There Are a Few Different Ways to Approach Relationship Compatibility through Numerology.

The three core numbers are a very good place to start – the Life Path, Expression and Soul Urge Numbers – as comparing these will illuminate pretty quickly whether your main modus operandi are going to be mutually supporting, or at odds with each other

If your main question is “will my relationship last?” then basic numerology will probably do (and if you’re asking that question, then it may also be worth asking yourself whether you’re prepared to put the work in regardless).

Perhaps your current love interest began as a rebound, and you’re wondering if you can learn to trust again.

Or maybe you and your partner are deeply in love, but live a long way from each other, and you want to know “will my long distance relationship work?” In which case, uncovering your relationship number could be a very useful calculation for you to do.

But if you’re here looking for some real guidance and insight about what you can learn from your partner, how you can grow together (or separate gracefully) then examining the range of your core numbers alongside your partner’s, is one of the best ways to create a foundation to actually make your relationship work.

HERE WE’RE GOING TO GIVE AN OVERVIEW OF THE WHOLE RANGE OF NUMBER COMBINATIONS.

Begin by comparing your Life Path, Expression and Soul Urge Numbers with your partner’s and you should find a few interesting patterns forming: some compatible and some maybe not so. But don’t be hasty if at first glance it seems you’re relationship-incompatible. We humans are complex creatures, and those places of friction between you and your lover maybe exactly where the most powerful learning will occur…

NUMBER 1 COMPATIBILITY

1 WITH A 1

This can be a strong combination, so long as neither partner feels over-powered by the other.

Two sets of strong ambitions may cause friction and there is some potential for resentments to build up. But with enough space and a lot of mutual respect, great heights can be reached together.

It’s likely both numbers will be clear about what they want, allowing for an honest and straightforward partnership, but there will always be the risk of competition and clashes of will.

1 WITH A 2

Usually quite a cozy relationship but it does risk not being stimulating enough for either partner.

Trust, support, physical affection and emotional security are characteristic – the 1 is able to take the lead, and in turn, receives the emotional support unwaveringly provided by the 2.

It’s a good combination for the traditional roles of husband and wife, or boss and secretary, so long as each partner is happy to stay within the boundaries of their number.

1 WITH A 3

These two individuals can act as potent catalysts for each other’s imaginative and creative drive. This can be a highly inspiring and lively combination that has great long-term potential! The affectionate and open nature of the 3 is often truly loved and appreciated by the 1, and the 1’s driving will is an inspiration to the 3. A fine match!

1 WITH A 4

These two numbers are usually not compatible without a great deal of hard work and understanding. With such different approaches to life, valuable lessons are there to be learnt from this partnership, but with both numbers uninclined to share their feelings, their connection is unlikely to run particularly deep. It is more likely they will frustrate and destabilize each other in the longer term.

1 WITH A 5

The strong-willed 1 seems at first to have little in common with the free-spirited 5, but if these numbers do capture each other’s affections, a very vibrant and loving relationship could form.

Both partners will likely offer the freedom each other needs and when uniting, it’s likely to be inspiring and joyful, and with lots to discover.

1 WITH A 6

Despite having very different approaches to life, these two numbers can be highly supportive of each other. There is the potential to form a stable and prosperous partnership, if each number is able to offer respect and recognition for the different roles played.

The 6 must be sure not to over-mother the 1, who needs sufficient space to feel independent. And the 6 must be appreciated by the 1. Both partners must work to express their emotions authentically to the other.

1 WITH A 7

This is an unlikely match, but in its highest form could be mutually positive and offer a real deepening and understanding of each other’s gifts.

This partnership may tend towards the platonic, being based in the intellect rather than the heart, so open, honest communication is a must. A common love of culture, history and information may keep this partnership together but without mutual interests, these numbers may quickly lose interest in each other.

1 WITH AN 8

As equally powerful and dynamic forces, these numbers may find themselves instantly attracted!

But in partnership, the assertive and domineering nature of each may not provide enough space for both to thrive. The success of the relationship will depend very much on compromise and giving enough attention to each other, not just to each individual’s work and goals. Plenty of effort and humility is required from both numbers.

1 WITH A 9

Standing at either end of the numerical spectrum, these numbers can only thrive when they each have space! It is likely they will both admire each other, but like the 1 and the 8, must work hard enough on the relationship, without stifling the other’s need for independence. Can be volatile, or passionate depending on characteristics and will.

1 WITH AN 11

These relationships can be highly successful, much in the same way as the 1 and 2, but with greater layers of understanding and insight.

The 11 often acts as the visionary force, fueling the ambitions of the 1, but a delicate power balance must be sustained in this partnership, especially concerning the sensitivity of the 11. Both numbers must be regarded as equals in this pairing.

1 WITH A 22

Similarly to the 1 and the 4, these two numbers are usually not compatible without a great deal of hard work and understanding. The 1’s desire to be constantly breaking new ground, combined with the 22’s need for stability can cause frustration and upset, so these partnerships are unlikely to last long. In some cases, the 1 can serve as a powerful motivating force for the 22, but this is rare.

NUMBER TWO COMPATIBILITY

2 WITH A 1

Usually quite a cozy relationship but it does risk not being stimulating enough for either partner.

Trust, support, physical affection and emotional security are characteristic – the 1 is able to take the lead, and in turn, receives the emotional support unwaveringly provided by the 2.

It’s a good combination for the traditional roles of husband and wife, or boss and secretary, so long as each partner is happy to stay within the boundaries of their number.

