Donna Capricorno - Astrologia sessuale

In her own words…

A Memory

“I was masturbating on my bed. A local contractor arrived early. (My bathroom wall was removed for an addition.) He walked down the hall to my bedroom to see if anyone was home and caught me in the act. I saw him standing in my door-way … he came in, sat on the edge of my bed, and watched me bring myself to orgasm. No words were exchanged and he [then] returned to the bathroom to wait for the carpenters to show up.”

Attraction and Dating a Capricorn

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

Capricorn is fairly demure in front of others and cares about how she is perceived, so the way a man behaves in public is important to her. She also has a dry wit and wants a man who likes to laugh.

“I am attracted by a great smile, confidence, intelligence and quick wit, good manners.”

“Mentality, conduct …”

“Great sense of humor, intelligence, easy-going, assertive, flexible, nice looking, takes reasonable care with appearance, open-minded.”

“Personality first; pleasing to the eyes also needed, honesty, sense of humor …”

“Intelligence, common sense, sense of humor is a must.”

“He needs to be a gentleman, conservative by nature and of a similar religious faith.”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Consistent with her concern about what other people think, the qualities in a man that turn her off include poor grooming, poor hygiene, being loud or rude, or behaving in any manner that would draw negative attention in public.

“Egotistical behavior, superficiality, dysfunctional behavior, being drunk and out of control.”

“Bad teeth are a huge turnoff. Also, mean people and smokers.”

“Poor dental hygiene, bad breath, sloppy, closed-minded, set in ways, overbearing, controlling.”

“Radically prejudiced opinions, lack of chivalry, dogmatic attitude, unappealing physically.”

A Fantasy

“I’ve always wanted to make love on the beach during the day. The warmth of the sun is very stimulating to me. In my fantasy there are people all around, but no one seems to see us. After that a great swim in the waves.”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

An ideal date for Capricorn is a quiet evening, dinner in a small dimly lit bistro, picnic in a remote field, or sharing a meal in front of the fireplace. She does appreciate her date showing up with some token gift as a sign of appreciation for the efforts she makes on his behalf. Daisies will do, long-stem roses are not always necessary.

“Connecting, being listened to, flirt, food, fun, some physical contact, cemeteries, nature, art, lots of talking.”

“Talk in a neutral environment, dancing, and a couple of drinks.”

“A relaxed meal with a great connection; the food can suck if the conversation flows.”

“A nice dinner, a great bottle of wine, and great conversation with a lot of laughs …”

“Holding hands, taking a walk, and just getting to know one another.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

This is a woman who is guarded about her behavior in public and is only mildly flirtatious. Her method is so cautious many a man may miss her signals. It is her body language that indicates her interest. She will face a man squarely and listen to him attentively.

“Occasionally I flirt … with both sexes in socially appropriate situations.”

“I’ve been told I am a flirt, but in my opinion, it is deeper. It is real. It is about wanting to know the other.”

“I am, but only in the right environment, I’d say ‘mildly flirtatious.’”

Memories

“In the Waldorf Astoria Hotel. My husband was on the phone checking in with his office. He looked so sexy. I just could not wait for the call to end. I started to undress him and fondled him until he hung up. Then we made love for the whole after-noon.”

“We were on the beach, alone at night, wrapped in a blanket. It was wonderful, smelling the ocean and listening to the sounds of the surf. Afterward we lay there watching the sun come up.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

The Capricorn woman can be jealous, and she dislikes this quality in herself. As she sees it, the feeling is only generated when there’s good cause.

“Jealousy is a waste of time, but if one feels that way it’s important to recognize why and work it out quickly.”

“I can imagine being jealous if I were in a committed relationship and found out that my partner was cheating or trying to date other women.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Because Capricorn is concerned about the opinions that others have of her, public affection is fine in its mildest forms. Not only does she want them kept to a minimum for herself, but also because she dislikes observing more than the subtlest displays.

“Discreet public displays are okay. As long as it isn’t grossly sexual, I have no problem with it.”

“There is a line of appropriate behavior that should be followed, gay or straight.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Thoughts of sex may cross her mind every day, but she doesn’t have a sexual appetite to match that. Sex two or three times per week will suit Capricorn perfectly, though she might like to have more than one round per session.

A Memory

“One night I was with a male friend; we were just good friends. He gave me a ride home from a pub and walked me to my door. I gave him a goodnight peck on the cheek. We ended up having the best sex I have ever had, right there in the hallway of my apartment, standing up against the wall. It was incredible sex. My sweat, along with my perfume, could be smelled for two days after.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

From a half-hour to a full hour is just the right amount of time for sex. Once things heat up and the mood is set, the normal time for foreplay is from 15 to 30 minutes. Marathon sex may not be her thing, but she also doesn’t want to feel rushed. The process itself should be slow and steady. Quickies are also a lot of fun.

