowing into them. We find a hotel and make passionate love and leave at separate times, still going with the game of being strangers.”

FLIRTEZI?

Vărsătorul este cochet, dar într-un mod unic. Este o conversaționistă minunată, iar felul în care ascultă, felul în care pune întrebări unui bărbat și îl face să se deschidă în legătură cu viața și munca lui, este forma ei de flirt.

“Very much so, verbal banter … I will take it to the level right before physical contact starts to take place.”

“I feel that when I flirt it is subtle and sometimes guys don’t pick up on it.”

EȘTI GELOS?

For Aquarius the key words are “I know.” Her relationships are based on open communication. Her confidence in her ability to know someone results in her being fairly trusting. Nevertheless, she has somewhat of a tendency to be jealous.

“Yes, when I see a girl showing interest in my boyfriend. But, when I’m with someone I trust, then I realize that I have nothing to worry about.”

“Sometimes I get jealous, especially with someone I care about. I do have a spiritual side and tell myself if it wasn’t meant to be then let it go.”

“Yes, I have that trait and I used to be jealous but now I have a boyfriend I can trust.”

CE PĂRERE AVEȚI DESPRE MANIFESTĂRILE PUBLICE DE AFECȚIUNE?

Vărsătorul este semnul diplomației și ea este în mod natural manierată. De asemenea, consideră că afecțiunea, dragostea și sexualitatea sunt experiențe sănătoase. Ca urmare, îi plac doar formele subtile de manifestare publică a afecțiunii.

“How nice …”

“Hand-holding or putting your arm around your partner is fine, but other than that it should be kept private.”

“A hug is okay, but for anything further, there is another time and place.”

Fantezii

“Having sex with another female while my partner watches and is turned on.”

“Making love to my boyfriend in a pool, on the Fourth of July, with fireworks overhead. A little boring perhaps, but it has always been my fantasy.”

“I fantasize about attractive men, sometimes about one of the guys I work with. They come to my door. I welcome them in and tell them to make love to me.”

Atitudini și comportamente sexuale

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Sexul este în mintea ei de câteva ori pe săptămână. Femeia Vărsător este mulțumită să facă sex doar atât de des.

“I think I am preoccupied with sex, but I’m happy having it once or twice a week.”

“I think about it maybe once a week. How often we have it depends on our schedule, but usually at least twice.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

The ideal time spent on sex for Aquarius is less than 30 minutes. Lots of time is devoted to foreplay, but not necessarily in bed. Foreplay of the verbal sort, from the hint over breakfast of things to come at night to phone sex in the middle of the day, is the major turn-on for Aquarius. Quickies can also be a lot of fun for her.

“Foreplay is sometimes the best part of making love.”

“Foreplay, all day, in small ways … anticipation is really important.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

Oricând va fi bine dacă atmosfera a fost stabilită, dar Vărsătorul este în primul rând un iubitor de noapte.

“At night or in the morning; a nooner is good, too. Hell, any time of the day.”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

Pentru femeia Vărsător, masturbarea este distractivă doar atunci când face sex prin telefon cu iubitul ei.

Amintiri

“My partner shaved my pubic hair and then performed oral sex. It was really amazing because he loved it as much as I did.”

“The first time I made love with my current boyfriend. He made me feel special and he worried about what I wanted. It was magical to me. His skin smelled amazing. The room was quiet, with the moonlight coming in the window.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Aquarius is not a woman who wants to include sex as a first date activity. Far from it. She really wants to know a man and be clear about future prospects before getting sexual.

“Ideally I want to meet a man, ask him to speak to my family members about marriage, and then jump in bed with him after that meeting to see if we are really a pair.”

“On average it is about six months.”

“I want to know someone about three to six months before getting sexual.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Vărsătorul nu este interesat de sexul anonim. Natura ei de bază, care are nevoie de stimulare verbală pentru a se excita, depinde de o conexiune destul de solidă cu un bărbat înainte de a putea obține multă plăcere din sex.

“It’s unsafe and not for me.”

“It is unsafe and self-destructive.”

O amintire

“It was outside in the woods. We walked to a restaurant with our friends and had dinner. Seven of us all sat around, had some drinks, and chatted for a while. We were all on our way home and he said, ‘I have to piss,’ so he walked into the woods. The next thing I knew he grabbed my arm and pulled me in with him. He threw me up against [a] tree and we did it against the tree until we came together. Then we walked back to our friend’s house and got picked on, but it was great.”

