As an individual with Mars in Libra, you can literally charm the pants off a potential lover. Sex is very important to you?and you?ll make sure you get it?? but in an oh-so-charming way! You never ask a?date: ?Do you want to go to bed?? Such talk is too crass and obvious for you?? besides, with a tender kiss, a persuasive look and a well-timed compliment you can?achieve the same desired result.
Having Mars in Libra, this may sound calculating but it isn?t, for sweet-talking and romancing is?second nature to you. One reason for this is the great emphasis you place on good?manners and social etiquette?? even in the bedroom. The second reason is your?fear of rejection. If you ask a direct question, ?Do you want to sleep with me??, then?you run the risk of receiving a direct refusal, ?No, I don?t!?. Such a blatant rejection?would be too harsh for your delicate sensibilities, so you employ a more subtle and?refined approach.
With Mars in Libra, you are an extremely skilled, attentive and considerate lover. A mutually satisfying sexual experience, with plenty of give and take, is important to you and your motto could well be ?We aim to please?. Although you hate anything remotely grub -?by or distasteful (a quickie in the back of a car after a sweaty five-mile run is definitely out!) you can be unfaithful and even promiscuous. This is because you find?it difficult to say ?no? for fear of hurting the other person?s feelings. If an attractive?person propositions you at a party, you may find their advances hard to refuse even though you have a much-loved partner waiting at home. With Mars in Libra, you can also remain in an?unsatisfactory relationship long after you should have left because you abhor confrontations or unpleasantness of any kind. So you can find it easier to two-time a?lover than to say goodbye.
Self-assertion?for a Mars in Libra
As an individual with Mars in Libra, you are not good at asserting yourself in an open, up-front way. This is because?you loathe arguments or confrontations and are willing to accept peace at any price in order to avoid them. Used negatively, this can mean. You are indecisive and fail?to take a firm stand on anything. Used positively, you can be a masterly diplomat?and peacemaker?? whether in the home, at work or on the world stage.
Additional Information on Women with Mars in Libra
A Mars in Libra woman is usually attracted to a sociable, well-presented man with one or more planets in Libra (or Aquarius and Gemini, which are the other air signs). A Mars in Libra woman appreciates a?man who is romantic, with plenty of social graces and a keen intellect (the Neanderthal type definitely does not appeal).
Mars in Libra Love Compatibility Guide
You and Mars in Aries
In the Mars in Libra and Mars in Aries combination, at first you are put off by their brash and none-too-subtle sexual signals?? but you?soon succumb. There is an undeniable sexual attraction between the two of you, as?Libra and Aries are polar opposites. You love pleasing them and they love being the?boss, but your sex life can become very predictable as you do all the giving and? they do all the taking.
You and Mars in Taurus
With effort and persistence a Mars in Libra and Mars in Taurus relationship can work well. You both like to be thoroughly prepared for lovemaking, and enjoy creating an aesthetic and sensual atmosphere in?the bedroom. Good sex usually follows, but you can quickly become complacent about what pleases the other.
You and Mars in Gemini
In the Mars in Libra and Mars in Gemini combination, they are sexually spontaneous (and you hate to make love when you?re unwashed,?unperfumed and generally unprepared), so the motto here is ?Be prepared?. Other?than that, you are well suited in bed?? you don?t reach a level of deep emotional exchange, but you do have a lot of fun.
You and Mars in Cancer
The Mars in Libra and Mars in Cancer combination can work well as you are both considerate and eager to please. You are into?gentle, relaxed, comfortable lovemaking (nothing hurried or tawdry) and obtain?endless satisfaction from anticipating?? and then fulfilling?? each other?s desires.? Plus you both place a lot of importance on companionship, in and out of bed.
You and Mars in Leo
Mars in Libra and Mars in Leo makes for an indulgent and hedonistic relationship. You both get off on turning lovemaking into a major pleasurable event, and love escaping on extravagant?dirty weekends (of course you would never call them that!). You adore dressing?and undressing each other, plus lots of pampering, bubble baths, massages,?French champagne, and eating chocolates in bed?? all help to kick start your vital?urges.
You and Mars in Virgo
In the Mars in Libra and Mars in Virgo combination, you both set very high standards in the bedroom. Spotless hygiene, good manners?and refined technique are required before you can relax enough to let go and really?enjoy making love together. Minor irritations? You get annoyed with their fussy, nitpicking ways, while they complain that you place too much emphasis on outer appearances.
You and Mars in Libra
In the double Mars in Libra combination, the sexual pairing resembles a scene out of a Jane Austen novel, as you are both?big on romance, flirtation, etiquette and good taste. So your lovemaking is a?sophisticated and oh-so-civilized activity, sandwiched between shopping sprees,?thoughtful compliments and sparkling conversation.
You and Mars in Scorpio
Mars in Libra and Mars in Scorpio can be a sexual mismatch. You find their carnal desires too dark and debauched for your cultured sexual tastes (and they are so intense and moody!) You?prefer to view lovemaking as a pleasurable activity to be enjoyed at the end of a?busy day of socializing?? after a gourmet meal and before your beauty sleep.
You and Mars in Sagittarius
In the Mars in Libra and Mars in Sagittarius combination, there is a strong mental and physical rapport going on here. They really fire up?your libido and get you doing racy things you never thought yourself capable of! And you help refine and perfect their explosive sexual energy. After a while though,?you may start longing for a less exhausting bedmate.
You and Mars in Capricorn
Although a Mars in Libra and Mars in Capricorn relationship can start off well, sexual relations usually end up very cool between?the two of you. Neither of you is particularly fiery or emotional in bed, so you both?need lovers who are fiery and/or emotional to really get you going. However, because you are both ambitious, you often accept uninspiring sex as part of a union?of social benefit and convenience.
You and Mars in Aquarius
In the Mars in Libra and Mars in Aquarius combination, even though these are both air signs and you are very compatible as friends and? colleagues, this pairing often doesn?t work (or last) sexually. They are too off-beat?and experimental, and they need to take regular breaks from the relationship to go off and be free and liberated. While they are away, you too will find it tempting to?stray (usually into the arms of a partner who shows you more attention and consideration).
You and Mars in Pisces
Mars in Libra and Mars in Pisces are both into subtle seductions?? candlelit dinners, tender kisses and moonlight swims?? where anticipation and romance set the stage for mutually satisfying?lovemaking. There are differences, though?? they love to lose themselves totally in?the sexual experience, whereas you prefer to maintain some self-control and decorum (especially if the lights are on!).
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