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In his own words…

A Memory

“Lying inserted under warm covers, quiet and long, and eventually we’re floating and there is this hot light coming through my back, through my penis, and filling her belly. I don’t even feel my penis; it is just this fast flow of light between us. It goes on and on, as orgasmic waves come and go.”

Attraction and Dating a Cancer

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

When it comes time for a committed relationship, the Cancer man wants a woman with certain traditional family values. It pleases him if she likes to cook and tend the garden, and he loves watching her with children. After all, Cancer is the Sign that represents home and family. Initially, however, he notices a woman’s smile, her weight, her looks in general, and especially her breasts. Beyond that a woman’s behavior and energy are important in holding his attention.

“Weight and beauty are important to me, but I would not say that I am into body worship, not one bit. A woman’s smile, energy, and behavior matter to me more.”

“First attraction: large breasts and a goodsized butt. After that, it is how she moves.”

“The first thing I notice is femininity. I like curves; then lots of hair, nice hands, welltended fingernails and toenails, lovely skin, and full lips.”

“I am attracted to a woman who comes across as self-assured and strong. Nice breasts and great eyes are a definite plus.”

“I must admit that I first notice a woman’s breasts, and [I] prefer them large. A sense of humor is important to me, and I like a woman who is not too thin.”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Cancer has a fair amount of pride. He wants his partner to look good, to stay near him, and he loves having other people notice her. As a result, her presentation in public—the way she dresses, carries herself, and behaves—all matter to him. He dislikes a woman who is loud or narrow-minded, and he may be turned off if she smokes. In addition, even though he likes a lot of physical attention, hugs, and holding hands, he does not like a woman to be too clingy. A range of personal behaviors that will turn Cancer away includes smoking, and being overly possessive, loud, or narrow-minded.

“The behaviors I dislike include talking too much about herself, being too clingy, being loud, or lacking discretion or respect.”

“Generally I get along with all people, but bitchiness and obnoxious behavior turn me off.”

“When I see a woman wearing sloppy clothing [and] who is generally unkempt, even if she is beautiful, I am not interested.”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

In the human body, the Sign of Cancer rules the stomach. This is the man for whom the adage that

“the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” was written. From dining out to a wine, cheese, and bread picnic, buying chili dogs at a kiosk in the park, or preparing a home-cooked meal, sharing food is indispensable for a successful date with Cancer. In addition to that he enjoys many outdoor activities.

“I enjoy eating out together and doing something quiet like taking a walk or a drive by the water.”

“For me a good date might include conversation, hand holding, laughing, dancing, a good meal together, spending time in nature.”

“Dinner, movies, long conversations, and long drives …”

A Fantasy

“I visualize women in positions indicating that they are about to have sex. They might be lying nude on a bed, or seated with legs apart and not wearing underwear, or bending over exposing thong undies. Sometimes I imagine absurd situations such as a secretary up on the desk baying like a hound while the UPS guy pokes her from behind. Some of these images come to have an iconic status in my mind.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

Cancer has a warm personality, a way of drawing people out. Men and women find themselves opening up to him, telling him perhaps more than he wants to know about their lives. This quality attracts women to him. Is it flirtatiousness? He says yes.

“Yes. Paying that kind of attention to people makes them feel better about themselves and perhaps about me, too.”

“I like to be flirtatious when I feel confident.”

“I think by nature I am flirtatious, but I am also a bit reticent.”

“I can be very flirtatious.”

“It seems to me that I am a little flirtatious, but so subtly that most people do not even notice.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

His nature is not inherently jealous, but Cancer will acknowledge that he is possessive. He wants his mate to stay by his side when out in public, and his insecurities are triggered if she behaves too flirtatiously with others.

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Cancer is highly sexual. He is very into touch and he craves affection. Nevertheless, there is a proper time and place for everything and when it comes to displaying ardor, Cancer thinks that place is away from the eyes of others. He is embarrassed by anything beyond a casual hug in public.

“So-so. Keep it limited, please.”

“I do not like them. I get a little embarrassed.”

“I enjoy holding hands, but I prefer to maintain decorum wherever I am.”

“I disapprove of them unless in an environment specifically designed for them. I have been to fetish clubs where there are sex scenes being acted out and that’s fine. But out on the street, in front of people of all ages, that’s not for me.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Being a highly sexual Sign, Cancer thinks about sex frequently each day. Triggers include aromas that remind him of his partner, but not necessarily the scent of her shampoo or cologne. It might be coffee or cinnamon that will bring her to his mind. The Cancer man enjoys having sex about four times per week.