CREZI ÎN MONOGAMIE?

For Aquarius, sex is far from being the most important part of a relationship. Communication, the world of ideas and the plans she shares with her partner matter much more. The bonds that grow out of all of these attributes give her sexual energy. Aquarius cannot form such a connection with more than one man at a time.

“Yes. When you commit yourself to someone, that commitment is both sexual and emotional.”

“I believe that monogamy is the basis for a relationship in terms of trust. The shared experiences, that special communication with exclusively one other person, makes for a much healthier relationship.”

“Yes, for the sense of trust. You know he may look at another and think about it, but he won’t have sex with anyone else.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Aquarius is a woman of ideas and inspiration. The world of emotion is more difficult for her to handle. Sex at its best is emotional, intense, and passionate. In the bond that sex helps her to experience with her partner, it becomes a spiritual act.

“Yes. I believe that when you are having sex with someone you love, both souls are coming together as one.”

“When I have sex with a man, it is like giving him a piece of my soul, an invisible attachment to him.”

“Definitely. I view sex as the bonding of two souls, which makes it much more satisfying than merely a physical experience.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Aquarius is a bit reticent about taking the initiative and it takes verbal foreplay to get her started. Considering these aspects of her nature, it makes sense that Aquarius is more comfortable when her partner begins the conversation about sex.

“Sometimes I get scared that my guy will think I’m not a ‘good girl’ if I’m the aggressive one, but there are times that I just want him so badly I forget that I’m shy.”

“No, let the man see how lovely I am and take appropriate action.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Aquarius is a verbal Sign. Words turn her on, keep her going, and add to her stimulation. Granted, words are most important before the experience is actually taking place; in the throes of passion she won’t be doing a lot of talking. Overall, she is comfortable using words along with gestures to express her sexual desires.

“Sometimes I tell him. Other times I move any part of him where I want him.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Gama ei de sexualitate este în primul rând mainstream: săruturi, mângâieri și relații sexuale. În afară de aceasta, Vărsătorului îi place să poarte lenjerie sexy și va face sex în locuri publice, atâta timp cât nu există riscul de a fi văzută. În rare ocazii, poate fi dispusă să folosească alimente în jocurile sexuale, în special căpșuni, ciocolată și frișcă. Are un interes scăzut pentru jucăriile sexuale, altele decât vibratoarele. Fanteziile ei sunt bazate pe evenimente reale și tind spre romantism.

Fantezii

“I remember my wedding night. Closing the hotel door, seeing him already undressing, in anticipation of what’s to come. Just the indescribable feeling of that first sexual encounter and loving him so much is all the fantasy I ever need.”

“All I do is imagine making love gently with the man I love.”

“My fantasies are very romantic and cultured: violins playing, candles, et cetera.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Două lucruri domină în lista modalităților prin care Vărsătorul își arată respectul pentru iubitul ei: gătește pentru el și îl ascultă cu atenție. Abilitatea ei remarcabilă în toate domeniile comunicării este evidentă atunci când îi lasă mesaje, îi trimite felicitări și îi răspunde în conversație.

“Remember the things we talked about and fulfill those desires, getting things he especially likes for dinner, checking his horoscope and forgetting mine.”

“I leave him poems, letters; give him a kiss; cook his favorite meal.”

“Cook from scratch his favorite meals, give rubdowns for aching muscles.”

“Pick up things I know he likes when I am out, send cards and small gifts, cook food he likes, help him out, be his friend.”

O amintire

“He brought flowers and helped with the dinner cleanup. On the way to the bedroom, we were all over each other with kisses and soft caresses. He rubbed his hands between my legs and we had intercourse. During the evening there was more going down on each other and more intercourse. He brought me a warm washcloth and helped clean off some of his sperm, and then continued some of his sweetness for a while. We slept.”

Cele cinci simțuri

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

For Aquarius, all of the elements that affect her senses are important. As a result, she cares about the condition of the sexual surroundings. Being in a pleasant place, one that is warm, comfortable, and clean, certainly adds to her pleasure.

“The environment elevates the whole thing. It is primo number one and it should be [at] the top of the list in sex education.”

“Very important: a clean place and I like candles burning.”

