In his own words…
A Memory
“I was on a visit to Ireland. I was in a group. I had my eye on one woman, but another made a serious pass at me. We went for a walk on a mountain, and made love on a hilltop. The smell was mushrooms and salt sea air. The extra thrill was realizing that another couple was watching us.”
Attraction and Dating a Sagittarius
WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?
Sagittarius is an even-tempered, fairly easy-going man. He appreciates a woman with a gentle disposition and who doesn’t get overly upset about trivialities. Intelligence certainly counts, but the Sagittarius man never underestimates the importance of a nice pair of legs and lovely hips
“Eyes, hair, smell, stance, and gap between thighs with skin-tight pants.”
“A combination of a woman’s mind and athletic body …”
“I would call myself a leg man. I am turned on sexually by short skirts, with or without pantyhose, and high heels. I like leather skirts, also.”
“A woman’s form, breasts that aren’t overly large, intelligence … She must be energetic and have a free spirit.”
WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?
A woman who is loud and boisterous and tries too hard to be the center of attention will turn off this laid-back man. Style and grace are also important to him.
“Sour attitude, crude language, bitterness, any extreme attitudes, such as racism, homophobia …”
“A woman who is too conventional and anti-intellectual, and too fat …”
“Someone who doesn’t take time to look nice, a profane mouth, acting too tough, someone who is cold.”
WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?
He is somewhat of a gambler and enjoys the occasional night at the track or at a nearby casino. Sagittarius loves sports and a woman who comes up with tickets to the local farm team’s baseball game will score with him. He also likes a good debate, even a very heated one. That’s all part of the fun for him.
“I have enjoyed dining out, movies, amusement parks, visiting friends, and going out with another couple.”
“Intelligent conversation, walking on a beach, going to a fine restaurant …”
“Dance, drink, talk, movie, dinner, a walk through the park …”
“Talking, learning about the person, long drives …”
“Movies, eating out, cooking together, sports events, cuddling and holding hands …”
Memories
“Romantic: a girlfriend once asked me over on the first day it snowed in order to sweep the snow off her car. She was only 5′ 1″ and was having a hard time reaching across the top. We ended up making love in the back seat, something I hadn’t done before. I have no idea why that one stands out with me so much … something about the cold snowy air, warm car, unexpected quality of it all, I guess.”
“My nineteenth birthday. My girlfriend did not say a word to me when I came to her house. She just grabbed me and proceeded from there.”
ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?
Of course he is flirtatious. Sagittarius is a friendly and fairly outgoing Sign. He is relaxed and mellow, but when in conversation with a woman his focus is completely upon her. Flirting is fun.
“To the point where it is a problem, yes …”
“I am not a conscious flirt, but I am told that my eyes attract.”
“Somewhat, probably just enough so I [won’t] get into trouble …”
ARE YOU JEALOUS?
Sagittarius isn’t a possessive sign. He has a fun-loving disposition and is open and forth-right. When he is in a relationship, he expects the same from his partner. If both parties are being honest, what could possibly provoke jealousy?
“I am not naturally jealous, unless I have cause to suspect my love, and I am not the type to make a scene.”
HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?
For the Sagittarius man, the rules are simple: affection, yes; sex, no. A loving kiss is fine, Frenching isn’t. Sitting close and embracing, absolutely. Dry humping never.
“I was somewhat shy about it when I was younger, but I am more comfortable now. I still don’t like to see tongue kissing.”
“It is great so long as it doesn’t become really sexual.”
Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors
HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?
Sagittarius has a playful side. He wants to have fun, to enjoy himself. Pleasures for him include traveling, sports, perhaps gambling, and certainly sex. In fact, sex is never far from the surface of his mind and he would enjoy having sex three to four times a week.
“I probably think about women several times daily, as well as the thought of sex itself.”
“I think about it daily, several times a day.”
“I am preoccupied with it.”
A Fantasy
“I fantasize about a celebrity I want to please with champagne and soft music: to lie beside her warm, beautiful body. I undress her slowly, savoring every moment. We take a romantic bath by candlelight. I give her a sensual massage, stimulating all her erogenous zones. I caress her breasts, buttocks, and mouth. My tongue and lips artfully explore her entire body. I move my head between her legs, feeling silky smooth thighs on my cheeks.
“I lightly lick her clitoris. I am very careful and sensitive with this beautiful little bud of excitement. She is writhing with ecstasy, anticipating the joy that is about to come. Looking at her beautiful vagina makes me very hot and I can’t resist licking her love juices from my fingers and looking into her soulful eyes. I bring her to … climax as many times as she wants.