2 WITH A 2

This can be an ideal pairing! Just as no-one understands a twin better than his or her twin, no one understands a 2 better than another 2. Both numbers are at ease opening up fully to each other and offering unconditional support: This is a loyal and stable pairing.

But, there is the risk that neither partner will thrive or meet any of the necessary friction required for their personal growth. So this partnership may feel comfortable but be too unambitious.

2 WITH A 3

These two individuals are open and expressive, so it’s likely their relationship will be passionate and loving. There may be some fireworks or displays of temper at times, but overall much more harmony than strife. The easy-going 3 must be aware of the deep sensitivity of the 2, and the 2 should feel able to speak up if he or she feels they are ever treated too flippantly.

2 WITH A 4

These numbers have the potential to be a great match!

The 2 seeks loving commitment and the 4 needs to create a stable environment, so much happiness and fulfilment can be found in this pairing. In fact, it’s likely that if love strikes, this partnership will become serious very quickly.

But like the 2 and the 2, there is the risk that neither partner will be especially inspired or meet any of the necessary friction required for their personal growth. So this partnership may feel perfect, but become boring in the longer term.

2 WITH A 5

A difficult pairing. The 2’s need to connect, and the 5’s need to run free mean that these numbers are walking completely different paths. It’s likely that both numbers will end up unfulfilled and great conflict could result, making it unlikely that a mutually beneficial relationship can form. But, if true love can be found, there is potential for the 5 to become a loyal and devoted partner in the right circumstances.

2 WITH A 6

These two have a great deal to offer each other in terms of compatibility. The emotional sensitivity of the 2, together with the nurturing, family-oriented 6 make for an understanding partnership.

There may be a tendency towards jealousy and possessiveness (this can be true for any pairing involving the 2, but particularly with the 6, which is known for its attentive and generous qualities). The key to making this relationship work is to give each other room to breathe and grow.

2 WITH A 7

This combination can create unique partnerships and if well matched in other ways, these numbers can find a long future together. Both numbers are committed and willing to go deep, so lasting love may be found. Often an interesting and stimulating match between heart and mind.

2 WITH AN 8

One of the most compatible combinations in the numerology system. The 2 offers emotional depth and support, whilst the 8 often steps in as the provider, so these numbers can be of real mutual benefit to each other. But it is important that enough time is offered to understanding the unique traits of each partner, lest they take each other’s roles for granted and begin to feel trapped.

2 WITH A 9

These numbers could be soul-mates, or they could exist in perpetual misunderstanding.

Both have compassionate and generous traits, however, the 9 directs this outwards into the collective of humanity (and not into always into the relationship!) so the 2 is at risk of feeling triggered often. Jealousy and hurt my flare. But if this is dealt with and enough personal love and affection exchanged in the relationship, a long-lasting, passionate romance may ensue.

2 WITH AN 11

This combination gives the potential for a deep and lasting connection.

Similarly to the 2 and the 2, these numbers have a deep, intuitive understanding of each other though in this case, the 11 is more likely to take the lead in the relationship, perhaps holding the energy of a mentor or elder. And of course, this dynamic is of great comfort to the 2, who is willing to offer limitless diligence and care.

2 WITH A 22

This is a great basic combination, with a lot to offer in a relationship.

Similarly to the 2 and the 4, both numbers offer each other what they most need – the 2 will find the stability he or she requires in the 22, and the 2 offers the 22 much emotional support and encouragement. It’s likely that if love strikes, this partnership will become serious very quickly.

As the relationship progresses, it is vital that the 22 is able to connect to his or her spiritual side, and be allowed to step out of the role of provider when needed.

NUMBER 3 COMPATIBILITY

3 WITH A 1

These two individuals can act as potent catalysts for each other’s imaginative and creative drive. This can be a highly inspiring and lively combination that has great long-term potential! The affectionate and open nature of the 3 is often truly loved and appreciated by the 1, and the 1s driving will is an inspiration to the 3. A fine match!

3 WITH A 2

These two individuals are open and expressive, so it’s likely their relationship will be passionate and loving. There maybe some fireworks or displays of temper at times, but overall much more harmony than strife. The easy-going 3 must be aware of the deep sensitivity of the 2, and the 2 should feel able to speak up if he or she feels they are ever treated too flippantly.

3 WITH A 3

Chaos and fun often ensue as a result of this twinning of numbers. Two 3s together tend to be instantly attracted and can excite and inspire each other to great heights.

But this is unlikely to be a long-lasting partnership as 3s rarely have stability or commitment as priorities and before long, the more mundane aspects of life together may easily give way to boredom and ennui. If this can be overcome, the partnership could last well into the future!

3 WITH A 4

A difficult pairing. The 3 is spontaneous and care-free, but the 4 needs to consider and plan, so this combination of numbers will frequently run into problems. The sociable and flirtatious nature of the 3 is also likely to trigger jealousy and possessiveness in the 4, resulting in controlling behavior. Will work long-term only if each number works tirelessly to understand each other’s differences.

3 WITH A 5

These two are very enthusiastic about each other. They make great friends, having a lot of fun and adventure together. But, there is the risk that both will avoid necessary serious conversations or dealing suitably with problems if they arise, as both numbers tend towards escapism and distraction.

The relationship will only have long-term potential if both partners are willing to commit to the work it truly takes.

3 WITH A 6

This is a good pairing that can build a lively social network and family together.

Both are creative numbers with the 6 offering a nurturing support that allows both partners to thrive.

Fidelity might be a problem if the 3 begins to feel stifled, so the 6 must ensure he or she gives enough space for their partner to feel free. And likewise, the 3 must give the 6 ample attention and personal recognition in the relationship.