“With foreplay, I enjoy spending time as much as I can get; certainly enough to get us both hot.”

“For me, foreplay is normally an on-and-off activity all day.”

“I like to spend an hour altogether for sex, with foreplay lasting as long as I can take it. Foreplay and after play are as important to me as the sexual act itself.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

Her sex drive is at its greatest from late after-noon until the early nighttime hours, say 3 to 10 P.M.

“My preference is after dinner when I’m a little tired and gently burning.”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

Capricorn pleasures herself infrequently, some weeks not at all and others once or twice.

A Memory

“I had not seen him for several years. When we met, it was electric. We talked and went out to dinner, then just sat looking into each other’s eyes. And then it started. We couldn’t stop kissing. We kissed in a parking lot.

People must have been staring at us. He had been out on the range earlier; I could smell the smoke from his hand. We reached for each other’s private parts. We drove off to a secluded place and went the whole way in a pickup truck.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Maybe any woman will throw caution to the wind once in a while, but it is truly the rare Capricorn who gets into a sexual relationship within a short period of time. She is simply not a woman who goes home with a guy on a first date.

“Does he know my mother’s maiden name? Quite a while …”

“A month, give or take; it depends on the person.”

“When I know we really have a relationship, that he will honestly call me the next day, and if we are attracted to each other, then I will be sexual.”

“Three to four months preferably … If things feel very intense, maybe in two weeks …”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

After a brief flirtation with casual sex, what she finds out is that her emotions get bruised. Capricorn regards it as a measure of her inner strength and self-assurance to remain alone rather than engage in what she considers to be meaningless sex.

“Sex requires emotional feelings for me to engage in it.”

“I find it confusing and depressing. After the thrill and the buildup that leads to the act, the actual sex is often horrible.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

Capricorn tends to be quite conservative in outward appearance and traditional in the values she holds. She is most likely to let her defenses down in an intimate, committed relationship. As a result, monogamy is very important to her.

“That kind of commitment is vital for depth, intimacy, and growth: for truth and honesty.”

“If you have promised your partner; for me it is a must.”

“Yes, even in dating. I believe in dating one person at a time.”

A Fantasy

“My partner is a doctor. I go into his office as a patient: short skirt, no undies. He has sex with me while I sit on the exam table. I then strip completely and he probes every part of me. He does a complete gynecological and rectal exam, and then has intercourse and then anal intercourse with me.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Consider that Capricorn values herself too much to get sexual quickly—to do more than dabble briefly in meaningless sex—add the importance she places on monogamy, and you’ll find a woman who regards sex as spiritual. There is a core of loneliness in Capricorn that the intimacy of sex dissolves.

“Occasionally a real connection between souls and God happens in sex. It transcends emotion.”

“It’s a wonderful feeling when two people come together in the closest way possible.”

“It’s a meeting of hearts, minds, bodies, and emotions on a level that transcends just about any other human behavior.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

The Capricorn woman is not likely to initiate sex in the early stages of a relationship. When she has been with a man for a while, she will help him understand the rhythm of her sexual desire and initiate it on a regular basis.

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Capricorn is a supremely competent woman at everything she does. She wants to please and be pleased in sex. As a result, she uses words when they are appropriate and gestures when they fit the situation better.

“I use both. We communicate well.”

“Quietly: words and gestures.”

“Gestures; he really knows what I need and when.”

“Facial gestures and hand motions. I don’t talk too much during sex.”

A Memory

“A bondage and domination scene. We were at home. He was on the floor, hands and feet bound, dark groove music playing. He was naked except for leather cuffs, nipple clamps, and [a] cock ring. I was dressed in a dom outfit: leather, heels, and stockings. Made up and feeling sexy. He adored the scene. I had been doing some cock and ball teasing and really had him straining and sweating. I began to whip him in time to the music, and the scene took on a life of its own. I realized it was really turning me on to see my partner in this state. After some time and intense whipping, he came without any stimulation to his penis. Wow! It blew my mind that we could both get so turned on by this. It was a very intimate and wonderful act with someone I loved.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Many Capricorns are mainstream in their range of sexuality, satisfied with oral sex and intercourse. However, consistent with the value she places on pleasing her partner and the respect that she has for romantic relationships, she puts considerable effort into satisfying him. Therefore, if her partner is interested in exploring beyond vanilla sex, he will find a willing partner in Capricorn.

She will experiment with anal sex, bondage, dominance and submission, spanking, having sex in public places, wearing costumes, and using food and some sex toys such as vibrators. Some Capricorns practice sadomasochism: being spanked and using chains, whips, and paddles. Her fantasies frequently involve being punished, bound, and dominated.

