Aquarius Man - Astrología Sexual

In his own words…

A Memory

“I came home from work and found my mate, naked, waiting in our bed with her legs spread. I started to tongue her legs slowly, aiming for her pussy, and then I licked her pussy thoroughly until she had two or three orgasms. Then I fucked her hard and brought her to a final one before erupting deep inside her.”

Attraction and Dating an Aquarius

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

For the Aquarius man, how a woman feels about herself and reflects that in her behavior is more of a turn-on than stereotypical good looks. On top of that, this is a man who has a need to contribute to his community so a woman who is involved in some form of civic endeavor, whether in her work or as a volunteer, is very attractive to him.

“I am drawn to a woman who gives off a dominant behavior, someone who believes in herself. As to looks, an average size body is about all that matters.”

“Behavior, mostly their attitude about themselves, then looks. I do not like females who are grossly overweight.”

“A person who is physically fit shows you that they take care of themselves. Natural beauty is essential. I enjoy active women who share some interests in common with mine. Sense of humor is important.”

“Specific physical traits are not very significant with me. Weight is unimportant as long as it is not too extreme in either direction. What I like most is kindness, support for others, and intelligence.”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Aquarius is the diplomat of the zodiac, known for being tactful and well mannered. Rude or generally poor behavior in public will turn off the Aquarius man more than almost any physical characteristic. About the only such turnoff for him is a woman who is considerably overweight.

“I do not like loud, vulgar, or obnoxious women. How they behave in public is a sample for me of what they would be like in a relationship.”

“Women who are ignorant about the world and unconcerned about such matters do not interest me.”

“I am turned off by bad attitudes and swearing, ignorant or obnoxious people, and poor hygiene.”

“Traits that turn me off include talking too much about oneself, talking about other lovers, being a dull conversationalist, too clingy, or putting others down.”

A Fantasy

“A hot night of passionate lovemaking after a long day of skiing at a mountaintop resort. I enjoy fantasizing about foreplay that involves slow movement, taking each other’s clothes off, sipping on wine by a warm fireplace, sensual touching, alternating dominance.”

WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO ON A DATE?

Aquarius is at his best in fairly large groups where he can talk with a lot of people in a casual way. When he walks into the local breakfast place everyone calls out “Hi Joe!” He’s that social. Still, he is not easy to get close to and may not have many intimate friends. As a result, Aquarius can be ill at ease in small groups, say getting together with his partner’s family or closest friends, at least until the relationship is quite well established. He far prefers going out on active dates or spending evenings alone with his partner and sharing a meal at home.

“I like going to the theater, hiking, camping, fishing, and biking.”

“Anything active, hiking, skiing, and also a quiet dinner and a movie [are] enjoyable.”

“I enjoy sharing outdoor activities, walking around the city or having a home-cooked meal.”

“Being outdoors in nature, hiking, going to the beach, or doing new things that I haven’t tried before …”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

Not really. Aquarius is a natural conversationalist, at ease talking with strangers in crowded clubs, at the office picnic, and in almost any new setting. Overall, he is sociable and can be charming rather than flirtatious.

“[I’m] not really that flirtatious. I do like to joke around to make women laugh.”

“I can be tastefully, subtly, and playfully flirtatious; a good deal when instigated.”

“I have been told that I am flirtatious, but I do not see it that way.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

Aquarius is an even-tempered man. He’s rational more than emotional, and capable of staying calm in a crisis. It would be very out of character for him to suffer from jealousy. Only to the extent that anyone is capable of feeling jealousy if provoked can Aquarius be jealous.

“If there is trust in the relationship I am not likely to get jealous.”

“I tend not to be but have been with certain significant others in the past.”

“I never thought I was jealous until recently. I have been finding myself getting jealous when the girl I am currently dating is talking to other guys.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

For a man known to be quite proper in public, Aquarius is surprisingly at ease about public displays of affection. His attitude is that love is grand and happy; a good thing in this world. So why not show it off?

“I do not see anything wrong with it. When in the mood, the place means nothing.”

“A little goes a long way. I am comfortable hugging, holding hands, a peck.”

“I used to be very shy but with the woman I am seeing now, I am happy about showing my feelings in public.”

Memories

“My little pony girl bound helpless, legs wide apart, held by spreader bar, and me holding her harness and coming in from behind.”

“A bit of struggle, a bit of restraining, and a lot of primal, carnal, sexual behavior.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Aquarius seeks sensation, sexual and otherwise, and sex crosses his mind virtually every day. However, it takes some kind of trigger, usually verbal—a double entendre, an innuendo—to get the thought started. This Sign is content to have sex two or three times a week.

