In his own words…
A Memory
“Over some time I became friends with a woman who lived 1,800 miles away. We had exchanged pictures and talked at great length on the phone about sex and all the attributes and behaviors that turned each other on. At long last, business brought me to her hometown. We met at the airport and were so anxious to be together that we went directly to a nearby hotel. We made love for nearly 24 hours, trying all sorts of interesting and exciting experiences that grew out of our extensive conversations.”
Attraction and Dating a Capricorn
WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?
The Capricorn man has great pride and cares about what other people think. He’s taken by a woman who is self-confident enough to be flirtatious. Looks do matter to him. It is not necessary for her to be a ten on a scale of one to ten, but the way she dresses and carries herself is important. In fact, being with a woman who attracts attention by the way she looks and moves makes Capricorn feel very proud of himself.
“Physique, beauty, energy, and behavior …”
“Body and attitude (good person), physical characteristics: nice ass, firm tummy, and proportional breasts, pretty face.”
“It does not take a large breast size to please me. I am turned on by women who are spiritual, positive, smiling, happy, and intelligent, and by women who take the initiative for sex and relationships.”
WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?
A lovely woman who makes no effort to look good for him, to fix herself up when they are going to be together, will lose this man. Extremes of any sort will turn him off.
“Too showy, too wild, too much makeup, too fake.”
“Egotism, wrong attitude …”
“Women who do not keep themselves clean, smoke too much or drink too much. Women who think very little of themselves or see themselves as inferior.”
“Women who constantly complain about life and take no responsibility for the life they make.”
WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?
Capricorn is perfectly capable of being both sociable and charming. He handles himself well in large groups and intimate settings. A concert or a county fair can be a lot of fun, but for the most part, he far prefers time to relax and enjoy simple pleasures, such as dining out or having a picnic with his partner.
“Good dinner, talk, playful teasing.”
“Going for a walk, hugging, kissing, sitting on a couch and talking, watching a good movie on the VCR, taking a hike …”
“Just being together with the one I love in any way at all.”
“I like being in social situations where we can talk.”
ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?
The Capricorn image is the man in a threepiece suit, white shirt, and conservative tie. He’s business-like and to the point. Underneath it all, though, he has a playful disposition and sees himself as a flirt.
“I am incredibly flirtatious.”
“Yes, playfully …”
“I will stare right at girls for a while.”
A Memory
“We had been friends for a long time but had not yet started a sexual relationship. We were staying in a cabin with a bunch of friends. The weather was cold and the cabin was unheated. We were cuddling to stay warm, [and] then started to kiss. It was awkward at first, but then we began taking turns being aggressive. She had the sweetest moan I had ever heard. Part of the turn-on was the sense that our friends could hear what we were doing.”
ARE YOU JEALOUS?
Would anyone expect Capricorn to be jealous? He is. Capricorn understands human nature. He knows that people have hidden motives and can be manipulative. As a result, he has a suspicious streak.
“Absolutely yes …”
“Yes, when the relationship has led to commitment.”
“Hmm … Is suspicious better than jealous? Okay, I get a little jealous.”
HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?
Signs of affection in public with some limits please Capricorn. He isn’t apt to like it if his partner clings to him in a group or goes out of her way to prove that he is her property. When the gesture is a natural expression of feeling at a given moment, he thinks it’s just fine.
“No problem, though time and place is important; and no petting around children.”
“As long as they are not done too often they are fine.”
“I enjoy them as long as they are appropriate.”
“When it is natural it is okay; not as a way to mark territory, though even that can be okay.”
“I think it is great. Love should not have any bounds.”
Sexual Attitude and Behaviors
HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?
Never underestimate how often Capricorn thinks about sex. He has a very strong sex drive and while he may not get what he wants, he would love to have sex virtually every day of the week.
“I think about sex with every breath, every day.”
“Preoccupied …”
“Daily, sometimes preoccupied.”
“I think about sex several times per day, although I don’t feel I am preoccupied with it.”
“Twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week.”
“When I am living with a woman, I like to have sex about four to seven times a week.”
“As often as possible …”
“Seven days … at least once a day if it were possible …”
HOW MUCH TIME DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?
Time is of little importance to Capricorn when it comes to sex; however, he intends to please his lover and he is by nature indomitable in pursuing his goal. Sex will go on and on until she is thoroughly satisfied.
“I can go for an hour approximately and I enjoy many forms of foreplay. I am kind of kinky.”
“As long as it takes … Quickies, yes and no …”
“When I am in a committed relationship, I do not enjoy quickies. I like to spend hours in foreplay and regular sexual intercourse.”