“Then she performs oral sex on me, stopping right before I cum. She climbs on top and rides me. After cumming, I rest a few minutes, until my body stops vibrating, and [then] I am ready to make love to her again.”
HOW MUCH TIME DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?
Sagittarius enjoys spending about an hour having sex, sometimes even more, with at least 30 minutes for foreplay. Quickies are all right, but they are not his preference. In fact, if there is only time for a quickie, he might not want to have sex at all.
“I like to take my time, with as much foreplay as my partner requires. When she’s ready, I am … I hope.”
“Forty-five minutes to an hour for sex, and a half-hour on average of foreplay. Quickies are okay, but I wouldn’t want to rely on them.”
“For sex, I want at least two to three hours [of] listening to music, changing positions, and withdrawing many times before climax.”
“I like spending no less than one hour for sex. If there is only time for a quickie, why bother?”
“I usually spend several hours, foreplay is the best part. Quickies are fun sometimes.”
WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO MAKE LOVE?
He will rouse himself most any time, but his preference for having sex is from morning to early evening.
“Days are nice for quickies, but we generally get together after 8 or 9 P.M.”
“Mornings, but anytime with the right person …”
HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?
Sagittarius pleasures himself on average three times weekly, more often when he doesn’t have a sex partner. When single, he may do so on a daily basis.
A Memory
“My current girlfriend is the best lover I’ve ever had. She has no inhibitions, and came to the relationship four years ago with a list of all the things she wanted to do before she died. I’ve never seen the list but she tells me we are working our way through it.”
HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?
He has no set time before becoming sexual, but Sagittarius is not a pushy or aggressive Sign and he takes his lead from his partner. From his point of view, sooner is better than later. This might be at once, after three dates, or up to four weeks after beginning to date.
“This is entirely dependent on the woman. It could be a week, it could be 15 minutes.”
“For me it would be easy to have sex right away, but the woman needs to be ready. I wouldn’t lie to a woman to have sex, and if I cared for her, I wouldn’t like her to give herself too quickly.”
“There is no set time. When it is right, it is right.”
“It depends on the chemistry; if it is the right person, the sooner the better.”
WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?
Imagine a waitress walking by with a tray of exquisite hors d’oeuvres. Why not take one? This is how Sagittarius regards casual sex.
“It is okay if done responsibly.”
“Casual sex is mostly fine. It is only unhealthy if it becomes a lifestyle.”
“It is fine. You know you got it if it makes you feel good.”
“I know it is risky, but honestly, if it is available it is okay.”
A Fantasy
“My personal favorite: My partner is blindfolded on a bed in a motel room. Another person, it varies as to whom, joins us and we both pleasure her. I videotape this and play this tape back to my partner later. I am particularly fond of threesome fantasies, either with another man plus a woman or two women.”
DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?
Sagittarius is in no rush to get into a monogamous relationship. When committed to a woman, he will be faithful. However, if she is accepting of a more open relationship, he might prefer that.
“Monogamy is unnatural but is sometimes possible. Serial monogamy is a much more realistic lifestyle for me.”
“I believe in monogamy, mostly; but I am not opposed to multiple partners if the circumstances are right and no one gets hurt.”
“Yes. There is a sense of loyalty that must be honored with your partner.”
“I believe in monogamy when you are in a permanent relationship.”
DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?
Sagittarius is a spiritual Sign, though one who frequently resists traditional religion. Because he connects spirituality with religion, he does not see sex as spiritual per se. If you call it lovemaking, then sex becomes more than physical gratification to him.
“When you truly love and care for someone, there can be a feeling as though the relationship were heaven-sent.”
“Yes, I worship my partner.”
“It is the key to self-liberation.”
“In a way, it is like bonding with another’s soul.”
A Memory
“My first date with my girlfriend. We went out for Chinese food then back to my workplace. As I was showing her around, she poked me in my ass cheek. She swears that she didn’t do it, even to this day, but for me it was like getting a ‘go’ sign pinned across my butt. I walked her into another part of the building. As we entered the hall I told her the light switch was at the other end of the hallway. I walked in front of her a few feet, turned and let her walk into me. We made love right there in the hallway.”
ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?
Sagittarius is the gambler of the zodiac, highly unlikely to be the least bit reticent about initiating sex. Not only that, but he is the stallion, known to be well endowed and always eager to show a woman how well he can please her.
HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?
Sagittarius is very straightforward. He is usually quite direct in speech and although he isn’t aggressive, neither is he shy about making his needs known. When it comes to communicating about sex, he is comfortable letting his partner know how to please him with a combination of words and gestures, and with some emphasis on body language.
“Communication about sex is not a problem, as my primary need is to satisfy my partner.”
DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?
Sagittarius is known for being well endowed, and his main objective as a lover is to please his partner in the most traditional range of sexuality. Beyond the boundaries of the bedroom, he does enjoy sex in public places—secluded, of course—such as in a pine forest or on an isolated stretch of beach. Occasionally he will get a kick out of having his lover wear costumes, or he may want to participate in a certain amount of dominance and submission using hot wax. Now and then he might be interested in sex toys such as dildos and body clips.
In his fantasy life, images range from the aggressive to the romantic. Sometimes he imagines multiple partners. Occasionally he plays the part of submissive and at other times he takes total control.
Fantasies
“My sex fantasies involve random, unprepared rear entry of a woman over the dining room table. I would love to act that one out.”
“Taken against my will to a dominatrix or a doctor where I am stripped and put in stirrups. I am then probed and shaved completely.”
HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?
Sagittarius uses touch to convey awareness of his partner’s needs and his willingness to be supportive. He is also attentive and quite aware of his partner’s state of mind. If she is upset, he knows how to let things ride, to keep things light.
“Holding hands, putting my arm around her, touching, writing cards, and calling …”
“Flowers for no special occasion, a meal prepared for her when she arrives home tired.”
“Gifts, back rubs, getting things on request, generally tending to [her] needs.”
“Just being there for her; listening well.”
The Five Senses
HOW IMPORTANT IS THE ENVIRONMENT TO YOU?
Easy-going Sagittarius likes his sexual environment to be clean and softly lighted, but such details are not particularly important. As long as he can be comfortable, which means no crumbs in the bed and preferably no dog hair, he’ll be content.
“In bed it is the woman, not the surroundings, that matters.”
“Cleanliness counts; otherwise, the setting is not the major stimulus.”
“I care about the environment, but with the right person it is not important.”
“It really doesn’t matter to me as long as it is clean.”
A Fantasy
“Watching my girl have sex with another man. We go out for drinks at a restaurant. A man walks by. They exchange glances. I dare my lover to strike up a conversation. She invites him to our table and we talk.
“Her hand is on my thigh. I start to get hard. She strokes me. Her eyes are closed. She’s breathing heavily. I reach over to touch her and a hand is already there. We decide to return to our hotel room. Once there, we turn the lights off. It’s almost completely dark. I feel hands on me and hands on her. I’m not sure whose hands are where. We work our way to the bed, rip off the covers, and strip off our clothes.
“The heat is steaming. We are moaning. She climbs on top of him. With my hand I guide him into her. I lean in to watch his penetrating strokes. When it’s unbearable for me I get back on my knees, spit on my dick, and work it into her ass. I can feel his cock driving into her through the skin that separates us. The sensations, the moaning, the electricity are all in sync as we explode into frantic orgasm. He thanks us and leaves. She falls asleep in my arms as I stroke her hair.”
WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?
He will say that his favorite place is the bedroom, but a quiet area in a forest is always a turn-on. Sagittarius also enjoys having sex in a car, while camping, and in other rooms throughout the house.
“Bedroom, car, under the stars …”
“Privately, otherwise it doesn’t matter.”
“The edge of a bar stool at a house, not in a bar, on the couch or a chair, in the car, even standing up at times.”
WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?
Sagittarius is turned on by a wide range of romantic sounds, such as gentle rain and love songs, by seeing his partner in silk lingerie or revealing clothes, and by the aromas of food and subtle perfumes. In other words, stimulate his senses and he is in the mood for sex.
“Food, candles, rain, showering, videos, nice smells, clothing or lack of it …”
“Music, sexy clothing, talk, walk, erotic videos …”
“Rainy days and evenings, soft music …”
“My partner looking beautiful, some drinking, music, environment, scented candles, black lights and a nice room and bed …”
WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?
In his estimation, adult movies are okay but nothing great. Considering the gentle and subtle things that turn him on, it fits that the Sagittarius man’s preference is for eroticism in films and literature rather than anything overly graphic.
“It’s okay. I don’t think it reflects reality. I think many adult content users forget this.”
“I have not found explicit sex in X-rated movies very interesting. I enjoy eroticism, looking at a picture of a pretty nude woman.”
“I like it, but 90 percent of it doesn’t turn me on.”
A Memory
“My partner tied me up and beat my cock and balls. I was helpless to move and watched her as she positioned her fists over me. She beat my testicles until they swelled and my glands were very bruised. Then she positioned herself over me and pleasured herself to orgasm with my cock. She stroked my entire body and rubbed my cock until I came.”
HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?
Sagittarius is the “don’t fence me in” Sign of the zodiac. He may love with great passion, but he does not respond well if a woman clings to him. For Sagittarius, cuddling is sexual. A little goes a long way when it is not a part of sex.