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Foreplay may well start hours before intimacy with sexy conversation, a little phone sex, and or a note in the briefcase describing activities planned for later in the day. His brain is an all-important organ when it comes to setting the romantic stage for Aquarius. When it comes to the act itself, he enjoys spending at least 30 minutes having sex, with 15 minutes devoted to foreplay. Quickies are fine, too, as well as an occasional marathon session.

“I enjoy quickies but I also like to spend hours having sex. I think you can never spend too much time on foreplay.”

“I like to spend as long as it takes to get there. I enjoy quickies as well.”

“When it comes to foreplay, I do not like spending much time: a little cuddling, touching, slow undressing, feeling bodies against each other.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

Any time of day suits him fine. The only day part about which Aquarius is likely to have a strong opinion is morning. He either really likes sex first thing in the morning or he really dislikes it altogether.

“Time does not matter to me.”

“In the daytime; I like light.”

“Anytime except morning …”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

Aquarius is a man of extremes. He may go through periods when he pleasures himself every day, and other times when he will do it less than once a week.

Fantasies

“Being in front of strangers masturbating. Voyeurism is so hot. Being seduced or wanted, and having sex with a well-known celebrity.”

“I imagine meeting a woman in a shopping mall or supermarket. There is instant attraction. Understanding we both want it we leave immediately, rush to her place, and make love fast and furious.”

“All I need to think about is being on the water in a boat or in a small cabin in the woods, feeling close to nature.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

The short answer is, “not long.” For Aquarius the stimulus to have sex comes from exciting conversation. If that kind of communication happens quickly, so will sex.

“I think one hour is sufficient. No, really, I don’t think you have to know a woman long at all.”

“The time frame matters very little. I know in short order if there is some sort of physical attraction.”

“I don’t have to know a woman at all. I will know if it is sexual upon meeting her.”

“I believe in love at first sight. It could be on a first date if the feeling is right.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Aquarius does not enter into important or intimate relationships very easily. He craves physical sensation, so casual sex is simply fun for him. Certainly he realizes that anonymous sex may be unsafe, but he has few reservations about doing it.

“It is fine, if controlled and not indiscreet.”

“Casual sex is fine, but not for people who are in exclusively committed relationships.”

“It can be exciting, but unfortunately it can be unsafe and does not have much meaning.”

“I know it is unsafe, but I love it.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

An Aquarian man is charming, gentle, and easy to get along with. He is slow to reveal his feelings and in no rush to get married. He sees monogamy as an individual choice, but once in a committed relationship does value it. It may be difficult for him to sustain, however, particularly if his sex life is less than satisfactory.

“I think that if people are comfortable with monogamy they should practice it.”

“Yes, it is important because I believe it holds together morals and ethics. Life would be empty without it.”

“I believe in being monogamous, but that is just my personal preference. One relationship is difficult enough to manage at a time. I like the security of knowing that each individual in a relationship is being true to the other.”

“I am and have always practiced monogamy, but I am curious about the idea of having something on the side. What stops me is that, from what I have heard, most open relationships have their downfalls.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Aquarius makes connections more in the mind than in the physical realm. He has a tendency to keep his distance, and he avoids many emotional entanglements. Sex provides him with a way to get in touch with his feelings. As such, sex is very important to him, but not particularly spiritual.

“Perhaps sex with the right partner could, but I have not had that experience yet.”

“Not that I know of so far …”

“It has at times in the past, but I do not consider sex spiritual on a regular basis.”

A Memory

“I was shopping and went into Victoria’s Secret. I saw a woman there, very hot, and I was enthralled. I was about 26 and she was maybe 35. We began caressing and had sex in the dressing room.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Sort of. His sense of propriety shows here. The Aquarius man needs to be pretty at ease with a woman before he will broach the subject of becoming sexual. Too, he needs some signal from his partner that she is amenable.

“Yes, with someone I know.”

“I prefer having certain conditions in place before initiating sex with a new partner. In other words, I want to be showered, have fresh breath, et cetera.”

“Not necessarily. I feel like I am imposing or pressuring.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Here is a man who gets hot from sexy talk and for whom sexual excitement is maintained with sounds of pleasure. Aquarius may not want to participate in a verbal play-by-play during sex, but he is certainly comfortable expressing his likes, dislikes, and desires verbally.

“I tell her what to do most of the time.”

“Verbally, only after I know her better.”