“With the right person, I want as much time as possible, with foreplay to the point of no return. I enjoy quickies if that is all there is time for.”
“Her pleasure is what matters. I prefer to take my time to ensure that she is satisfied.”
“I will go on for as long as it is erotic for her and sometimes a little longer just to turn her on more, but I can enjoy a quickie too.”
WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?
The Capricorn man just loves sex. Time on the clock is of no significance when it comes to having sex.
“Evening and night …”
“Anytime is the right time.”
“Morning, midday, and night …”
HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?
Capricorn pleasures himself a minimum of three times weekly.
“Three to four times …”
“Three to five times …”
“Every other day …”
HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?
With Capricorn, sex might be part of a first date or after a week or more. It is hardly likely that he will be going out with a woman much longer than that before becoming sexual. Overall, the answer is dependent upon the chemistry and the mood.
“A name is good … Just enough time to be sure that she is into it.”
“A few hours … It depends on the mood and the person.”
“Sometimes a week, sometimes a day, given the chemistry …”
WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?
Capricorn has a pragmatic attitude toward casual sex. It is fine for someone who is single, but it is certainly no match for sex within a loving relationship.
“Fine if one isn’t married and if it’s done safely.”
“I am not too interested in casual sex. It is fine for others.”
“It is an individual decision.”
“I know it is not all that safe, so one has to be careful.”
DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?
He is, by nature, very faithful and devoted to his family; therefore, Capricorn places value on monogamy. It is important to him that sex with his partner remains fulfilling and he enjoys both adding variation and having his lover bring new elements into their lovemaking.
“The problem is that sex with one person becomes routine, no matter the emotions.”
“I believe monogamy is the most wholesome form of male/female relationships.”
“If you make a commitment, then you honor it. If not, do as you please.”
“I believe that if you find the right person, monogamy is awesome and the sex is never boring. I am open, however, to the occasional threesome.”
DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?
He sees sex as mainly physical though not exclusively so, primarily because of the connection he feels with his partner. Casual sex is not likely to be spiritual. Within a committed relationship it can be to Capricorn.
“People relating sexually should feel a spiritual bond.”
“Only with my soul mate …”
“Yes and no. It’s very physical, but connections can be strong spiritually.”
“With the right woman, sex can bring you highs—even spiritual—that you can’t get anywhere else.”
Memories
“We had sex in a movie theater. The look of euphoria as my partner came is one I’ll always remember.”
“Having sex with two women at a private retreat surrounded by ten to 15 other couples having sexual intercourse at the same time. It was in a dimly lit room with intense primitive music playing in the background.”
“I was very turned on at a fetish flea market listening to a stranger who squealed with paddle impact.”
ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?
In addition to the fact that Capricorn is a straightforward and pragmatic Earth Sign, he is also remarkably astute and a very good reader of other people. When the signals are clear, he has no problem initiating sex and he also responds well when the woman takes charge.
“I am, but I like it when she is the one to initiate as well.”
“Yes, although I do have sensitivity to rejection. Not in a bad way; I just may wait a while before going back to try again if I have been turned down recently.”
HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?
For Capricorn, there’s a time and a place for both words and gestures. During the act of sex itself, he finds words more intrusive than helpful. Interestingly, though nobody likes criticism, Capricorn takes it better than most other Signs. When a lover says that she wants something done differently, he will not take offense. Instead of taking it personally, he understands that he will please her more by taking cues from his partner.
“I use words and explanations; if needed, tips and pointers at a later moment.”
“Mostly I like to communicate with words before sex. I don’t like talking a lot during sex.”
“Sometimes during sex side by side if I really love a woman deeply. I like telling of my deep feeling for her, but not about how we are to move or act during sex.”
“During sex I use gestures mostly. I love everything my partner does to and for me.”
DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?
Most Capricorn lovers are conventional in their sexual practices; they like to take their time. When moving beyond the most mainstream activities, he may have anal sex, sex in public places, enjoy having his partner shave her genital area. Finally, while he typically wants his partner to go easy, it turns him on to be spanked.
“I have used a vibrator, anal plugs, and beads.”
“I like using a short dildo in a woman’s ass during intercourse. I like having a dildo in my ass while kissing and other foreplay.”
“Toys include a dildo, anal probe, [and] wrist and ankle restraints.”
The more experimental Capricorn is open to dominance and submission play, and may want to add some food to the mix. Some participate in the sadomasochistic lifestyle. For these Capricorns, bondage and the use of restraints and paddles add excitement. Capricorn’s fantasies frequently involve anal sex.
