Aries Man – Sexual Astrology

In his own words…

A Memory

“We wrestled. She’s a pianist and has great strength in her arms and shoulders. Naked, we knelt on the bed. She flailed around in a mock fistfight. I grabbed her arms, pinned her down but couldn’t hold her. She had me hanging half off the bed. I demanded, ‘Let me up.’ She did, then straddled me and held my arms down. I made a quick move, startling her. She was quicker and pinned me again. I conceded the contest. Our rule was the loser must rim the winner. She got up on her elbows and knees to best present her ass to me. I rimmed her affectionately and thoroughly, including penetration. Then she signaled readiness for intercourse. I got on top of her and it was great.”

Attraction and Dating an Aries

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

Aries is playful, so a sense of humor is paramount in attracting his attention. Though looks first turn his head, good conversation, broadmindedness, and personality further involve him.

“Breast size isn’t important. Good grooming is nice. I enjoy a nice ass and shapely pair of legs, but those won’t motivate me in the absence of intelligence.”

“I am first attracted by one’s sense of humor. Regarding physical attributes, the only one that really matters is weight in the sense of height/weight in proportion.”

“Turn-ons include pleasant voice, nice smile and teeth, warm natural body fragrances, not covered over with perfumes or other artificial scents, and a self-assertive personality.”

“A pretty face, nice eyes, and a smile attract me much more than a great body. What matters more is a woman who is honest, mature, and doesn’t play childish head games.”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Even if he is attracted to a woman because she has a lot of personality, he will be put off by any kind of excess. Too much makeup, too much jewelry, too much perfume, being too heavy, or talking too loudly will push him away.

“I don’t find women who are extreme, eat or drink too much, laugh too loudly, and are argumentative at all attractive.”

“Too much makeup, putting others down, being selfish.”

“Turnoffs include arrogance, self-righteousness, narrow-mindedness, being over-bearing.”

“Bad teeth have often been a turnoff. I notice them like radar notices a 747. Behavior is a definite factor, from immoral (in my eyes) to annoying or questionable.”

“Eats, drinks, or smokes too much; wears too much perfume; looks around too much at others while conversing with me; argumentative; negative.”

A Memory

“I was walking through the woods with my partner and we had walked for quite a while. I was taking pictures of her. On the way back she pulled me aside and said ‘I am so horny right now.’ It all started with her giving me oral sex. It was late afternoon and the area was deserted. Then we had intercourse in the woods and came to orgasm simultaneously.”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

He is a traditional and romantic lover. Dinner, long walks, and time to talk are his favorite activities. He may not mention having sex as a part of the evening, but it’s certainly one of his hopes.

“A nice romantic dinner and sex after …”

“Walking by the ocean, dancing, hiking and camping, doing things we both enjoy.”

“Going to a movie, play, parade, theme park, museum, community event, concert, dinner and dance …”

“Talking, dancing, flirting, sexual suggestions with food or actions …”

“Take a coffee break in a crowded place, get to know her likes and dislikes, match hers to mine and go from there.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

He’s flirtatious and doesn’t realize his manner may be misinterpreted. His motive is innocent. The truth is he’s a tad insecure, needs reassurances that he’s wonderful, and revels in admiration.

“I am flirtatious, perhaps because I enjoy sincere friendships with many women.”

“Yes, I am, up to the point of exchanging phone numbers when I have a girlfriend that I am one-to-one with. If I’m single, I will get as far as I can.”

“In a rather obtuse way … I try to get a woman to make the first move most times, but if she doesn’t, I just go for it.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

While he’s reputedly jealous, the Aries man doesn’t view himself that way—at least not much.

“Life is too short to be dwelling on bad, useless emotions.”

“I am to a certain extent. I’ve had my trust broken and it leaves me feeling guarded.”

“I’m not usually. One time I got terribly jealous of one of my girlfriends. She said she needed time to think about us and I figured something was up, but later I was proved wrong. That taught me a lesson.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Aries may be something of a show-off, but when it comes to sex, he’s no exhibitionist. Holding hands and some provocative kissing are fine in front of others; after all, Aries does want attention. More than that, and Aries thinks you ought to get a room.

“Slight displays are fine, major displays aren’t. My ‘affection’ is no one else’s business.”

“I’m proud to show my love for my partner, but not to the point of making her or anyone else uncomfortable.”

“What is wrong with it? If the kids are around, watch the breast and buttock touching, but kissing and holding hands, not being afraid to show your love for one another is a beautiful thing.”

