Virgo Man – Sexual Astrology

In his own words…

A Memory

“Waking up on a Sunday morning beside my woman while she still slept. The sun poured in through the windows. A pleasant scent filled the room. I touched and kissed her gently. She had a look of utter contentment on her face. I got on top of her and the lovemaking began. It continued into the afternoon. What a wonderful day we had together.”

Attraction and Dating a Virgo

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

The Virgo man cares a lot about a woman’s looks; not that she be drop-dead gorgeous, but that she is neat, clean, and in good shape. It shows that she puts an effort into being appropriate and Virgo cares about that kind of public appearance.

“First, the body; weight isn’t that important as long as she isn’t too skinny or terribly obese. After the physical, intelligence and a decent sense of humor, social awareness, and candor matter most.”

“A youthful look, nice skin; all weights acceptable except human skeletons and the morbidly obese … I like a lot of curves, [and] a nice face, eyes, and smile. I prefer a high level of sexual responsiveness.”

“Weight matters, which is not to say super fitness is required. Energy, behavior, and intelligence absolutely …”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Virgo values looking neat and clean. Whether he is meeting a woman for the first time or going out with someone he has been seeing over time, the Virgo man will be turned off if she is less than impeccably put together.

“I’m turned off by a woman who shows disregard for her body, who is obese, or [who] doesn’t take good care of her teeth.”

“Some physical traits, such as badly tended-to teeth, turn me off but negative attitudes and rude behavior have much more impact. For example, I was dating a truly beautiful, smart woman. One day a man of color cut us off in traffic, and wow, prejudice to the core. That was our last date.”

“I want a woman who is real, not flashy. I don’t like dyed or permed hair, and I am turned off by a woman who is materialistic, too talkative, or [who] laughs nervously.”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

Virgo enjoys spending time in quiet activities: going for walks or seeing a movie. He appreciates a woman who will go to the effort of making a meal and serving it by candlelight. He will be kindly and thoughtful, though not overly romantic. Interestingly, though, he loves it when she makes romantic gestures.

“I prefer quiet activities, an opportunity to get to know a woman rather than going to a dance club or rock concert.”

“Dinner, looking at the stars, going for a swim … any activity that allows us to become closer and more comfortable together …”

“Talking, discovering common interests, having fun, outdoor activities on nice sunny days. I like to get to know a woman without a lot of extraneous activities in the way. I like to keep it simple.”

A Memory

“One summer night my girlfriend and I wanted to have sex, but we were far away from our homes. We couldn’t think of anywhere to go to be alone but as we wandered around we came upon a school that had a small yard behind it. I love having sex in the moonlight. We made love in several positions and then just sat there talking afterward.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

He comes across as straightforward and matter-of-fact, but he has a way of coming on to a woman that makes her feel as though she is in control. More than being a flirt himself, he loves being the object of flirtation.

“I love to make women smile and to feel important and special.”

“Innocently … I hug a lot, but not with the intention of getting a woman into bed. I just like to love people.”

“Not overly, but I have occasional moments. I look for a woman with whom I feel compatible and then take the direct approach.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

Virgo has a jealous streak. If his lover goes out of her way to trigger that emotion, he will react briefly, dislike that feeling in himself, and then he’s apt to vanish with the sunset.

“It depends somewhat on the situation, but I would have to say yes. Perhaps possessive would be a more accurate word in my case.”

“I would love to say ‘absolutely not,’ but I have twinges, which I strive to get over. If someone wants to be with me, that’s great. If they don’t, so be it.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Virgo sees sex as a positive thing, good for one’s health. When it comes to showing his feelings in public, he won’t go so far as foreplay, but he is comfortable with public displays. He enjoys hugging his woman, holding her close, and pulling her toward him for a kiss.

“Sometimes when you are deeply involved, everyone else just goes away and you forget they are there.”

“I love them.”

“I like them a lot. Giving and receiving public affection is flattering and feels really good.”

A Memory

“We were out dancing, surrounded by other people in a dimly [lit] room. I pulled down the zippers on her slacks and on my trousers and started having sex with her in the middle of the dance floor. The music stopped, the lights came up, and we had to stand there for the longest time with my dick still hard against her, waiting for the next song to start.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Should Virgo be accused of being preoccupied with sex? Label it anyway, but Virgo thinks about sex daily and would like to have sex at least five times a week. Why not? It is good for the body and the spirit.