Fantasies
“I imagine a woman putting her asshole down around my penis while she faces me and pleasures her own clit. I would like a woman to sit her asshole on my mouth while I lay down on my back [and] pleasure her clit for her.”
“Taking someone to that most erotic place, where she is completely vulnerable and trusting and I don’t let her down with the level we achieve. Anal sex, of course.”
HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?
Capricorn enjoys doing things for his partner; being close physically, giving hugs and holding hands, taking her to dinner, and buying little tokens of affection. It is almost a measure of pride for him to demonstrate his feelings with such actions. “I’ll take her out to a candlelit dinner, send cards and small gifts.”
“I give her a full body massage and call her by pet names.”
“A hand around the shoulder, holding of hands …”
“Do the things that matter when she doesn’t expect it, massages, kisses.”
“With constant touching and verbal affirmations as well as lots of sex …”
The Five Senses
HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?
Capricorn likes his intimate space to be fairly dark and at least somewhat clean, but some surprise element in the environment such as sex toys or costumes has more effect on him than incense, rose petals, or candlelight.
“It just needs to be clean.”
“I like dark, quiet music or absolute silence.”
“There are places I wouldn’t want to do it, but it is not super important.”
“It’s not really important; depends on mood.”
“Cleanliness is always good. Other than that not much matters.”
Memories
“She blindfolded me and touched me with things of different textures, all the while talking to me in a sweet and sensual voice.”
“My girl was on top and it was deep. She said it hurt, but held me against her and said ‘Don’t stop. Don’t stop.’ That was hot.”
WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?
With a slight preference for the bedroom, Capricorn is open to having sex in several other locations. Let it be dark. If he can find a way to be discreet, doing it with other people nearby is exciting.
“In the woods, on the beach with a blanket, in the shower or wherever …”
“Bedroom is my favorite, nice and private. It’s fun in a tent when no one is near.”
“Anywhere, but not where someone might actually be offended by finding us.”
WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?
Capricorn strives to achieve his ambitions in all areas of his life. He does what it takes to get what he wants. And when it comes to sex, he wants his lover to want him. He will go out of his way to turn her on with dinner, music, and romance. When she is turned on, so is he.
“A sensual woman dressed for the occasion, thigh-high stockings, and a seductive smile.”
“I’m always in the mood. All I need is her willingness.”
“The mood is set by the cologne she wears and good conversation before sex, which indicates how we are attuned to one another intellectually, spiritually, and emotionally.”
“If I am with the person I love, anything puts me in the mood.”
“Just being around my girl and doing things together, planning for the future. When I feel secure …”
“Almost anything! Just looking at my girl-friend, especially when she bends over …”
WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?
Capricorn’s attitude toward adult movies depends upon his range of sexuality and his partner’s openness to experimentation. The most mainstream Capricorn lover has little interest in XXX-rated videos. Capricorns who delve into the BDSM lifestyle enjoy it far more.
“Love it, whether alone or with my mate. It’s erotic and exciting.”
“I can take it or leave it, although I tend to have a distaste for the raunchy.”
“It is pretty cool.”
A Fantasy
“I have several: showering with two blonde women, lap dance sex. In another I am watching my significant other give oral sex to several men while they fondle her and she is straddling me.”
HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?
Beyond sex, cuddling is Capricorn’s way of demonstrating the depth of his feelings for his partner. He loves being close when out in public, hugging on a park bench, or sitting side by side at a restaurant.
“Love it. It adds meaning to a physical relationship.”
“Just being close is fine.”
“I like a lot of cuddling, holding hands.”
HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?
Earth Sign Capricorn is highly tactile. He runs his hands gently and sometimes forcefully over his lover’s skin. The woman who knows how to use her hands well excites him to fever pitch. The earthiness of Capricorn’s nature extends to the pleasure he gets from taste: oral sex ranging from kissing to sucking and cunnilingus.
“I love to touch, to give a full body massage.”
“I like to use my hands a lot. I like to use my hands, my fingers all over a woman’s body. I put my hand around her anus and rub. I put it over her clit and rub. I put my fingers on her feet, her hair, and her ears.”
“I love to taste her every being. The tongue is a wonderful muscle.”
“I am very oral. If it is a part of the body, it is in my mouth.”
“I like rimming if she keeps clean before lovemaking. I like deep, slow kissing during intercourse. I kiss a good woman’s body from head to toe, her back. I lick her thighs, her vagina, her clit. I love being kissed all over and licked.”
“I’ll do whatever turns her on. I like to push her to her limits, and then even surpass them.”
Fantasies
“I just have to think about us spending quality time together to get turned on. I imagine us just eyeing each other in public or private, not knowing or caring about anything else. For me that is the perfect fantasy.”