“I think about it a lot, at least daily. Some weeks it is on my mind throughout the day.”

“Sometimes it seems to me that I am preoccupied with it and go through periods when I want sex seven times a week.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Overall, time is not an important variable for Cancer. He enjoys sessions that last from 15 minutes to two hours, depending on the situation and the mood. Sometimes he enjoys having a quick encounter followed by a longer session that might include a slower buildup, say with an hour for foreplay. Quickies are not particularly appealing to Cancer.

“I will perform foreplay as long as she likes and spend as much time as I can having sex.”

“Both quickies and maybe two hours … we lose all sense of time.”

“I enjoy quickies, 15 minutes, half hour, whatever.”

“Not into the fore and after idea. It is all sex. When do I poke? Depends …”

“I spend three hours at a time having sex. I don’t enjoy quickies.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

Cancer is unlikely to say no to sex at any time of the day or night, but he does have some preference for evening.

“My preference is late afternoon when the sun has gone down some.”

“I like to have sex in the afternoon or evening. I meditate in the morning.”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

The Cancer man pleasures himself on average four times a week.

A Memory

“I had been watching a sex animation video and was feeling really turned on. I went to a local bar where I met a very pretty woman and got into [a] conversation with her. No more than five minutes passed before we started kissing. She invited me to her place. We left the bar immediately, got to her place quite quickly, and had repeated urgent sex, both oral and intercourse. All I remember about her apartment was the dim lighting. The sex was rough and fast and mutually satisfactory.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Given the highly sexual nature of this Sign, it stands to reason that Cancer expects to become physical very quickly, possibly on the first date.

“Five minutes.”

“Very quickly … first date sex is best for me.”

“As soon as I am comfortable with a woman’s body, I think it is okay to get physical.”

“I know right away whether I want to or not.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Food and sex go hand and hand for Cancer, and both are usually part of an evening. He is smart enough to practice safe sex with women he does not know well.

“It is cool as long as boundaries are set and understood. It is never my intention to mislead a woman or [to] hurt her feelings.”

“I am aware that anonymous sex can be dangerous, but I am not foolhardy about it and find it fun.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

For Cancer monogamy is not a sacrosanct value. He may be faithful in a committed relationship for the sake of family stability, but his sex drive is very strong and his appetite has to be sated at home or he will go out for a side order.

“Monogamy is a choice. I think people make it for non-sexual benefits, home life stability, children, et cetera. Some people are more in need of diversity.”

“No, I am married and have two additional partners.”

“No, it is boring.”

“I think that it works for people who deeply desire it, but I am not sure that it suits me.”

“Monogamy may not be right for me, but I think couples can make their own choices. I believe in whatever works for the adults involved.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Cancer may be the most emotional Sign in the zodiac, and when his feelings are deeply touched during sex, the sensation goes far beyond any merely physical gratification. It creates a bond with his partner that transcends the earthly plane.

“It has warmth and intimacy and implies a mental and physical soulful connection.”

“When there is openness between the two of us there is an exchange of energy, of light and ecstasy.”

“Big time … for me sexual ecstasy creates a feeling that reconnects the male and female to oneness with a sense of one divine energy.”

“I am not sure that I would call it spiritual, though it may be, but sex certainly has great emotional as well as intellectual significance.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

In the early days of a relationship he enjoys initiating sex. For one thing he is very physical, sensual, as well as sexual. He loves to touch, to hug and cuddle. With him, this usually progresses to sex. It does please Cancer, however, over time, to have his lover take on the role of the aggressor.

“Yes, it is a turn-on to be dominant at first, then become submissive.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

This is a man who often uses touch to communicate. He expresses tenderness with a hand on the shoulder or by putting an arm around his partner’s waist. In bed he may use a combination of words and body language to express his desires, but with greater emphasis on gestures.

“I am very intense, but say little. I hardly ever talk. I project my wishes and am surprised how well people hear me.”

“Mostly gestures, but it usually just happens.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

His range of sexuality is fundamentally mainstream, from kissing and fondling to oral sex and intercourse. Venturing a bit beyond vanilla sex, Cancer explores light bondage and using food. He might enjoy licking jams or chocolate syrup or whipped cream off his lover’s body. The experimental Cancer will try anal sex and bondage, hot wax, and ice cubes but he uses few toys other than perhaps a vibrator.