A Fantasy

“An authoritative male spanks me. I am a teenager. I deserve the spanking and it is not cruel or harsh, but it is bare bottom, over the knee with his hand, and it is very hot. I like to have intercourse following.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Her fundamental nature—determined, centered, practical, and a bit romantic—is apparent in the way she attends to her lover. Along with little gifts or love notes, Capricorn shows her regard for him with acts of thoughtfulness such as doing errands for him, providing a quiet environment to come home to, and keeping the house in good order.

“Patience, tolerance, touch, food, compliments, hugs, kisses, keeping house …”

“Surprise him with dinner after a hard day’s work.”

“The small things in life, thoughtfulness …”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

The environment matters, not excessively so, but as a reflection of the regard she has for her partner and as an indication of the respect he has for her. Comfort and cleanliness are paramount. When her lover goes a bit beyond that, with décor and lighting, she’ll be more relaxed.

“Lighting, natural or evening, dim.”

“I like soft lighting but mostly it just has to be clean.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

She does not seek a lot of variety when it comes to the location for sex. Because she has a strong sense of propriety, any possibility of being seen is a decided turnoff. Overall, the bedroom suits her fine. As to the outdoors, she has a strong opinion, either very much in favor of or completely opposed to it.

“In bed, in front of the fireplace, safe places, not too public … It’s fun on the dance floor, and I love outdoor sex—privately like when we’ve gone camping.”

“Bedroom or any room that is comfortable … not outside: bugs, sand, and bears turn me off.”

A Memory

“I was being kind of aggressive. We were on a pond, on a floating tube. The sun was setting. We could hear all kinds of bugs, crickets, and frogs. I love the fresh smell of the outdoors so that was great. The idea that someone else might see us was very exhilarating.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

For Capricorn, competence and achievement are sexy. The man who is going somewhere with his life is the one she finds fascinating. Overall, there’s no one magic thing that turns her on. It’s much more about treating her like the very special person she is, about showing regard for her in all ways.

“Feeling a connection; we’re talking and I feel like the guy is the most interesting person I have met in forever. I’m tingly, and impatient for his move.”

“Intellectual stimulation, lover’s nude body …”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Capricorn’s response to adult videos are somewhere between boredom and disinterest. Erotica in film and literature, reading sexy passages in romance novels, or exploring descriptions of sexual experiences found in fetish magazines is much more of a turn-on for her.

“Hard-core adult videos are ignorant and fake. I prefer mainstream films with explicit scenes of a couple making love.”

“Other than mild spanking videos, adult movies are boring, repetitive, unimaginative.”

Memories

“A sore neck; rubdown turned into animalistic aggressive, room to room, clothes flying; a complete frenzy, and all this with someone I should not have been with.”

“I was dressing, combing my hair in the bathroom. My lover came up behind me, gently turned me around, and began kissing me. He slowly took off my clothes then we stood against the bathroom wall and had intercourse right there.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

She loves to cuddle, just not when she’s involved in a project. But holding hands, hugs, and a touch on the shoulder please her. More contact than that and she anticipates that her lover is looking for sex.

“A lot; I am very affectionate.”

“Cuddling gets me in the mood. It shows me how affectionate my mate can be.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

She’s an Earth Sign, an earthy lover who enjoys giving and receiving the full range of oral and tactile experiences. The resulting smells and tastes make her partner crazy and heighten her pleasure.

“I love touching and caressing every part of him.”

“I love to kiss, and I love oral sex with my boyfriend.”

“I enjoy oral sex; giving and getting turns me on immensely.”

“I really enjoy all kinds of kissing; kissing my lover’s body. I love cunnilingus and doing fellatio.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

Intercourse is great but it should never be the first course. Rushing into it will turn off Ms. Capricorn. Some Capricorn women enjoy anal sex on occasion. Mutual masturbation is probably her least favorite sexual behavior.

“Kissing, fondling genitals, intercourse, mutual masturbation, in that order.”

“Oral sex and kissing are number one, followed by intercourse.”

“I don’t like a guy cumming on my face.”

A Memory

“My first sexual encounter with my boyfriend, at a party with friends. There were people in rooms all over the house and we were on the foldout couch. Very quiet. We started kissing and touching one another. He turned me on my stomach and began kissing my back. The room was full of electricity. Between having to be quiet and the intensity and sensuality of his kisses, it was amazing. It was the most romantic, sensual, and exciting experience I ever had.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

She is sure of herself in bed, trusting her abilities to please her partner, and why not? Capricorn works hard to excel at all her endeavors, both public and private.

“Everything is great for me. I get told all the time. Tongue, body, hands, eye contact, and energy …”

“How long I can tease and prolong my partner’s fulfillment, especially in a BDSM scene.”

Fantasies

“I just lie in bed and think of him. I get all wet.”

“Two guys and me dressed up in fetish clothing, latex, and rubber. And all this for the pleasure of our voyeur, my husband.”