“Sex is on my mind every five minutes.”

“Many times per day … almost constantly when [I was] in my teens and early twenties.”

“Frequently throughout the day … Excuse me, my hand is tired.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Virgo is in no hurry. He would enjoy having several encounters throughout the night, with periods of sleep in between. When that is not possible, his preference is for about 45 minutes to an hour, with about 30 minutes of this time in foreplay. He enjoys quickies only on occasion.

“I love to take as long as I can … as long as she will let me. I love watching the woman I am with as I give her pleasure. I only enjoy quickies if the alternative is no sex at all.”

“Quickies are okay, but I prefer longer. Two to four hours is typical. I have never had a partner who would go longer than that.”

“Foreplay as much as she allows … I like to tease. Overall, two to three hours on average and I enjoy quickies, too.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

He is available to make love anytime, though Virgo has a preference for evening and night.

“When daylight falls, the dark knight rises.”

“Time really doesn’t matter. For me sex does not work with time.”

“Any time … how about now?”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

The Virgo man pleasures himself approximately five times a week.

A Memory

“They’re all good with my partner and each time is slightly different in the sensations I experience. But I also enjoy solo sex, behaviors my lover doesn’t necessarily enjoy. I find wearing plastic a big turn-on, cross-dressing as well. The plastic I like reminds me of the diapers I wore as a child, soft, vinyl. I bought some and tried peeing in them, but then I had to clean it up and do the laundry. I found that a big price to pay. In my fantasy someone else cleans everything up. On rare occasions, I enjoy breath play alone. I know this can be dangerous, but I use hoods that leak a lot of air so I won’t suffocate. I don’t even get close, but I’m very excited by the fantasy of it from the material against my face.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

The Virgo man will take his time in developing an affair, as he wants to know a woman pretty well before becoming sexual. If he believes a new relationship has the potential to become truly serious, he will take even more time.

“Becoming sexual is a very important step with me. There is no set time, but I wait until I feel comfortable with a woman.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Virgo is not overly fond of casual sex. It may be all right occasionally, but only if handled cautiously.

“It is just not my thing. I like to share sex with a loved one.”

“I don’t respect people who do it frequently though I’ve done it on occasion, usually with the intent of it developing into something a bit more serious.”

“It is fine if you are smart about it.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

Many Virgos think that monogamy enables them to develop greater intimacy with their partners. If their sex life is not satisfactory, however, Virgo will seek fulfillment elsewhere because he truly believes that being sexually active is part of being fit.

“I can only handle one relationship at a time.”

“I believe it is beneficial in raising children. In other circumstances, it is a potential death trap.”

“Only one percent of all species is monogamous … I don’t believe we’re part of that one percent.”

“I believe that monogamy is great when you have committed to someone.”

A Memory

“My best lover was innocent and believed in positive things, like happiness, goodness, and fairy tales. The best sex we had was in the dark, a little moon-light, under the stars, and there was no one around but the two of us.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Virgo is an Earth Sign: pragmatic and concerned with wellness. He eats carefully, stays physically fit, and regards sex as part of a complete healthy lifestyle. Beyond that, sex in a loving relationship enhances life and is spiritual.

“It is where I feel most alive. I see a connection between high spiritual energy and a powerful orgasm.”

“I often feel as though I am in direct contact with a woman’s essence or energy. It is highly intimate. When this sort of connection exists during sex, this feeling goes far beyond the mere physical sensation. It is something that is sacred to me.”

“Meaningless sex is just that. It leaves me empty. When I am with someone to whom I feel connected, the sex is spiritual.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Virgo is not likely to pursue a potential lover in a predictable fashion. He prefers to keep the other person guessing, but when he feels confident, he will make sexual advances comfortably. In an early stage of a relationship it is unwise for a woman to be the sexual aggressor with Virgo. Subtlety counts significantly with him. In other words, he needs a sign from a woman that his advances will be welcome, but he does not want her to be the initiator until he returns the signal that he is drawn to her. Coyly, once he’s sure the object of his affection is available, he is apt to maneuver her into initiating sex. His partner never realizes that Virgo is in fact the seducer, not the seduced.

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Virgo is an Earth Sign, as are Taurus and Capricorn. All of these Signs are very physical, very into touch. As a result, he is more comfortable communicating about sex through the use of his hands rather than with words.