“I think of myself as mainstream, but definitely sensual, romantic, and into lovemaking rather than having sex.”

His fantasies generally reflect his own range of sexual behaviors with images of intense, long, satisfying sex. Sometimes he imagines having sex with two women. More extreme images include aggressive sex, rape fantasies, and an orgy with four or five women.

Fantasies

“I imagine that I am a lesbian about to get a new girl in bed for the first time. Just the thought of being a woman and the excitement of the first time is very arousing.”

“Currently my most common fantasy is watching my wife [being] pleasured by other men.”

“I have rape fantasies or those involving rather rough sex with mutual intensity, arousal, and interest.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

When he cares for a woman, Cancer demonstrates his regard for his partner by being protective, complimentary, and perhaps giving her a massage. He may also prepare wonderful meals for her as he loves his home and is often an accomplished cook.

“I show my regard with kisses, hand-holding, compliments, and petting.”

“With massages, touching, compliments, helping out, being interested in her day and her thoughts. I cook for her and make her laugh.”

“I shop for her, I call her, I try to take care of her and keep her safe.”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

The environment for sex is not important to the Cancer man. Okay, he will notice it if a woman has gone to some effort to light scented candles or spread out satin sheets. But it is likely that the smell of home cooking will turn him on more than low lights and sexy music.

“Any environment has its perks.”

“It is not particularly important but I do enjoy a clean atmosphere.”

“Messy is okay, but not smelly. I prefer it dark with mood music.”

“It is nice if it is clean with candlelight, incense, some order. But, on the other hand I like spontaneity, so whatever and wherever is great too.”

“The sexual setting is somewhat important. I think that orderliness and cleanliness count for a lot.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

In addition to having sex at home, in bed, or in other parts of the house, Cancer loves having sex outdoors, in a car, or in a dark pine forest. And, being a Water Sign, his sexual pleasure is always heightened if he is near water, on a secluded beach, by a lake, or close to a waterfall.

“Bed, outdoors in a secluded area that might not be necessarily a comfortable environment … The park picnic table with just a tablecloth was a bit hard but also exciting.”

“Bedroom, bathroom, laundry room, outdoors, but not in a place where we might be seen …”

“I really have no preference as long as the setting is not offensive.”

A Memory

“Making love in the water while in the hot sunshine in the Florida Keys on my honeymoon. The waves rhythmically aided my thrusting. It was a wonderful place for my Pisces wife and me, a Fish and a Crab, to make love.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Cancer is a highly sexual and emotional sign. He wants to hear “I love you.” His sex drive is triggered by feelings of closeness to his lover, whether by her touch, the scent of her perfume or clean hair, or an image in a film. Any of these sensations will put him in the mood.

“A massage, erotic wrestling, my lover’s breath on my neck, or seeing her sexy lingerie turn me on—as well as looking at her nude body or watching her undress.”

“When my lover and I talk about deep psychological secrets in a warm, hidden bedroom …”

“Just being with someone sexy or someone you want.”

“Noticing my girl’s hips, flirting, relaxing … it can be very sudden.”

“For me just about anything will put me in the mood … thinking of an attractive female will do it. I might say, being awake is about all it takes.”

“Aromas are a strong turn-on for me … the smell of vanilla or scented candles.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Cancer has a love/hate relationship with adult films. It turns him on and he may admit that he loves it, but at the same time he sees it as something not quite right. Certainly he will prefer using it alone as a masturbation stimulus unless his partner introduces it.

“It’s a really base but enjoyable thing.”

“I like the stimulation, but I am uncomfortable with it because it is pure sex without divine love.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

It pleases Cancer to feel his partner’s hand on his arm when out walking. He likes to run his hand across her shoulders when he passes. Touch is a constant reminder of his affection for her. In truth, however, most of the time cuddling leads to sex.

“If there is no rush to go somewhere, I love to just hang around and enjoy being together.”

“I love it but do not get anywhere near enough of it.”

“I enjoy it sometimes but I don’t want a woman hanging all over me when we are out.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

He is a very tactile lover with soft, but forceful, hands. He can excite a woman immeasurably in the way he fondles her breasts. He is less oral, though he performs cunnilingus because he wants to please his partner.

“Women tell me I have magical hands. They are always very hot.”

“I show my affection by my touch.”

“I am quite fond of feeling my partner, kissing her, and of oral sex.”