A Memory

“I was working as a lifeguard at a country club. I started to go out with the receptionist. On our first date we went to a party. It got to be pretty late and we knew the club would be closed, but she had a key so we went to the clubhouse. We had sex on the pool table, then in the steam room, and then in the pool. This was over the course of a long and wonderful night. It was a wonderful beginning of an all-too-short summer romance.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Aries has sex on the brain: thinks about it daily and perhaps is preoccupied with it. He enjoys having sex four times a week.

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Aries prefers sex to last at least an hour, but he tends to be the wham-bam lover of the zodiac, so quickies can serve an important function.

Having a quick orgasm sets him up to last a lot longer for a second round.

“I enjoy quickies under the right circumstances, not as a steady diet. I prefer about a half-hour for foreplay, about an hour from start to finish. Sometimes a quickie can be a prelude to starting all over again later.”

“One good thing about a quickie is that I won’t have to worry about cumming too fast when I’m trying to please my lover.”

“I like to spend as long as it takes, with foreplay about an hour, but quickies are enjoyable too.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

He enjoys sex at any time of day, with a little preference for nighttime sex.

“Time on the clock is not important.”

“I prefer to do everything at night. Expressions of affection are no different.”

“Nighttime, before we fall asleep, holding each other, lying together still as one.”

“Evening is great, a rainy afternoon is better.”

“I like foreplay to last long enough to get her wet and just about ready to explode, then I go down and get her off first and then …”

HOW OFTEN DO YOU PLEAURE YOURSELF?

If he’s in a relationship and having sex frequently, he doesn’t please himself often. Otherwise, Aries pleasures himself three to five times weekly.

A Memory

“In a bathroom in a restaurant. About six years ago. I walked in to check on this girl to make sure that she was okay. She stood up and rubbed her butt on my penis. Then I grabbed her breasts. She moved my hands to her belt buckle, which I undid and dropped her pants and then her underwear. She bent over and grabbed the wall and I slid right into her and it was exciting. We got caught by some guy who walked in on us, but it was fun.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

He says, “I’m not in a hurry. I’m willing to wait twenty-four hours.” Not every Aries expects sex on the first date, but most of them do.

“Sex is likely within three weeks. Delaying sex is a good thing because sex tends to fore-shorten the interesting dating and getting-to-know-you phase.”

“I can do casual sex on a first meeting, but people who become regular play partners require some devotion of time and effort.”

“Five minutes to fourteen days.”

“Right after dinner …”

“Two to three dates or less … I believe in love at first sight and I am willing to take a leap.”

In bed, if no passion is ignited, he realizes he isn’t really interested. He’ll try a couple of times more and then back off, but not out. He’ll want to remain friends.

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

He is of two minds on this question, saying that he loves it and at the same time that it’s unsafe. Overall, Aries is not interested, or only occasionally, and sees casual sex as immoral.

“I enjoy it for amusement, but it is no replacement for sex in a committed relationship.”

“I am not against it, but personally I prefer to have some emotional commitment.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

Aries truly desires a total commitment to one woman. For him, the richest relationship is one of constancy.

“I believe that you share most things with the world. Your body is the one thing that you can give and share with one special person, and that commitment brings you both closer to each other.”

“When I find the right woman I will be totally devoted to her in every way and wouldn’t risk hurting her”

“I am a one-woman man.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Aries is very positive about the spiritual aspect of sexuality. Within a loving relationship, sex touches his soul.

“Sex, at its best, is the closest to heaven I’ll ever get. I think it’s the ultimate form of communication.”

“How better to define spirituality? There is giving, submission, concern for the other’s pleasure and ecstasy.”

“I believe sex is the purest union of two people, a way to show their mutual love, the ‘of one flesh’ thing.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Aries is comfortable initiating sex when he’s confident his advances are welcome. He doesn’t want to offend a woman any more than he wants to deal with rejection. He also welcomes having his partner start things off.

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Aries is a Fire Sign, a Sign of action. When it comes to expressing his wishes to his partner, especially in bed, he prefers to use body language.

“The body tells more than words … listen.”

“It’s my hope that I turn her on so much direction isn’t needed.”

“I feel spontaneity is better than a menu. A woman who doesn’t do something has a reason for that, and I respect her choice, so I let things go the way they go. Generally, I feel if a woman really experiences good sex she will accommodate me. What happens, happens and most of the time it is fulfilling.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

He’s a mainstream lover, sticking primarily to oral sex and intercourse. When he’s naughty, a good spanking is just the thing. Having his partner wear a costume complete with high heels turns him on. The more experimental Aries lover is open to some mild bondage, wearing a blindfold, using food, and playing with sex toys like vibrators, dildos, and cock rings.