3 WITH A 7

A relationship between these two individuals rarely lasts a lifetime (but is possible in some cases!)

If they do get together it is usually a clear case of how opposites attract: the 3 must exist in a whirlwind of social activity, but the 7 needs plenty of solitude. So long as each partner understands the needs of the other, and is sensitive in how this is expressed, they can coexist effectively.

3 WITH AN 8

An unlikely partnership. The creative and playful character of the 3 is unlikely to be understood by the driven and materially-focused 8, so it’s unlikely that either number will thrive. In some cases, each partner can balance the strengths and weaknesses of the other, but much effort and understanding is required for it to work long term.

3 WITH A 9

These two are both likely to stand out in a crowd and intrigue and impress each other. Their creativity, passion and wisdom will likely keep the relationship alive and stimulating for both partners. Long term there is huge potential, but they must work jointly on financial matters as being a forte of neither number, this could be the root of any problems which do arise.

3 WITH AN 11

These relationships can be highly successful, much in the same way as the 3 and 2, but with greater layers of understanding and insight.

These two individuals are expressive and intuitive, so its likely their relationship will be deep but also great fun. The 11 must ensure that he or she takes enough time alone to recharge, as the social needs of each number are quite different. And the 3 must remember to consider the sensitive nature of the 11, even when it’s not directly expressed.

3 WITH A 22

This is a difficult pairing. The 3 is spontaneous and care-free, but the 22 needs to have a secure base and to know what comes next. These very different outlooks will make a romantic relationship problematic, with both partners feeling frequently misunderstood.

On occasion, this may work if the 22 functions as a patron or funder of the 3s creative talents, but long-term, this will most certainly inhibit the spiritual growth of the 22.

NUMBER FOUR COMPATIBILITY

4 WITH A 1

4 WITH A 2

These numbers have the potential to be a great match!

4 WITH A 3

4 WITH A 4

These are very compatible numbers as they share the same values and goals in life. Both understand and respect each others desire for stability and order, and will work hard for this same end. There is some tendency to lock horns, but generally, disagreements are not serious. There is a danger that neither partner will be encouraged to take risks or do anything spontaneous, which may limit opportunities for growth and experience.

4 WITH A 5

These two numbers display vastly different temperaments that make compatibility highly unlikely. The 4 seeks stability and long-term commitment, but the 5 needs to fly free. Neither partners are likely to be able to offer what the other needs to feel truly fulfilled, and the 5 risks feeling stifled, whilst the 4 very anxious and unsettled.

4 WITH A 6

This is a solid and practical pairing, with the potential to find domestic bliss together. Both numbers are grounded, reliable and organized so a relationship will likely be built on mutual trust and similar values, rather than passion and romance. Both would do well to make extra effort to inject a little excitement into the relationship, as it may otherwise become too comfortable, quite quickly.

4 WITH A 7

These numbers can make a great pairing. Both have qualities which complement each other, whilst they are different enough to stay interesting. There is some risk of the relationship staying on purely practical and intellectual realms if neither partner is willing to open up emotionally. So this should be a focus if they are wanting to commit long-term.

4 WITH AN 8

These two hard-workers are very compatible. Both numbers are willing and able to plan long-term, which offers a great deal of comfort and reassurance, and allows both partners to relax and enjoy each other. It’s likely that practical matters will be equally shared within the relationship, and both partners will feel they are being fairly treated. That said, they both must work towards deepening their emotional ties.

4 WITH A 9

An unusual pairing which will either be a non-starter or a lifelong connection.

The grounded, practical qualities of the 4 can be attractive, and beneficial to the 9, who has a tendency to be unfocused. And the relaxed openness of the 9 can inspire the 4 to release his or her grip on life, and flow a little more easily. The potential for a deep relationship will depend very much on the other numbers in both partners’ charts.

4 WITH AN 11

These numbers may attract initially, but longer term the spiritual focus of the 11 is unlikely to be shared or understood by the practical, grounded 4.

The loving commitment desired by the 4 may be provided by the 11, and the safety that the 11 needs to expand may be offered by the 4. But ultimately, the 11 will need to break free and it’s unlikely to end well. If work and effort are applied though, these numbers have much to learn much from each other whilst together.

4 WITH A 22

These are highly compatible numbers as they share the same underlying values and goals in life. Like the 4 and the 4, both understand and respect each others desire for stability and order and will work hard for this same end. But as with all master numbers, there will come a time in the life of the 22 when he or she needs the freedom to explore their spiritual gifts. If the 4 is not willing to allow this space, the 22 will need to take it, or much resentment will be triggered for both partners.

NUMBER 5 COMPATIBILITY

5 WITH A 1

The strong-willed 1 seems at first to have little in common with the free-spirited 5, but if these numbers do capture each other’s affections, a very vibrant and loving relationship could form.

Both partners will likely offer the freedom each other needs and when uniting, it’s likely to be inspiring and joyful, and with lots to discover.

5 WITH A 2

5 WITH A 3

The relationship will only have long-term potential if both partners are willing to commit to the work it truly takes.

5 WITH A 4

5 WITH A 5

These two twins both thrive on a lifestyle filled with travel, adventure and drama. An innate understanding of each other’s desire to be free will lead to a mutually beneficial partnership and enough space for neither to feel tied down. There is some risk that neither number will tend to the more mundane aspects of their relationship, preferring to either divert their attention or jump ship completely. So some level of commitment will be required for this to truly work long-term.

5 WITH A 6

This relationship can survive if both parties are willing to make compromises. The freedom-loving qualities of the 5 can seem at odds with the 6s need for home and sanctuary, so both partners will need to be firm about what they need to be fulfilled (and the other will need to try to meet it). If this is possible, it can be a very nourishing partnership.