“I guess this is unusual but I don’t like receiving oral sex, and yet I love to give it.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

Cancer has a strong sex drive and the success of a relationship is tied to satisfaction in his sex life. He thoroughly enjoys kissing, oral sex, and intercourse. Beyond that, looking at and fondling and kissing a woman’s breasts are of greatest pleasure.

“I haven’t experienced a bad sex act yet.”

“I like kissing, oral sex, intercourse, anal sex, fondling breasts, rimming, cum play. I like just about everything.”

“There are things I have not tried but I like everything that I actually do.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

Cancer is an intuitive Water Sign. His best sexual skill reflects his sensitivity. It is his ability to sense and attend to his lover’s needs.

“She tells me it is how attentive I am to her and my sensuous touch.”

“The passion of my approach and overall lovemaking, kissing, intercourse …”

“I think it is my oral skills and how I use my hands.”

A Memory

“It was aggressive. I was dominating my partner, taking complete control. We were in a hotel room that had an interesting décor. The day was warm and she was sweating and when she reached orgasm, she came loudly.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

He is a sensual man. He loves all things as they are in nature, such as the smell of pine forests or an ocean breeze. When it comes to sex, colognes and perfumes aren’t necessary to enhance the pleasure he finds in the aroma of his lover’s skin or secretions. A light scent is okay, but her body, just as it is, will excite him most.

“Natural body tastes and fruity flavored oils appeal to me.”

“I love to look at panties. I love to smell the sweat on her lower back.”

“I love to taste her pussy.”

“Natural odors are attractive, any cologne or perfume is distracting and not good. I enjoy the taste of her natural secretions.”

“I love the smell and taste of her skin when sweating, her vagina when wet, and her perfume if it is very light.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

For many Cancer men, a woman’s secretions may be quite pleasant. For those that find them a bit unpleasant, foods such as whipped cream or sex oils with minty flavors will prove most useful.

“Most of the time her secretions taste fine. When the taste is off, I avoid it.”

“The taste is fine.”

“I am quite fond of the taste of her ejaculate.”

“This is true for me and I try not to taste it, but as I wish to please my lover I put up with it.”

“I love the taste.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

Cancer is comfortable with intimacy and eye-to-eye contact, and he enjoys watching his partner during sex and orgasm. He may not be equally enthusiastic about being watched, but he does not object to having her look at him.

“I am very voyeuristic. I enjoy seeing her pleasure. I’m fine with her watching me, too, but not as much as I like to look at her.”

Memories

“My glasses were off. There was a nice song playing on the radio. We were lying on the grass and the afternoon sun was falling on my lover’s defocused pink face surrounded by what seemed to be a bright green wall. I remember us lying there together after cumming. All of these sensory experiences together were fabulous.”

“Perfect music, wanting each other, lots of foreplay. Doing it again and again, all over the house, until we were both drained.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

The Cancer man reaches orgasm every time he has sex. For him, anything works: masturbation, oral sex, and intercourse. As long as he feels close emotionally, he climaxes with ease.

“I cum all the time until I’m tired or I have had a few orgasms.”

“I will reach an orgasm every time I have sex and by using any means necessary.”

“I always have an orgasm. Oral sex and masturbation are the best ways.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

He might get into a routine for sex and orgasm but variety pleases him as well, and if his partner initiates novel positions, he will be very turned on. Cancer has no favorite position for reaching orgasm. He enjoys being on top, having his partner on top, sixty-nine, and doggie style.

“All positions will work. Doggie style is fast and sharp. Other ways are more about the foreplay buildup with my partner.”

“Anything goes but I love being on top, with my girl’s legs high in the air.”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Consistent with his desire to please his partner and his inclination to be in control, Cancer prefers to have her achieve orgasm before he does.

“I try to let my partner experience the same satisfaction I do. I know full well that a satisfied partner is a happy partner.”

“Cumming together is best. It is easiest to achieve simultaneous orgasm through intercourse and I try not to go alone. In other positions it is not so important to cum together.”

“I like to bring my partner many orgasms before I achieve one myself.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

Cancer is not particularly vocal during sex, but he does make his feelings known with sighs and moans.

“I am not verbal, but I do make my pleasure known with sound. I enjoy moaning.”

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

After sex the Cancer man enjoys some cuddling, perhaps a massage, and then he prefers to sleep. If it’s earlier in the day he enjoys quiet activities such as taking a walk or having something to eat.

Hot Words He Secretly Craves (and Can’t Resist)

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=> Hot words he secretly craves (and can’t resist)

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