The most open Aries, few in number, enjoy dominance and submission, ménage à trois, cross-dressing, and more extensive bondage. For them, sex toys might include ticklers, paddles, and handcuffs.

“I am open to damn near anything … sadomasochism, body clips, water sports, orgies, fisting, and sex toys such as chains, piercing needles, riding crops, and electrical devices.”

“I am pretty open, into dominance and submission. I love to spank my partner to the point [of] orgasm.”

Aries’ sexual fantasies are quite straightforward. Even those Aries on the most experimental range of this Sign have limits within their fantasies.

Fantasies

“When I play wth myself, I think about something I’ve done that was hot and worth reliving.”

“I fantasize about sex with a celebrity or my ex.”

“My fantasies involve a natural setting, a waterfall near by, a slight rain, very passionate.”

“I just imagine having sex after a great day of friendship.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

When Aries is attracted to a woman, he looks at her with an expression so loving, so attentive, that the feeling is almost physical. She expects that he is hanging on her every word. Well, he strives to be considerate and is willing to help his partner, but more often than not he will need gentle reminders.

“I think of ways to make her life easier … I try to assess her mood and show her sensitivity doing a household or yard chore. I take her seriously and listen to her problems.”

“I bring her tokens of love such as a little doll or cook a special meal. I might create an intimate atmosphere and dance to soft music, or perhaps share a romantic bath.”

“Bringing her potted or cut flowers, doing a household or yard chore that is creative and makes a difference, writing poems to her.”

“Being sensitive to her mood in whatever helpful ways possible, bringing practical and cute gifts.”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

Aries doesn’t need a romantic setting to be turned on. He’d like the environment to be somewhat clean, but beyond that it isn’t of great significance to him. In fact, throwing in a new sex toy or putting on a costume will prove much more stimulating than candles or incense.

“All that matters is the girl and me.”

“It sets the mood. A wide variety is okay as far as décor is concerned. The room should be clean, but not necessarily orderly. Light should be subdued.”

“Cleanliness matters. Dim light is nice, but if we’re feeling passionate, especially at the beginning of relationship, anywhere is just fine.”

“A clean house is a clean body.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

He isn’t fussy about where to have sex, but if it’s outdoors, in the woods or in a car, seclusion matters. Having sex on a deserted beach is a turnon. Trying to find a private spot among the dunes of an otherwise populated beach where there’s a good chance of being seen is a turnoff.

“Anywhere is a good place.”

“My preference is in a bed where it is comfortable.”

“I prefer the bedroom mostly because that leads to longer and, for me, more enjoyable sex. But I also like public places, when relatively obscure. I did it in an elevator once.”

A Memory

“It was a dominance and submission scene where I spanked my partner almost to the point of orgasm, but [I] would not let her touch herself though she really wanted to. I used a hairbrush and a leather belt, and had her strapped down. I kept this up for a long time until finally I let her please me to orgasm while I continued talking to her and spanking her.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Considering that this man has sex on the brain most of the time, it doesn’t take anything special to put Aries in the mood. Mostly it is the sight of his lover, the sound of her voice, and the smell of her perfume that excite him.

“The right partner puts me in the mood. Set and setting are much less important.”

“Spending time getting to know partner … this could take minutes or weeks.”

“I am an Aries. I am always in the mood. But perfume and slow music and dim lights add to the stimulus.”

“Showering together, adult videos, wine, looking at her when she puts on the leather or latex with the choker and heels … sometimes just the plain black vest that she puts on when we are going to dinner …”

“From her body language to her clothes, to her smell … I can smell a woman, not her perfume, but her. I can’t explain it but I know it and it works always.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

It’s while masturbating that adult films have their rather limited use for Aries. Just watching the sex act is sufficient to turn him on. Some Aries men completely disapprove of adult videos.

“It’s sexually arousing, but I still think there’s something wrong with it … the participants degrade themselves with immoral behavior.”

“I am not fond of adult movies, but I have nothing against looking at erotica.”

“Most adult movies are like bad acting … Ba-ba-boom. Ba-ba-boom, et cetera … Boring after a while.”

“As a tool for interest or to excite, perhaps when I’m alone, it’s okay on occasion. I’m not particularly interested in it.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

With Aries, a sexual session will include considerable cuddling and kissing. Even aside from sex, he loves physical closeness.

“I like sitting close and holding hands, walking arm in arm and with hips together in rhythm.”

“I love to cuddle when I am in a serious relationship, feeling her next to me, smelling her hair, kissing her on the head, rubbing her body, without words letting her know how much I appreciate and love her.”

