Sexual Astrology dives into the deeper primitive nature of our personalities, How true is yours?
More than 1,200 men and women completed a sex survey that provided the information presented in the links below. Quotes from hundreds of these people have been included. Their explicit comments and generous contributions made it possible to write these very different kind of articles. Firsthand, learn what your lover likes, dislikes, wants, and fantasizes about in the world of sex.
Fire Sign Aries is impulsive, assertive, and in some ways a perpetual child. Ruler of the head and the features of the face, the Ram loves oral sex.
To satisfy Aries in lovemaking, that which is indispensable above all else is passionate kissing.
She says: “I enjoy deep kissing on the mouth, and all over my lover’s body. Everyone praises my tongue and how I bring them to orgasm.”
He says: “When it comes to sex I am a man for all seasons, but if I had to choose between intercourse and cunnilingus, I would choose cunnilingus.”
“I’ll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up … not me.”
—Carolyn Leigh
Earth Sign Taurus—loyal, dependable, passionate, and highly physical—wants to move slowly and luxuriate in a back or full-body massage. The Sign of Taurus rules the throat and the neck, the tongue, and the sense of touch. Taurus lovers have exceptionally sensitive hands.
She says: “My best sexual skill is how I use my hands to stroke his penis and my tongue to lick all over his body.”
He says: “I love to cuddle. I’d like to be a blanket around my date.”
“Let’s get physical, physical … let me hear your body talk."
—Olivia Newton-John
Air Sign Gemini is into experimentation in all things, from types of food to sexual behaviors. Ruler of the shoulders, arms, hands, and the sense of hearing, Gemini is turned on by all things auditory: the sounds of nature, music, and sexy talk.
She says: “I show my affection with love notes, email, sweet cards, computer cards … long intimate talks, praise, and compliments.”
He says: “I like the sex environment to be dark with some candlelight and sexy music playing, sometimes using erotic videos.”
“Love is the wind, the tide, the waves, the sunshine.”
—Henry David Thoreau
Water Sign Cancer, nurturing and sensitive, is concerned with home, family, and food. Ruler of the breasts, stomach, and chest, Cancer is turned on by sharing food, emotional closeness, and feeling loved. Cancers like to have sex in the woods or by a body of water.
She says: “I feed him, make sure he is okay. I am a mom.”
He says: “I remember a wonderful sexual encounter with my wife on our honeymoon. We made love in the water, out in the hot sunshine in the Florida Keys, the waves rhythmically aided my thrusting.”
“As life’s pleasures go, food is second only to sex.”
—Alan King
Fire Sign Leo has a sunny, generous disposition, is flamboyant and enthusiastic, and loves having an audience. Ruler of the spine and heart, Leo is a romantic for whom setting the stage for sex is important. Cleanliness, a candle or two, and some flowers enhance the Lion’s sexual pleasure.
She says: “Save the clitoris for last. Don’t go to it right away.”
He says: “Don’t be afraid to talk about sex before, during, or after. And if you aren’t laughing you aren’t having fun.”
“I never miss a chance to have sex or appear on television.”
—Gore Vidal
Earth Sign Virgo is straightforward, a devoted friend, and works hard at everything including sexually fulfilling a partner. Ruler of the abdomen and bowels, health and hygiene, in bed Virgo prefers an orderly approach. Start at A, progress through B and C and you wind up at “O.”
She says: “How vocal I am during sex depends … a little if it’s bad, a lot if it’s good.”
He says: “I love the taste of her neck, her vagina, her skin in general.”
“Cleanliness is next to Godliness.”
—Proverb
Air Sign Libra—romantic, good-natured, and courteous—strives for harmony and hates discord. The Sign of marriage and partnership, Librans find fulfillment through their relationships. Ruler of the kidneys, loins, ovaries, and lower back, a sensual massage and attention to the backside add to their sexual pleasure.
She says: “My best skill is knowing how to arouse my partner from head to toe, [in] all his special places. That is the ultimate gift to him.”
He says: “I prefer to have sex in a place where we have no distractions, where we can really explore each other’s desires. I find it fun in the shower.”
“In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two.”
—Erich Fromm
Water Sign Scorpio is powerful, emotional, intense, and secretive. Ruler of the genitals, Scorpio is the Sign of sex. Rushing to the heart of the matter—his penis, her clitoris—will turn off Scorpio. Some teasing and buildup make the experience far more passionate for this Sign.
She says: “I got his cock hard and used it to make myself cum on him, then made him lick my pussy clean of all the cum. Then I let him have his way with me.”
He says: “I enjoy kissing, Frenching, and sucking on neck or ears. I love eating pussy. I can suck nipples until I sleep.”
“I love thee to the depth, and breadth and height / My soul can reach”
—Elizabeth Barrett Browning
Fire Sign Sagittarius is mellow, laid back, generous, friendly, and forthright. They speak bluntly, without awareness that their words can hurt, striking home like the Archer’s arrows. Ruler of the hips and legs in the physical body, Sagittarius loves the outdoors for hiking, camping, and having sex.
She says: “The environment for sex must be clean, although natural scents are okay. Lighting and décor have nothing to do with it. Is there décor in the woods?”
He says: “We went for a walk on a mountaintop, and made love on a hilltop. The smell was mushrooms and salt sea air. The extra thrill was realizing that in the distance another couple was watching us.”
“Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee.”
—Muhammad Ali
Earth Sign Capricorn—thoughtful, practical, ambitious—has great integrity. Ruler of the knees in particular and the whole skeletal system, Capricorn loves exploring all of the body with hands and tongue. The hardest workers in the zodiac, they put effort into everything they do, including being great lovers.
She says: “My best sexual skill is how long I can tease and prolong my partner’s fulfillment.”
He says: “I’ll do whatever turns her on. I like to push her to her limits, and then even surpass them.”
“Sex is like money; only too much is enough.”
—John Updike
Air Sign Aquarius is the Sign of brotherhood. Aquarians are diplomatic, friendly, and generous. They find intelligence sexy and they’re great communicators. Ruler of the ankles and circulation, sexy talk and anything that gets the blood moving—sports, a workout, or a massage—gets Aquarius set for sex.
She says: “Am I flirtatious? Very much so … verbal banter … I will take it to the level right before physical contact starts to take place.”
He says: “Nice music, mental activity, and anything in the porn line puts me in the mood for sex, as well as passionate kissing, my lover’s nude body, and [the] sound of rain.”
“Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul and I’m yours forever.”
—Lilly Nomad
Water Sign Pisces is a very sexual Sign, psychic and imaginative. Pisceans make wonderful writers, storytellers, and actors. They also have innate healing abilities, which make them well suited to the fields of medicine and counseling. Ruler of the feet, which are usually very well formed with this Sign, a foot massage will turn their thoughts to sex.
She says: “When we kiss we can melt an iceberg.”
He says: “One memorable sex encounter was making love on the beach, in the waves. The fresh air and the sudden rush of cold water made it incredible.”
“This is the miracle that happens every time to those who really love: the more they give, the more they possess.”
—Rainer Maria Rilke