“I like a clean environment. It’s important to me.”

UNDE ÎȚI PLACE SĂ FACI SEX?

Aquarius says that sex in different locations is fun and that she likes variety. In truth, though, variety wears thin in short order. She likes the predictability, safety, and comfort of her bed, his bed, a motel, or a B&B.

“Mostly in the bedroom or elsewhere in the house like the living room, kitchen, and the bathroom; but we have had oral sex in a car and in a playground.”

“Anywhere, as long as we don’t get caught by someone else …”

“Any comfortable clean place, in the red rocks with a large blanket, or anywhere where the kids couldn’t come across us …”

“Anywhere. I am up for new things, but usually not public places.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Sunetele, de la muzică la ocean și până la vocea iubitului ei, toate contribuie la crearea atmosferei pentru Vărsător. Când iubitul ei vorbește despre ce vrea să îi facă, cum vrea să îi savureze corpul, unde vrea să își pună mâinile, în mintea ei simte toate lucrurile pe care el le descrie. Asta, pentru ea, este cea mai mare excitare.

“Being around someone who triggers that special chemistry, fragrances, music, showering, and baths get me turned on.”

“Favorite songs, nature of the environment, where I am after a day of having fun with my partner—no kids around.”

“Music, quiet place, clothes, sometimes just the sight of his naked chest and body …”

O amintire

“After a warm, beautiful sunny day [of] lying on the rocks by the ocean at Beavertail listening to the sounds of the ocean and birds, and gently touching each other’s back. We came home and had a wonderful experience in bed. My boyfriend [was] very gentle and loving. He slowly and gently touched my body and brought out incredible sexual feelings I had never before experienced.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Because it is words that turn her on, the most exciting part of an adult movies for Aquarius is the soundtrack. Turn off the image and leave just the panting, the moaning, the “Yes, yes. Oh God” and she will respond.

“I wouldn’t want to watch it every day but once in a while it can spice up your sex life.”

“It depends. If it is hard core, no; if it is soft core it may enhance the relationship.”

“Sometimes intrigued, sometimes disgusted …”

“It is okay, once in a while but I don’t need it or love it.”

O fantezie

“I wish my man would come in, throw me down, and rip off all my clothes. He would push me down, cuff me to the bed, and do whatever he wants like eat me out until I cum on his face and lift my whole body and fuck my brains loose. I wouldn’t even mind if we both had bruises when we were done.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

Atunci când sunt singuri acasă, când treburile casnice au dispărut și cina s-a terminat, Vărsătorului îi place ca partenerul ei să stea lângă ea și să se țină de mână. Sentimentul de apropiere contează. Sexul nu trebuie să urmeze.

“I like to cuddle when I’m watching a movie with my guy, or just watch TV with him.”

“My partner and I cuddle all the time. Yes, he really enjoys it.”

“All that I can get, which works in my favor because my boyfriend likes it also.”

CÂT DE TACTIL ȘI CÂT DE ORAL EȘTI?

Most of all Aquarius wants to feel things profoundly. When it comes to sex, it doesn’t matter whether her lover turns her on with his hands or his mouth. Similarly, she is equally comfortable using tactile and oral acts to stimulate her partner. Intensity matters, not method.

“I love to caress and touch. I run my hands over my guy when he is on top.”

“I love touch: doing it very lightly and plenty of it, rather like a ballet.”

“I love anything that will make him feel good, from deep kissing and kissing his body to fellatio. I am very oral.”

“I love giving oral sex to him because he is very appreciative. When we are having sex in the missionary position, I enjoy deep kissing.”

“I enjoy deep kissing on the mouth and light touching of the tongues.”

O amintire

“After being away for two weeks, I returned home and saw my partner in his woodwork shop. One look. We were both horny. We started kissing softly, then deeper. Hungry for more, we began undressing each other. Sunlight streamed through the skylight. The muskiness of his body and the smell of pine on his hands turned me on. We explored each other, standing and kneeling, until we couldn’t take it anymore. Our bodies became one on the floor. We could hear nothing except each other and then slowly, very slowly, I could hear the birds in the trees and the waterfall and other signs of life as I lay there next to my best friend.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

Rămânând în cea mai mare parte în gama mainstream a actelor sexuale, femeia Vărsător iubește totul, de la săruturi și mângâieri până la actul sexual vaginal. Vărsătorul are puțin sau deloc interes pentru sexul anal.