“I tend to communicate mostly with words but would prefer gestures.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Aquarius is a rather experimental lover who may enjoy some bondage, dominance and submission, ménage à trois, or using food along with sex. He also enjoys a certain amount of exhibitionism, is voyeuristic, and may like to have sex in public places. A beautiful foot with well-tended toenails will turn him on. He enjoys spanking a naughty partner. Sex toys are of little interest to him, limited only to vibrators and dildos. His fantasies are reflections of his sexual behaviors.

Fantasies

“It can be most anything, as long as she takes charge of me, controls every aspect and, keeps me locked up to prevent me from doing anything without her telling me so.”

“In a lot of my fantasies I am the submissive one with two women dominating me.”

“Dress her up in something girlie and spank her.”

“Making it with my partner on our pool deck while the neighbors are watching.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Aquarius is quietly attentive and shows his regard by helping his lover on her terms: by helping around the house and being willing to do a variety of errands. He is a wonderful listener and sounding board when she wants to work through a problem.

“Be there for her when she needs me without her asking …”

“Thoughtfulness such as helping with daily chores, surprising her with presents …”

“Random acts of kindness, doing the dishes, putting gas in the car. I try to be very aware and responsive, a good partner.”

“Pamper her, do chores, get her cards, leave her notes …”

“Surprise gifts, doing chores around the house, cooking dinner frequently …”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

Bearing in mind that sex for Aquarius begins in the brain and his excitement is triggered verbally, the sexual environment is of little consequence to Aquarius. He does like the setting to be clean and dimly lit, but that’s about it.

“Cleanliness is important; however, I have bypassed that on occasion in a fit of lust.”

“Not important as long as it is clean.”

“Not important at all.”

“Except for when we do it outside, it should be very clean [and] with low light.”

“As long as it is not dirty and we are alone, the particulars are not important.”

A Memory

“A night after a good dinner with a couple of drinks and some very smooth music. It was traditional sex, a perfect evening with a warm breeze and the scent of salt air.”

“Last winter in New Hampshire, in a warm room with a large hot tub and adult movies.”

“In a hot tub, smell of chlorine and cold air, bodies collide, steam rising, feel of jets all over my body, wet bodies cling to every breath.”

“A cold snowy night at her house, everything was so feminine, warm, candles lighting the room.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

Sexy talk gets Aquarius so turned on that he won’t want to wait to get home. Any dark corner can be fun. After all, Aquarius is a Sign that often seeks sensation. For many, therefore, having sex where there’s a slight chance of being seen is a turn-on.

“I do not have a preference. Outdoors is nice; a public place would not be bad either.”

“Anywhere … I like places where we might get caught, dangerous sex.”

“Whenever and wherever I am turned on …”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Aquarius is a verbal Sign. For him, ideas, thoughts, and discussions about sexual experiences and fantasies put him in the mood. He loves phone sex. Foreplay for him goes on throughout the workday with sexy calls back and forth to his lover. Later in the day, watching erotic videos or reading sexy scenes adds to his passion. Overall, words and the images they suggest turn this man on most.

“Talking about sex, passionate kissing, a massage, romantic settings, watching my lover undress, [the] sound of rain, poetry …”

“Environment, talking about sex, physical groping, passionate kisses …”

“A nice meal and conversation …”

“Nice music, mental activity, and anything in the adult movie line; as well as passionate kissing, my lover’s nude body, and [the] sound of rain …”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Aquarius enjoys adult movies up to a point, especially if it is of a more sophisticated type. Straightforward sex acts, one after another and without regard for setting or some sense of intrigue, interest him very little. Eroticism is more to his liking; X-rated movies—more than XXX-rated videos

—and sexy talk are far more likely to get him turned on than scenes of bumping and grinding.

“I have mild interest in it. Sometimes I really enjoy looking at it, but not too often.”

“I do not find hardcore adult content appealing … lyrical yes …”

“Most of it is of no interest to me and I really do not like it when it is degrading to women.”

A Memory

“She lit candles in the bedroom, [and] then escorted me in by the hand. She slowly undressed me and gave me head. I reciprocated, undressing her and performing oral sex. We made love in the middle of the bed—not even turning down the covers—intensely fast, like two teenagers.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

His reputation is at odds with his own self-perception. Most often Aquarius is considered a somewhat distant personality, but he says that he enjoys cuddling very much. It would seem that he takes his cue mostly from his partner’s behavior. However, he must not feel smothered in a relationship and he does need his time alone.

“I like hugs a lot.”

“I enjoy a lot of touching. I’m a very physical person.”

“Very little; my wife does not enjoy it.”