“I fantasize about sex with older women, including my partner’s mother. I imagine her seducing me, and then I give her the best sex that she has ever had—the kind of sex that she needs and deserves.”
WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?
What’s not to like? Capricorn men, in general, like all sex acts. In fact, beyond the mainstream acts—from cuddling to oral sex and intercourse, both vaginal and anal, all of which Capricorn enjoys—he may also like to delve into the BDSM lifestyle.
“If there is anything I do not like, it is not having sex.”
“I have not found anything that I do not like.”
“The whole thing is important. Anal sex is erotic because of the amount of trust it takes and how much a woman is surprised by liking it.”
“I don’t have a favorite. I like them all.”
“I like intercourse, but I would not like it nearly as much without kissing and fondling breasts, and other acts during and before intercourse.”
“I do not like anything that involves pain. That is completely out of my agenda.”
WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?
Capricorn is the hardest worker in the zodiac, and true to form he works hard to satisfy his partner. He is a skillful lover in the full scope of sexual activities, whether within the mainstream or beyond that, including various fetishes.
“Paying attention … Knowing what my partner wants, responding to suggestion.”
“My best skill is the use of my fingers, hands, and tongue during intercourse. My hips move very rapidly and vigorously during intercourse, but I keep them moving slowly when appropriate.”
“Using my imagination to find new ways to pleasure my partner …”
“I think I am equally adept in most areas.”
WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?
Capricorn is earthy by nature and a sensual lover. He is very much into smells and tastes, all of them. On occasion, sex might be stimulated by bringing in food, especially in the somewhat spicy range; a little honey mustard, something more toward cinnamon than sugar or something with a lemony flavor. But most of the time he is fully satisfied with his partner, just as she is.
“During sex I love the smell of her body. For tastes, all of it …”
“I enjoy the aroma of her colognes, sweat under the arms and skin as well as the tastes of her skin between the thighs, the vagina, the anus, the mouth, her underarm sweat, and even her feet.”
Fantasies
“To be tied up and blindfolded, then pleasured endlessly by my partner.”
“Having sex with the female postal worker when she delivers the mail.”
“Rough (not brutal) sex, S&M, multiple female partners, bondage, being in control, playing with her feet and legs, oral sex.”
“Group sex with my partner and some of my close female friends.”
FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?
As he enjoys all of his partner’s flavors, her secretions never bother him and he does not need to do anything about handling the taste.
“It has not been a problem. If it is good I just enjoy and wipe it off my mouth … intercourse so I can kiss nicely during intercourse.”
“No problem for me. I love the way my girl tastes.”
DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?
Capricorn is analytical, maybe even calculating. What’s wrong with that? It’s all about pleasing his partner, so he loves to watch the effect he’s having on her.
“Yes, I like to know what she is feeling and [to] watch what she is doing.”
“Yes…”
The Capricorn male is not so enthusiastic about her watching him, however.
“Somewhat.”
“Sure, I guess.”
The Big “O”
HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?
Capricorn is goal-oriented in everything he does. When it comes to orgasm, his goal is at least one for her and at least one for him.
“All that a woman has to do is touch my penis, anyway at all.”
“I reach orgasm from a variety of means: oral sex, mutual masturbation, intercourse, and any combination of these.”
“I climax all the time. If it is hard, it is pumping.”
WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?
There is absolutely no one position that tops Capricorn’s hit parade. Her pleasure dictates his choice.
“There is no best. They all work for me.”
“It depends on what is more erotic at the time. Is she into getting me off or does she want me to give it to her hard and deep and fast? Back or front? Whatever fits the occasion works for me.”
SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?
Climaxing together is great, but not at the risk of her missing an orgasm. This is where that Capricorn pride plays a role in his sex life. He will satisfy his lover no matter what, preferably more than once.
“[My] partner should climax several times, then [us] together.”
“I like a woman to get two or three orgasms before I cum.”
“Partner first, which brings me to full orgasm.”
“I try to bring my partner to orgasm before myself. I don’t last as long as she does, and I want her to be satisfied.”
“Her first a few times, then together if possible.”
ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?
Moans and sounds that indicate pleasure, along with body language, will let his partner know how he is responding to her actions.
“I like a woman to be somewhat vocal. I say a little, but not much.”
AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?
Capricorn works hard at everything he does and since this includes his activity in bed, most often he just wants to go to sleep after sex. If it is early in the day, he will feel invigorated and will enjoy going out with his lover.
Hot Words He Secretly Craves (and Can’t Resist)
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=> Hot words he secretly craves (and can’t resist)
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