“Cuddling is fun and a form of sex.”
“A lot before sex; a little after.”
“Cuddling is fine at the right time and place.”
“A lot. That is the beginning of sex.”
HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?
Sagittarius loves the feel of his partner’s skin. Foreplay, for him, incorporates time to study her with his hands. On the oral side, he enjoys kissing his partner’s lips, body, and genitals.
“I love to perform oral sex. In fact, I enjoy everything oral except rimming.”
“I love to run my hands over her rear and down her legs.”
WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?
Sagittarius loves it when a woman goes down on him or rubs his penis between her breasts. He more than shows his appreciation in the way he responds with kissing and performing oral sex, and he is a master at intercourse. He often enjoys anal sex, though he might list that as his least favorite sex act.
AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?
He prides himself on the use of his hands and tongue, but in fact, Sagittarius is especially skillful at intercourse. Sagittarius is called the stallion of the zodiac. He has great endurance and is often well endowed.
“I have great staying power. I can go for three hours and put it away without cumming, then take it out and start again the next morning.”
“I think it is probably my hands, but many women have commented that I am well hung and they seem to appreciate that.”
A Memory
“I knew a couple who performed sex as theater for voyeurs. One time I participated. We all took off our clothes. First he gave her oral sex and had intercourse. Then he invited me to have sex with her. At one point we were all going at it … he performed oral sex on her while I did anal sex on him. Then I lay down and she performed fellatio on me, then she blew her husband and he was eating her while I was doing him. I came twice and left exhausted.”
WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?
Sagittarius is easy. He will be happy with his lover if she dabs on perfume or uses none at all, or if she wants to bring strawberries, champagne, and mint juleps into the act.
“Her vaginal smells are pleasant and I like the saltiness and fishiness of her secretions.”
“I like the smell of her skin, perfume, and hair; and it is fun to incorporate mint flavors and chocolate with sex.”
FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?
This is no problem for Sagittarius. He genuinely likes it all.
“I like fishiness unreservedly.”
“I like the taste of a woman.”
“I love the taste.”
DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?
Sagittarius is comfortable with intimacy—both watching and being watched. He wants his lover to take a good look at his penis moving in and out of her, and he loves watching her ecstasy.
A Memory
“An acquaintance invited me home to meet his wife. When we got there he showed me pictures of her nude. She was beautiful. She came out of her bedroom naked. He asked me if I wanted to have sex with her while he watched. He sat in the doorway masturbating as I kissed her breasts and pussy. I had intercourse with her, pulling out at her request to cum all over her bush so her husband could clean it up. I watched him do that and then went back for a second round. This time he kept his head on her thigh, watching as I pumped in and out. Again I withdrew at the end, came all over her and he licked up my cum.”
The Big “O”
HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?
Sagittarius has no trouble achieving orgasm. Any method or combination, from intercourse to oral sex, masturbation to anal sex, works for him.
“I always achieve orgasm and if I am really stimulated, any method will work: oral sex, intercourse, and any number of combinations.”
“I enjoy all kinds of sex acts and easily reach orgasm every time.”
WHAT’S THE BEST POSITION FOR YOU TO ACHIEVE ORGASM?
All positions satisfy him, as long as they allow deep penetration. Sagittarius loves to hear his partner react to the size of his penis and then to ask for more. He has some preference for doggie style.
“Doggie is good, woman on top is good if she is not too fat, missionary always works. I have tried them all.”
“The edge of a couch, up close and face to face; doggie is nice; also man sitting on the edge, woman riding up and down.”
SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?
He prefers to bring his partner to climax first. He may keep ongoing for a few seconds after she climaxes to intensify her reactions. Then he allows himself an orgasm.
“The partner always cums first, unless it can be done together.”
“Ladies first …”
“I love bringing my partner to orgasm multiple times first.”
“I want my partner to cum first, multiple times. The last thing we do is my climax. I love satisfying a woman. That is my biggest turn-on.”
A Fantasy
“I know a woman who is all too often on my mind. I fantasize that I am standing in front of her and letting her look at me, to see how she excites me. I imagine that I am playing nice and slow, sucking her beautiful breasts, licking her cunt, and fucking her until she can’t cum anymore.”
ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?
He makes his desires and pleasures clearly known verbally, but he is not overly talkative during the act, especially as he nears climax.
AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?
After sex he would prefer to lounge around and cuddle a bit. On occasion, he might enjoy having something to eat or watching TV or a video. Generally, he is not ready to go directly to sleep.
Hot Words He Secretly Craves (and Can’t Resist)
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