5 WITH A 7

This pairing has huge potential.

The 5’s need for variety and stimulation provides endless interest for the 7, who is also able to provide the freedom that the 5 so needs. So despite each partner requiring time apart from the other, when uniting, it can be electric! Both must commit to expressing their feelings authentically.

5 WITH AN 8

This combination can be born from genuine admiration for each other but their long-term potential may be limited. The 8 needs structure and long-term commitment, but the 5 is often unwilling to be restrained in this way. So despite an inherent dynamism, it is unlikely that these two will be able to partner effectively. In cases where their love is strong, with enough work and understanding, both partners may reach incredible heights together.

5 WITH A 9

An adventurous and passionate pairing, these two numbers can work well together if they are each able to offer enough time and energy to the relationship.

The risk is that their lives will remain too separate for genuine emotional involvement to unite them, so it’s necessary to be very open about what they each are seeking from the relationship.

5 WITH AN 11

Not an easy pairing. The 5’s need to explore the world, and the 11’s need for grounding and connection mean that they not wholly suited. The 11 may come across as too intense for the 5, but if their love is strong, it may work if the 11 makes enough other connections to support and enable their own spiritual explorations, though this may not serve to deepen the relationship.

5 WITH A 22

These two numbers display vastly different temperaments that make compatibility highly unlikely. The 22 seeks stability and long-term commitment, whilst the 5 is highly unlikely to provide it. Mutual respect may exist, but it’s likely that innate understanding will not.

NUMBER 6 COMPATIBILITY

6 WITH A 1

Despite having very different approaches to life, these two numbers can be highly supportive of each other. There is the potential to form a stable and prosperous partnership if each number is able to offer respect and recognition for the different roles played.

6 WITH A 2

These two have a great deal to offer each other in terms of compatibility. The emotional sensitivity of the 2, together with the nurturing, family-oriented 6 make for an understanding partnership.

6 WITH A 3

This is a good pairing that can build a lively social network and family together.

Both are creative numbers with the 6 offering a nurturing support that allows both partners to thrive.

6 WITH A 4

6 WITH A 5

This relationship can survive if both parties are willing to make compromises. The freedom-loving qualities of the 5 can seem at odds with the 6’s need for home and sanctuary, so both partners will need to be firm about what they need to be fulfilled (and the other will need to try to meet it). If this is possible, it can be a very nourishing partnership.

6 WITH A 6

These two number twins make a truly committed pairing. Both partners have the same priorities, placing family, health and creativity at the forefront of both of their lives, and so have a mutual and intuitive understanding of each other’s desires and needs.

Together they may be of great service out in the world, so long as this can be balanced with their home life.

6 WITH A 7

This can be a difficult relationship that requires much compromising on the part of both numbers.

The 7 can come across as too aloof for the 6, who needs a certain amount of emotional control. But if each number is able to clearly express what they need from the relationship, and the other partner is willing to provide it then this pairing does have some potential.

6 WITH AN 8

This is a good combination that can work well long term.

Both numbers are focused and reliable, so it’s likely that the pairing will last if both remain committed to each other. The risks come when the focus of their attention falls on different things, and the 6 puts all of his or her attention on the family, whilst the 8 is pre-occupied with work and business. Both partners will need to work together and compromise where needed.

6 WITH A 9

This pairing can be deeply fulfilling for both partners.

Both the 6 and the 9 are highly idealistic and hard workers, so it’s likely their expectations of each other will both be met. When these two individuals meet they are likely to forge some form of a relationship that will endure over their whole lifetimes.

6 WITH AN 11

These two numbers can form the basis of a mutually satisfying partnership.

The 6 offers the 11 a safe and nurturing base from which to grow and explore his or her spiritual gift. And the 11 is likely to recognize and appreciate what the 6 has to offer. But if the partnership is to succeed long term, the 6 may have to be aware of any jealous or overly controlling emotions and work hard not to stifle the 11’s personal growth.

6 WITH A 22

These two often enjoy a mutually beneficial relationship that can last many years. Both numbers are grounded and practical and understand the value of a stable home life. In its highest form, the safe embrace of the relationship will enable the 22 to explore his or her spiritual gifts, and the 6 will appreciate the importance of the role they are playing.

NUMBER SEVEN COMPATIBILITY

7 WITH A 1

This is an unlikely match, but in its highest form could be mutually positive and offer a real deepening and understanding of each other’s gifts.

7 WITH A 2

This combination can create a unique partnership, and if well matched in other ways, these numbers can find a long future together. Both numbers are committed and willing to go deep, so lasting love may be found. Often an interesting and stimulating match between heart and mind.

7 WITH A 3

A relationship between these two individuals rarely lasts a lifetime (but is possible in some cases!)

7 WITH A 4

These numbers can make a great pairing. Both have qualities which complement each other, whilst they are different enough to stay interesting. There is some risk of the relationship staying on purely practical and intellectual realms if neither partners are willing to open up emotionally. So this should be a focus if they are wanting to commit long-term.

7 WITH A 5

This pairing has huge potential.

7 WITH A 6

This can be a difficult relationship that requires much compromising on the part of both numbers.

7 WITH A 7

These number twins understand each other like no one else, so this relationship can run extremely deep. They embrace each other’s eccentricities and indulge each other’s interests, affording plenty of time to explore, share and discuss their knowledge and ideas. The risk is that the 7 can tend to be ungrounded, so together both partners must work on making their relationship function in practical, everyday ways.