“I do not like anal sex, mutual masturbation, or anything uncomfortable.”

“I enjoy foreplay and intercourse. Anal sex is out. We will never try that.”

“Oral, intercourse, fondling body parts with clothes on to get him in the mood. I don’t enjoy mutual masturbation.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

Mai mult decât ceea ce face cu mâinile sau cu limba, modul în care se mișcă Vărsătorul este cel care îi încântă cel mai mult partenerul. Acest lucru include modul sexy în care se dezbracă până la felul în care răspunde în pat.

“My best skills as a lover [are] knowing how to move my body and knowing what to say.”

“My motions, the way I move.”

“I am very flexible and strong, and like to move a lot.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

Păstrează lucrurile simple pentru a satisface cel mai mult Vărsătorul. Mirosurile care îi plac includ săpunurile parfumate și cologenele picante. Gusturile săruturilor lui o vor excita mai mult decât folosirea alimentelor sau a uleiurilor și gelurilor de corp.

“Aftershave, clean hair, and skin smells, and the taste of his mouth when we kiss.”

“Sometimes I like the taste of his sweat when I know we have been enjoying ourselves.”

“I like the smell of a man’s skin and his cologne, and the taste of anything sweet.”

Amintiri

“One New Year’s Eve my boyfriend and I had sex in front of the refrigerator. I had candles burning all over the house and his cologne smelled sexy and we had romantic music playing.”

“In a hotel room with ocean view: sexy lingerie, slow foreplay, smell of his body, the look in his eyes; no outside interference; and lying beside him, snuggling my head on his shoulder; talking or just relaxing.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Most often Aquarius is turned off by the taste of cum and she does not want her partner to reach orgasm during oral sex. Precum is no problem for her as she enjoys oral sex.

“I don’t like the taste so I have him take chlorophyll tablets. They’re good for breath and everything else.”

“I don’t let him cum in my mouth. I have a weak stomach.”

“I think people should keep their bodily fluids to themselves.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

What Aquarius wants in sex is to feel close to her partner, to experience a wide range of sensations. Watching and being watched become important aspects as a relationship deepens. Initially, however, she is a little shy about him watching her.

“It’s okay to be watched, but only by my boyfriend.”

“If it makes him more excited, then yes …”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

O partidă rapidă poate să nu ducă întotdeauna la orgasm pentru Vărsător. Dar atunci când iubitul ei pregătește scena cu sex la telefon în timpul zilei și cu glume sexuale care conduc la actul în sine, Vărsătorul ajunge aproape întotdeauna la orgasm. Cel mai adesea, acest lucru se întâmplă prin intermediul actului sexual și al sexului oral.

CARE ESTE POZIȚIA TA PREFERATĂ?

Pentru ca Vărsătorul să ajungă la orgasm prin intermediul actului sexual, preferă mai întâi sexul oral și apoi să fie deasupra partenerului și să îl încalece.

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES.

OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Cumming together is great, but Aquarius is usually the one to reach orgasm first.

“I need to cum first, and my partner feels the same way.”

“I like to have one first.”

“Multiple orgasms for a woman are best; string a man’s out, I think.”

“Both. Some days I just want him to get there and other times I want us both there at the same time.”

“I want him to cum also, but I usually cum first.”

O amintire

“Coming back from a bar, flashing people on a road, and getting so heated up. We drove so fast back to the apartment, ran upstairs, stripped as fast as we could for him to mount me doggie style and slam his cock deep inside me. Oh, how wonderful it was.”

SUNTEȚI VOCAL ÎN TIMPUL SEXULUI?

The Aquarius woman loves to be vocal during sex. If she is in a private place, she allows herself free rein to express the fullness of her responses —both with words and moans of pleasure.

“It is my nature to be, but we live in an apartment building so I have to be less vocal than I would like.”

“A little, we have small children in the house.”

“It’s up to my partner. I love to be vocal.”

DUPĂ SEX CE VĂ PLACE SĂ FACEȚI?

După sex, Vărsătorul vrea să rămână acasă, să se îmbrățișeze puțin, poate să petreacă puțin timp liniștit împreună și apoi să meargă la culcare.

“Kiss passionately, hold hands, cuddle, listen to music, good conversation, sleep.”