“I imaging having sex with characters that I have found hot in movies. Other times I just lie there and remember a former boyfriend in Puerto Rico. He was so gentle and loving.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

An earthy Sign, Capricorn enjoys her partner’s body smells and tastes, unadorned by colognes or deodorants. Foods are not often part of sex play, but flavored oils can be fun.

“My lover’s sweat and natural body smells are exciting to me.”

“I love the smell of his skin on his chest, neck, and shoulders, and the smell of his hair and cologne.”

“The taste of gourmet food applied to his fingers, [and] then fed to me.”

“Hot, sweaty skin and the smell of sex along with the taste of his lips and nipples …”

A Fantasy

“I have two fantasies of anonymous sex. In one, we are making love in the back of a pickup truck in the woods during a thunderstorm. In the other, a sexy stranger pulls me into a dark room at the back of a club. You can barely hear the music; breathing hard and heavy. He strips my clothes off, pins my hands to the wall and slowly starts to make love, then holds me tight. It gets harder, deeper, and a bit forceful until we reach orgasm. Then he leaves. We never see each other again.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Most of the time, she doesn’t object to the taste of her partner’s cum. If it’s at all a problem for her, she handles it very matter-of-factly. She might keep a drink beside the bed or use some mouthwash shortly after his climax.

“I don’t think it’s that unpleasant. I swallow.”

“It’s not a problem for me. The taste is salty. I swallow and rub it all over my chest and my privates.”

“The taste is mildly unpleasant. I spit it out.”

“I find it unpleasant and I don’t swallow cum. A little is okay. I usually rub it on myself, or help clean it up.”

“I am not thrilled with cum in terms of ingesting it but I like it as a skin moisturizer.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

Capricorn takes pride in everything she does, including sex. So she loves watching her partner during sex and orgasm, but in truth, she isn’t as content being observed.

“Watching him is wonderful. It is sometimes amazing and spiritual.”

“I’m somewhat uncomfortable when I know he’s watching, but it is okay.”

“I’m not really comfortable being watched, but who cares when that moment comes?”

A Memory

“The first time my boyfriend and I kissed, [and] then made love. The kiss was pure pleasure with immense passion, soft and gentle yet hard and secure. His touch was serving, yet confident, and I melted in his arms.

“In the process of taking our clothes off to have sex, he ripped my underwear from my body. It was just a very hot moment that made me feel like he wanted me so badly. He couldn’t even take the time to remove my panties, like that would have taken too long.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Capricorn is a goal-oriented Sign. She achieves orgasm most of the time she has sex.

When she is sufficiently excited and wants to climax, she does so and the method is irrelevant.

“When I want to, I can get off alone. With a partner a good intercourse session sends me, but it is trickier. Too long and I am sore; too short and I am hungry.”

“I climax all the time: multiple orgasms, through oral sex, intercourse, and with my partner fondling me.”

“I cum often; sometimes through oral sex, but usually with intercourse and masturbation.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

They all work for Capricorn, and she likes a variety of positions. In order of favorites, she might prefer doggie style first, woman on top second, and man on top third.

A Memory

“A party, spanking is the theme. I am dressed in a variety of clothing: some vintage, some skimpy, some fashionable. All show off my attributes to best advantage. In front of a group of like-minded spankos, I am taken over my lover’s knees, panties pulled down, and given a long, slow, hand spanking. I am very hot from this. He lets me up. Bids adieu to the crowd, and [then he] takes me back to the privacy of his room and fucks me doggie style, pulling my hair back, causing my back to arch, fucking me slowly, teasingly, roughly, rudely, sensitively, callously, all ways.”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES.

OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

She is not always in control, but when she is, Capricorn is pretty good at timing her orgasm to match her partner’s. Overall, however, who cums first is not important to her. That they both achieve orgasm is what matters.

“I like to orgasm together, but what’s most important is that both our needs are usually met.”

“He likes me to orgasm first; most of the time we cum together.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

Whether Capricorn expresses herself with words or simply with sounds, they are low in volume.

“Yes, lots of moaning and sounds—mostly monosyllabic.”

“Some, but not too loud …”

“It varies in volume, but I’m usually at least a little vocal.”

Fantasies

“Androgyny fantasies, both heterosexual and gay. My clothes come off and voilà, you get quite a surprise. The sex is always great.”

“To have sex in a graveyard.”

“I am on a beach and kissing and hugging and loving my husband. That scene [in] From Here to Eternity keeps playing in my head.”

“Brief images: having sex in a bathroom stall or on a golf course, role-playing of various kinds like being dressed up in a maid’s uniform.”

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

The closeness that Capricorn feels for her lover after sex is precious to her. She wants to take time to cuddle before sleeping.

“Cuddle, stay in bed, sleep.”

“We cuddle even if we cannot stay the rest of the day or night.”