7 WITH AN 8

This combination can work, though on the surface it may appear as though these numbers are at odds. The 8 can be quite controlling and determined, whilst the 7 takes a more cautious and ephemeral approach. But if other numbers are aligned, these partners can be highly complementary and the relationship has real potential.

Both must ensure they are emotionally open if the relationship is to go beyond the purely material and intellectual realms and enter the hearts of both partners.

7 WITH A 9

These two number’s affection and appreciation for each other is based on a deep spiritual connection. If it is there, they may have found their soul mate. But if it’s not then the friction which arises will either feel gently challenging to both and keep their interest sparked, or the relationship will quickly fail. True compatibility depends on the willingness to keep an open mind and on the personal charts of each partner.

7 WITH AN 11

Similarly to the 7 and the 2, this combination can create unique partnerships, and if well matched in other ways, these numbers can find a long future together. The 7 will allow enough space and encouragement for the 11 to explore his or her spiritual gifts, and the 11 will be inspired by their partnership. Troubles may arise if the 7 is unable to provide the emotional closeness that the 11 desires.

7 WITH A 22

These numbers can make a good pairing, as like the 7 and the 4, both have qualities which complement each other, whilst they are different enough to stay interesting. There is some risk of frustration if the 7 is unable to stick to the schedule or follow the instructions prescribed by the 22, but if this can be resolved there is potential for a highly stimulating and close relationship to develop.

NUMBER 8 COMPATIBILITY

8 WITH A 1

As equally powerful and dynamic forces, these numbers may find themselves instantly attracted!

8 WITH A 2

8 WITH A 3

8 WITH A 4

These two hard-workers are very compatible. Both numbers are willing and able to plan long-term which offers a great deal of comfort and reassurance and allows both partners to relax and enjoy each other. It’s likely that practical matters will be equally shared within the relationship, and both partners will feel they are being fairly treated. That said, they both must work towards deepening their emotional ties.

8 WITH A 5

8 WITH A 6

This is a good combination that can work well long term.

8 WITH A 7

This combination can work, though on the surface it may appear as though these numbers are at odds. The 8 can be quite controlling and determined, whilst the 7 takes a more cautious and ephemeral approach. But if other numbers are aligned, these two can be highly complementary and the relationship has real potential.

Both must ensure they are emotionally open if the relationship is to go beyond the purely material and intellectual realms and enter the hearts of both partners.

8 WITH AN 8

These two birds of a feather completely understand each other’s drive to be successful.

This is an excellent and prosperous combination that forges solid marriages and enduring business partnerships. The risk comes when too much focus and attention is placed on work, and the loving element of the relationship is neglected. But if both partners are committed, they will likely say loyal for a lifetime.

8 WITH A 9

Both the 8 and the 9 are strong, determined and ambitious numbers, however, they may struggle to connect. The 8 can be fundamentally focused on money and power, whilst the 9 has more humanitarian causes at its core. So a partnership between them may not last. Or, they could learn much from each other and complement each other greatly, depending on the depth of love that they share.

8 WITH AN 11

This pairing can work. Similarly to the 8 and the 2, the 11 offers emotional depth and support, whilst the 8 often steps in as the provider, so these numbers can be of mutual benefit to each other. But as the relationship progresses, the 11 may have to break the roles, needing space to grow and individuate. If the 8 can create space for the 11 to shine, these number could work together, but it is not an easy dynamic to balance without one or other number feeling squeezed.

8 WITH A 22

This is a dynamic duo that can accomplish great things together, especially in business. Like the 8 and the 4, both numbers feel secure when long-term plans are made and practical matters are taken care of, which leaves space and energy for personal growth.

There is potential for a strong and healthy marriage. Many long-distance relationships are the result of an understanding between an 8 and 22 as both can handle letting the other partner have a great deal of freedom.

NUMBER 9 COMPATIBILITY

9 WITH A 1

Standing at either end of the numerical spectrum, these numbers can only thrive when they each have space! It is likely they will both admire each other, but like the 8 and the 1, must work hard enough on the relationship, without stifling the other’s need for independence. Can be volatile, or passionate depending on characteristics and will.

9 WITH A 2

These numbers could be soul-mates, or they could exist in perpetual misunderstanding.

9 WITH A 3

9 WITH A 4

An unusual pairing which will either be a non-starter or a lifelong connection.

The grounded, practical qualities of the 4 can be attractive and beneficial to the 9, who has a tendency to be unfocused. And the relaxed openness of the 9 can inspire the 4 to release his or her grip on life, and flow a little more easily. The potential for a deep relationship will depend very much on the other numbers in both partners’ charts.

9 WITH A 5

An adventurous and passionate pairing, these two numbers can work well together if they are each able to offer enough time and energy to the relationship.

The risk is that their lives will remain too separate for genuine emotional involvement to unite them, so it’s necessary to be very open about what they each are seeking from the relationship.

9 WITH A 6

This pairing can be deeply fulfilling for both partners.

9 WITH A 7

9 WITH AN 8

9 WITH A 9

These twin numbers often share lofty aspirations as well as a deep soul connection that can last a lifetime. Both are passionate, generous individuals who can make each other very happy. Their partnership is likely to be stimulating and inspiring to other people, and a basis for many good things to be born into the world.

9 WITH AN 11

These numbers could be soul-mates!

Both have compassionate and generous natures, but the 9 shares this love so widely that the 11 may not always feel the personal support and care that they need. But it is likely both numbers will still feel appreciated and enlivened by each others company, both receiving the space they need to expand, as well as the safe comfort to come home to.

9 WITH A 22

An unusual pairing which could form a lifelong connection.