“A lot, even more than most women want to give, from my experience anyway.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

As Aries is the sign that rules the head and the mouth, this is a man who is an expert at kissing and oral sex. In addition to that, he loves to touch, to feel his lover respond to his fingers.

“I love all things oral. I believe that I bring great pleasure and it is also a pleasure for me.”

“I am mainly oral and get so much pleasure from it, maybe even more than genital sex if that is possible.”

“I use my mouth for everything that makes her excited.”

“I am extremely oral; in fact, I have not failed to bring a woman to orgasm this way. I kiss everywhere and miss nothing.”

“Where sex is concerned I would rather lose any other sense than touch.”

“Touch is teasing, and I love this in foreplay. I love to see my partner crave for more.”

Fantasies

“My girlfriend in a leather outfit, with a choker and black studded heels. She is in the role of a dominatrix and makes me do things to her. Then I stop and become the dominant one and take her however I want her.”

“I would like to have a session where I would tie up my partner to a bed, give her oral sex, and have her try to escape. I would also like to spank my partner.”

“No whips, no hard pain, but I usually fantasize about being humiliated and violated by a dominant woman.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

He lists the big three: kissing, intercourse, and oral sex. Performing anal sex is the least favorite sex act for Aries men.

“When it comes to sex I am a man for all seasons, but if I had to choose between intercourse and cunnilingus I would choose cunnilingus.”

“I love performing oral sex, then fondling her breasts and intercourse. I like to receive oral sex but not all women are good at it. I like anal sex occasionally.”

“I dislike any anal penetration, no fingers or probing.”

“Stay away from the rectum.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

His skills may be many and varied, but high on the list is his ability to please a lover with his mouth.

“My imagination …”

“The use of my hands and being able to stay at an erection for a long period of time; enabling my partner to achieve multiple orgasms …”

“Inventiveness, first of all, then my oral skills …”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

On the subject of aromas, he’s more turned on by Dove soap than Poison perfume. The tastes that Aries enjoys on his partner are natural: her skin, mouth, and lips. Very few Aries men are interested in using food with sex.

“I like the scent of skin, freshly showered or bathed, with a scent of cold cream or soap.”

“I love all her smells, skin, vagina, panties … everything except perfume.”

“It is a package; all is good. You can’t like someone in slices.”

“Good question. I like the natural smell of her clean pussy. But I don’t like perfume. I want to experience her real smell. Women smell different from each other. Real turn-on for me.”

“I love kissing [a woman after she] has eaten something cold and tasty.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Aries rarely has complaints on this subject. He is a very oral lover and enjoys virtually everything connected to oral sex.

“I love eating pussy. The secretions are pleasant … I like the taste.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

He loves being the center of attention and that includes having his partner watch him during sex and orgasm. Watching her is an integral part of the experience for Aries.

“Nothing is as beautiful as a woman when she cums.”

“I love watching her. I wouldn’t miss it.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Most of his sexual encounters end in orgasm, usually achieved through a combination of foreplay, oral sex, and intercourse.

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

Aries is satisfied with a range of positions, from lying on his back and being pleasured to doggie style when he’s performing anal sex. If he has a favorite position for intercourse and orgasm, it’s with the woman on top.

“As long as my dick is covered by flesh (mouth, hand, pussy, ass, tits) I can cum.”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Aries is a sign of action and he does most things fast. As a lover, he sees himself as caring and prefers to bring his partner to climax before cumming himself. At the same time he frequently cums quickly.

“I want my partner to cum first: ego, pride reasons.”

“I’d love to cum with my partner but that’s difficult to pull off. I would rather make sure my partner has cum than risk her orgasm as I tried to finesse the timing.”

“I like both. My partner generally enjoys orgasm through oral stimulation of the clitoris, and then we enjoy mutual orgasm after. It works most times.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

As Aries communicates primarily with gestures, he isn’t very vocal during sex.

“There is some crooning and expression of pleasure, but very little talking. That would be a distraction.”

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

For Aries sex is the end of the evening, not a prelude to other activities.

“After sex, I pass out.”

“I like to kiss and relax with her in my arms.”

“If we don’t fall asleep I might enjoy having something to eat or watching TV.”

“It’s usually nighttime so I like to follow sex with a little talking, cuddling, then sleep.”

Hot Words He Secretly Craves (and Can’t Resist)

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But how do you increase intimacy?

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Click below and choose his sign on the next page:

=> Hot words he secretly craves (and can’t resist)

I believe this letter might teach you a thing or two… even if you’re not a big believer in Astrology.

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