“I like a lot of cuddling. It is very important in my relationship.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

Bearing in mind that the word precedes the act, and that sexy talk is the true turn-on, when the actual sex begins Aquarius loves the tactile aspect of sex—to run his hands all over his lover.

“I love exploring a woman’s body.”

Kissing and oral sex acts rank at the top of his list of pleasures.

“I love everything from light to deep kisses, and all aspects of oral sex.”

“Deep kissing, kissing all over [her] body, kissing breasts …”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

For day-to-day sex, his range of acts is within the traditional: from hugs and kisses to intercourse. When time permits and the setting is right, this Sign will go into the list of experimental behaviors that he enjoys. There is little Aquarius does not like sexually, but anal sex is probably least satisfactory to him.

“Massages, kissing, foreplay, oral sex, and intercourse …”

“Oral sex—both giving and receiving—and intercourse, along with breast fondling and mutual masturbation …”

“If it involves sex, I like it.”

“I would have to pick anal sex as my least favorite because I have found that most women do not like it.”

Fantasies

“I guess it is the most common one for guys: having sex with two women.”

“I imagine a ménage à trois with a stranger. I usually envision anonymous sex, a raw physical act without any follow-up commitment. I imagine women with long, luxurious hair.”

“Coming upon two beautiful women who are making love. I watch them for a while and then join them and enjoy servicing both of them while they do the same for me.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

The Aquarius man considers himself a very competent lover, especially in the way he moves his body. He is also gifted at oral sex and has no problem with the taste of a woman’s secretions.

“I know how to please a woman. I can read what she wants.”

“I am good at them all, especially the way I move.”

“It is mostly how I use my body.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

Stick to what is natural to please Aquarius most. Colognes and perfumes are seldom on his list of favorite aromas, and he doesn’t care for flavored oils that disguise his lover’s taste.

“My lover’s skin, her sweat, and other body smells all please me.”

“I enjoy the aroma of her hair, under her breasts, her pussy, all of her skin.”

“Her skin, natural odors, and pheromones.”

“I love to taste her pussy.”

“I enjoy everything: her skin and her pussy, all of her juices.”

“I love the taste of kisses, her salty nipples, her pussy, her ass, and her sweat.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Aquarius is a Sign that seeks sensation, seeks feeling experience in many areas of life and most certainly in sex. As a result, he has absolutely no problem in this area.

“I do not mind the taste; in fact, I enjoy it.”

“The taste is not an issue for me.”

“Her secretions are not unpleasant, but I do not kiss her mouth after she has performed oral sex [on me].”

A Memory

“I threw her over the desk in my office, pretending she was a student in trouble for poor behavior. I told her she would be kicked off the team if she didn’t do exactly what I told her. I shoved it in her ass, and pummeled her anus bloody. I then came in her waiting mouth.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

Aquarius may not have even thought about his lover looking at him during orgasm. His mind is more on words than images. But when he makes eye contact with his partner, he finds the experience far more erotic.

“I never thought about her watching me before. I think I would be okay with that.”

“Being watched? I guess it’s somewhat enjoyable. Maybe; I am not sure.”

“I do not mind too much if I am watched, but I would rather not be the focus of attention.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Keep his mind on the event at hand and Aquarius cums. Let his mind wander and Aquarius loses his erection. Dirty talk as orgasm nears sends him over the edge regardless of the position or the act.

“My mind can do it easier than my hand. I cum whenever I try.”

“I climax through intercourse or masturbation all the time.”

“The method varies: intercourse and oral sex, I cum all the time.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

Variety, variety, variety. The Aquarius man is both a good lover and a satisfied one—as long as the event does not become routine.

“Face to face on our sides, woman on top, mutual oral sex …”

“Doggie style or man or woman on top so I can see her face …”

“Mutual oral sex and doggie style …”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Aquarius considers himself quite good at climaxing with his partner, but that is not a goal. As he has no trouble achieving climax, and knows that he will be satisfied ultimately, his aim is to please his lover.

“My first concern is to bring my lover to climax.”

“I enjoy reaching orgasm simultaneously, but it doesn’t always happen.”

“I try to time it right but always make sure she has the first and the last orgasm.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

Leading up to the act, Aquarius is very talkative about sex. However, during sex itself, he is only moderately vocal. He does appreciate a woman who voices her satisfaction.

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

This man doesn’t want to roll over and go to sleep. Aquarius wants to spend some time being close to his partner talking, watching a movie at home, or sharing food.

“Be massaged, shower together, stay in bed, listen to music, sleep, have some good conversation.”

“I like to snuggle for a while, perhaps go out for a walk.”

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