The grounded, practical qualities of the 22 can be attractive and beneficial to the 9, whilst the visionary insight of the 22 will likely inspire and intrigue the 9! The 9 is also likely to offer the 22 enough space for their own personal exploration but must ensure they provide support and structure when the 22 most needs it.

MASTER NUMBER 11 COMPATIBILITY

11 WITH A 1

These relationships can be highly successful, much in the same way as the 1 and 2, but with greater layers of understanding and insight.

11 WITH A 2

This combination gives the potential for a deep and lasting connection.

11 WITH A 3

These relationships can be highly successful, much in the same way as the 2 and the 3, but with greater layers of understanding and insight.

These two individuals are expressive and intuitive, so it’s likely their relationship will be deep but also great fun. The 11 must ensure that he or she takes enough time alone to recharge, as the social needs of each number are quite different. And the 3 must remember to consider the sensitive nature of the 11, even when it’s not directly expressed.

11 WITH A 4

These numbers may attract initially, but longer term the spiritual focus of the 11 is unlikely to be shared or understood by the practical, grounded 4.

The loving commitment desired by the 4 may be provided by the 11, and the safety that the 11 needs to expand may be offered by the 4. But ultimately, the 11 will need to break free and it’s unlikely to end well. If work and effort are applied, though, these numbers have much to learn much from each other whilst together.

11 WITH A 5

11 WITH A 6

These two numbers can form the basis of a mutually satisfying partnership.

The 6 offers the 11 a safe and nurturing base from which to grow and explore his or her spiritual gift. And the 2 is likely to recognize and appreciate what the 6 has to offer. But if the partnership is to succeed long term, the 6 may have to be aware of any jealous or overly controlling emotions and work hard not to stifle the 11’s personal growth.

11 WITH A 7

Similarly to the 2 and the 7, this combination can create unique partnerships, and if well matched in other ways, these numbers can find a long future together. The 7 will allow enough space and encouragement for the 11 to explore his or her spiritual gifts, and the 11 will be inspired by their partnership. Troubles may arise if the 7 is unable to provide the emotional closeness that the 11 desires.

11 WITH AN 8

This pairing can work. Similarly to the 2 and the 8, the 11 offers emotional depth and support, whilst the 8 often steps in as the provider, so these numbers can be of mutual benefit to each other. But as the relationship progresses, the 11 may have to break the roles, needing space to grow and individuate. If the 8 can create space for the 11 to shine, these number could work together, but it is not an easy dynamic to balance without one or other number feeling squeezed.

11 WITH A 9

These numbers could be soul-mates!

Both have compassionate and generous natures, but the 9 shares this love so widely that the 11 may not always feel the personal support and care that they need. It is likely both numbers will still feel appreciated and enlivened by each others company, both receiving the space they need to expand, as well as the safe comfort to come home to.

11 WITH AN 11

These numbers can form a truly deep connection.

No-one understands the unique and sensitive path of the 11 better than another 11, so this pairing offers the depth of compassion and unconditional support that both partners need to thrive. Both numbers are at ease opening up fully to each other and can also provide the healing presence that will do each partner so much good.

This can be an intense pairing. It would do both partners good to laugh, seek pleasure and fun and friendship outside of the relationship, lest they become too reclusive.

11 WITH A 22

These numbers can form a powerful connection.

Both partners share the need for a deep, safe connection, so both are able to offer it to the other. This sense of being held means that they are both able to open up and relax into the relationship.

Both 11 and 22 are committed and loyal, so once these two have declared their love, it will be unshakable. There will likely be a time when each number needs the freedom to pursue their own spiritual development, but the patience and understanding afforded by both the 11 and the 22 means their bond will remain intact.

A potentially powerful force for change

MASTER NUMBER 22 COMPATIBILITY

22 WITH A 1

Similarly to the 4 and the 1, these two numbers are usually not compatible without a great deal of hard work and understanding. The 1’s desire to be constantly breaking new ground, combined with the 22’s need for stability can cause frustration and upset, so these partnerships are unlikely to last long. In some cases, the 1 can serve as a powerful motivating force for the 22, but this is rare.

2 WITH A 22

This is a great basic combination, with a lot to offer in a relationship.

As the relationship progresses, it is vital that the 22 is able to connect to his or her spiritual side and be allowed to step out of the role of provider when needed.

22 WITH A 3

On occasion, this may work if the 22 functions as a patron or funder of the 3s creative talents, but long-term, this will most certainly inhibit the spiritual growth of the 22.

22 WITH A 4

These are highly compatible numbers as they share the same underlying values and goals in life. Like the 4 and the 4, both understand and respect each others desire for stability and order, and will work hard for this same end. But as with all master numbers, there will come a time in the life of the 22 when he or she needs the freedom to explore their spiritual gifts. If the 4 is not willing to allow this space, the 22 will need to take it, or much resentment will be triggered for both partners.

22 WITH A 5

22 WITH A 6

22 WITH A 7

These numbers can make a good pairing, as, like the 4 and the 7, both have qualities which complement each other, whilst they are different enough to stay interesting. There is some risk of frustration if the 7 is unable to stick to the schedule or follow the instructions prescribed by the 22, but if this can be resolved there is potential for a highly stimulating and close relationship to develop.

22 WITH AN 8

This is a dynamic duo that can accomplish great things together, especially in business. Like the 4 and the 8, both numbers feel secure when long-term plans are made and practical matters are taken care of, which leaves space and energy for personal growth.

22 WITH A 9

An unusual pairing which could form a lifelong connection.

22 WITH AN 11

These numbers can form a powerful connection.

Both numbers share the need for a deep, safe connection, so both are able to offer it to the other. This sense of being held means that they are both able to open up and relax into the relationship.

A potentially powerful force for change.

22 WITH A 22

These are highly compatible numbers.

Sharing the same practical desires and needs, they will have an instinctive understanding of how to support and make each other happy. As highly intuitive individuals, it is likely they will connect very deeply, very quickly and their relationship will progress fast.

As with all master numbers, there will likely be a time when each number needs the freedom to pursue their own spiritual development, but the patience and understanding afforded by both partners means their bond will remain intact.

A potentially powerful force for change.

The placement of Chiron in Scorpio in a woman’s natal chart signals her passage through some of life’s most profound emotional and psychological challenges. Commonly referred to as the Wounded Healer, Chiron symbolizes those areas in our lives where we carry deep wounds from early childhood or past lives – often from our childhood selves or past lives – which hold key elements for healing and spiritual growth. His influence can be particularly intense here focusing on power dynamics, intimacy transformation and even mysteries such as life and death.

Chiron in Scorpio women may have experienced painful emotional wounds related to trust, betrayal and vulnerability issues in relationships; yet this placement also gives her the potential for profound healing and transformation – both personally and interpersonally. This comprehensive exploration will delve into these complexities – their challenges, strengths and path to ultimate healing.

Understanding Chiron in Astrology

Before discussing Chiron in Scorpio, it’s essential to have an understanding of its symbolism in astrology. Chiron is an asteroid named after a centaur from Greek mythology who served as healer, teacher and mentor to many Greek heroes despite suffering an irreparable wound from poisoned arrow – although as an immortal being he refused to die; rather he lived with his wound while using it to help others heal themselves.

Astrologically speaking, Chiron symbolizes our deep wounds as well as their potential to heal others. A sign and house placement of Chiron in one’s natal chart will indicate where these wounds lie in one’s life – particularly for women with Scorpio as their zodiac sign; for them these wounds are tied directly with Scorpio’s intense and transformative energies.

The Scorpio Archetype: Power, Transformation, and the Shadow

Scorpio is one of the zodiac’s most complex and intense signs, ruled by Pluto (the planet associated with transformation) and associated with themes related to power, control, intimacy, secrecy and death/rebirth processes. Scorpio represents our subconscious realm where some of our most profound and often frightening aspects reside.

Chiron in Scorpio women often struggle with issues of power and control within intimate relationships. She may have experienced betrayal, abandonment or emotional trauma that left her vulnerable and distrustful of others – leaving them fearful that their vulnerabilities or fears of losing control will be exposed and cause them to retreat emotionally by building emotional barriers around themselves and keeping others at a distance.

The Emotional Wounds of a Chiron in Scorpio Woman

For Chiron women born under Scorpio sun signs, emotional wounds often focus on themes related to trust, betrayal, and fear of vulnerability. While specifics will vary depending on her life experiences and aspects of her natal chart; common threads can often emerge throughout their journey.

1. Betrayal and Abandonment: Women born with Chiron in Scorpio could have experienced significant betrayals or abandonments during her early years, which may have involved their parents, caregivers or close relationships causing deep wounds that linger into adulthood. These experiences can leave her fearful of betrayals occurring again causing her to remain wary in all relationships she engages in. This fear may cause them to remain guarded and cautious towards future relationships as a protective measure against further disillusionment from close relationships that would otherwise bring joy.

2. Issues With Power and Control: Scorpio is known for being intimately tied to power dynamics, making her especially susceptible to having issues around this. She may have experienced situations in which others exerted control over her, leading her to seek regaining that power for herself through controlling her environment, emotions or relationships in order to feel less vulnerable and protect herself. This manifests as the need to regulate or dominate all areas of her life or relationships in order to feel safer.

3. Difficulties with Intimacy and Trust: Due to her fear of betrayal and vulnerability, Chiron in Scorpio women may find it challenging to open up emotionally with others and trust fully. She may keep some at arm’s length out of fear they will hurt or betray her in return; this can create feelings of isolation even within close relationships.

4. Deep Emotional Pain and Resilience: Chiron in Scorpio women have remarkable resilience despite the intensity of their wounds; she can endure and survive the most challenging emotional experiences with great tenacity and endurance. However, their resilience may become counterproductive at times as they learn how to numb pain rather than healing from it effectively.

The Path to Healing for a Chiron in Scorpio Woman

The journey toward healing for Chiron in Scorpio women can be transformative. It requires facing her deepest fears, accepting vulnerability, and ultimately learning to trust herself and others more fully. While this journey may be challenging at times, its rewards could include significant growth and empowerment.

1. Acknowledging Vulnerability: For Chiron in Scorpio women, one of the key steps toward healing is learning to accept her emotions as they arise without suppressing or trying to control them, while being willing to open up to others even if this feels risky. By accepting vulnerability she can begin healing wounds of betrayal while learning trust once more.

2. Confronting Your Shadow: Carl Jung first introduced the concept of our “shadow,” or those parts of ourselves we often shun or suppress due to discomfort or social norms. For a Chiron in Scorpio woman, her shadow can include emotions such as anger, jealousy or fear; in order for healing to occur successfully she needs to bring these aspects of herself out into the light, recognize them, acknowledge them and integrate them back into herself; this process can be helped along by therapy sessions, journal writing or other forms of self-exploration.

3. Letting Go of Control: An essential aspect of healing lies in relinquishing control, meaning trusting that she does not need to control all aspects of her life to feel safe and learning to let go of past hurts and not allow them to dictate future relationships. By relinquishing control she can open herself up for new experiences that build mutual respect between partners.

4. Transformation Through Crisis: Scorpio is known for being the sign of transformation through crisis, so women with Chiron in Scorpio may find their most profound growth comes through confronting difficult challenges like relationship breakups, career disruptions and personal crises as catalysts of profound change. By accepting and viewing them as opportunities for personal development she may move closer towards healing herself and others.

5. Healing Others: As the Chiron in Scorpio woman heals her own wounds, she may discover she has an intuitive ability to help others do the same. Through sharing her journey and offering support to those experiencing similar struggles, she can deepen both her own healing while also having an impactful and beneficial influence on those around her.

Relationships and Intimacy: Navigating the Complexities

A Chiron in Scorpio woman often faces significant difficulties when entering relationships due to deep-seated fears and emotional wounds that surface from within herself. Yet these relationships can also serve as sources of great healing if approached with care and intention.

1. Drawn to Intensity: Women born under Chiron in Scorpio are drawn to relationships that are intense and passionate, often drawn towards those that match her emotional depth and are willing to explore darker, more complex aspects of life with her. Unfortunately, such intensity may make relationships tumultuous or challenging as both partners bring unresolved issues up for discussion.

2. Fear of Betrayal: One of the main obstacles in her relationships is her fear of betrayal, which may cause her to withdraw emotionally, test their partner’s loyalty, or become possessive and jealous – behaviors which create tension within their relationships and could ultimately lead to leaving or being betrayed by one or both parties involved.

3. Building Trust: For women born with Chiron in Scorpio, healing in relationships requires learning how to trust her partner and allow herself to be vulnerable. This may involve communicating openly and honestly, setting boundaries, gradually opening up, and gradually becoming vulnerable enough. Through building trust and being vulnerable she can experience deep, transformative connections.

4. Empathy and Healing: Once she has begun to mend her own wounds, a Chiron in Scorpio woman can become an extremely sympathetic and supportive partner. Her experiences provide her with a profound understanding of emotional suffering that allows her to provide comforting emotional support to her partner. Likewise, relationships may become sources of healing for both parties involved as they navigate their paths together.

Career and Life Purpose: The Transformative Power of Chiron in Scorpio

Chiron in Scorpio woman are drawn to roles that involve transformation, healing or working on deep issues that require transformative efforts. She may find fulfillment in careers that allow them to explore the hidden aspects of life – be it psychology, counseling, research or investigative work. Her ability to understand others’ underlying motivations and emotions makes her an excellent healer and guide.

1. Healing Professions: Chiron in Scorpio women often find themselves drawn to careers in healing professions like psychology, counseling, or therapy due to their profound understanding of emotional pain and transformation. They may also explore alternative healing practices like energy work or holistic health in which they can explore the connection between body, mind, and spirit.

2. Investigative Roles: With her natural curiosity and desire to get to the bottom of things, Chiron in Scorpio women make ideal candidates for investigative roles such as journalism, research or law enforcement. With their ability to see through deception quickly and get straight to the source of any problem quickly being her greatest strengths.

3. Creative Transformation: For some Chiron in Scorpio women, their life purpose lies in creative transformation. This could involve careers in the arts where they can explore themes of emotional depth and transformation through their work – writing, music, visual art or any other artistic form – often mirroring their personal journey of healing and transformation while simultaneously striking a chord with those experiencing similar struggles.

The Dark Night of the Soul: Navigating the Chiron in Scorpio Crisis

One of the greatest difficulties associated with having Chiron in Scorpio is experiencing what’s known as a “dark night of the soul”–an extended period of inner turmoil or crisis that inevitably leads to spiritual transformation and growth. For women born under this influence, this period may be precipitated by significant loss, betrayal or personal crisis that forces her to confront her deepest fears and insecurities head on.

1. Descent into Darkness: At times, women with Chiron in Scorpio may become overwhelmed with feelings of despair, hopelessness, or confusion. She may question herself and her relationships while having to face aspects of herself that she had previously avoided facing head on. While this period can be emotionally draining and distressful for them both at once, it is part and parcel of their healing journey.

2. Surrender to the Process: One key to successfully managing this crisis is surrendering to its process and trusting that it will lead to increased understanding and transformation. Chiron in Scorpio woman must let go of old patterns, beliefs, or attachments which no longer serve her even though this means facing intense emotional pain; now may be an excellent time for deep inner work where support from a therapist, counselor, or spiritual guide could prove invaluable.

3. Emergence From the Dark Night: As she moves through this period of darkness, Chiron in Scorpio women may gradually begin to experience renewal and rebirth. Emerging with renewed purpose, clarity, and inner strength she may face and overcome deepest fears – this transformation marks a new chapter in their lives, where they can live more authentically and fully.

Conclusion: The Power and Potential of the Chiron in Scorpio Woman

Women who carry Chiron in Scorpio hold tremendous healing and transformation power within them, for themselves as well as those around her. Her journey may require facing deep emotional wounds, accepting vulnerability, and ultimately emerging stronger and more empowered – though challenging at times it can provide great personal growth as well as spiritual enlightenment.

As she traverses her journey, the Chiron in Scorpio woman may discover that her experiences allow her to understand and help those going through similar challenges. By sharing her journey and using insights gained along the way to aid others, she can become a powerful healer and guide – ultimately altering not only her own life but also those touched by her presence.

Chiron in Scorpio women tend to seek intimate relationships and transformative experiences as part of their emotional, professional, and personal development goals. By understanding and applying Chiron and Scorpio’s lessons in her daily life, she can unlock her full potential and live an engaging, purpose-filled existence filled with passion, authenticity and integrity.