“I am most comfortable with gestures and use words only if the gestures are not successful.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Virgo comes in two distinct sexual types: the mainstream and the experimental. The former has a modest sex drive, is not particularly interested in trying sex toys, and his sexual practices rarely extend beyond kissing, fondling, oral sex, and intercourse. The experimental Virgo enjoys dominance and submission, bondage, using hot wax, spanking, and having sex in public places. He isn’t likely to use many sex toys, but he does find anal beads fascinating.

“With my wife, my sex life is mainstream. When I am alone masturbating, I am far more experimental.”

“I would call myself experimental, as I have tried dominance and submission, bondage, [and have] used sex toys such as floggers, restraints, blindfolds, and gags. I have a pretty good handle on what I want in my sex life.”

Virgo’s fantasies range from bondage and submission to sadomasochism.

A Fantasy

“I see myself encountering severe bondage with leather, rubber ropes, nylon webbing, and sensory deprivation. I am compelled into extreme postures. In some instances there is [a] cock and ball and nipple torture as well as orgasm control. Sometimes I fantasize that I’m the ‘top’ inflicting domination on a ‘bottom’ … master/slave stuff.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

While he is not overly demonstrative in public and may not verbalize his regard very much, in the early stages of a relationship Virgo will send romantic gifts on the appropriate occasions. When the relationship becomes long term, his gifts are likely to be more practical in nature.

“I use my imagination to create large surprises on special days and small ones on random days, just so that my lover understands her importance to me.”

“I surprise her by doing chores in the house that she did not expect and by leaving love notes.”

“When I feel really good about a relationship, I hug and touch a lot. I am probably not as expressive as a lot of people.”

A Memory

“Once my girl brought a friend over and they both jacked me at the same time. I didn’t know they were going to do this and I had just pleasured myself, which I don’t do all that often, so I didn’t cum for about 12 minutes. I remember seeing the cum going all over her friend’s face and my girl licking it off.”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

In a clash between his desire to have sex daily and his natural regard for cleanliness, the sex drive will win out—at least for a while.

“The environment doesn’t matter. You can have bombs flying off if I’m getting my nut.”

But over the length of a relationship, the setting will take on more importance. Cleanliness is necessary. The smell of freshly laundered sheets is an aphrodisiac.

“I appreciate a room being clean and neat. Sometimes it’s fun to have a special scene décor with candles and soft music.”

“It’s important to me; the environment sets a mood. I like it to be clean and sensuous. As to lighting, from bright to almost dark or ample sunlight all suits me. Pleasant natural scents and sounds are a plus.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

“Take me. I’m yours.” That about sums it up for this man: anywhere, anytime. Virgo just wants to be comfortable and private. One special place is the office, after hours.

“Just let it be: here, there, everywhere,”

“In private; other than that anything goes.”

“The bedroom, living room, or any private natural setting,”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Kissing and talking about sex will certainly put him in the mood, but more than that, for this Earth Sign man, aromas are the triggers. He prefers a slightly musky perfume, something that has a spicy rather than a sweet tinge to it. In addition, his lover’s hands exploring his body really turn him on.

“Just being awake … I like to kiss, hold hands, massage, give back rubs.”

“Before sex, with all her clothes off, watching her from behind; she bends over with legs open and I am looking at that pretty sight.”

“Aromas … God yes, some perfumes are awesome, a slow dance in the house. Ummm, sometimes just walking hand in hand …”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Erotica is always a turn-on for Virgo, but adult films only works in specific circumstances. Many Virgos find it uninteresting, while some admit that adult movies have their use at least as a masturbation tool.

“It’s what I make love to every night. Kill adult videos and you kill my girlfriend.”

“I look at things on the Web … of the fetish world, not the conventional stuff.”

“I like it but find that it desensitizes me to the real thing, so I do not use it frequently.”

A Memory

“I had on my pony outfit, dressed with horse ears, bridle and bit, butt plug tail and mitts, and horse boots from Australia. My ‘mistress’ (wife) was dressed in a leather corset. She was cruel and demanding as she forced me to strut and prance and stand in these boots. I could only grunt and squeal due to the bit tightly in my mouth. I had to pleasure her with my mouth, lips, and arms. It was arousing especially because it was the first time she tapped into my pony boy fantasy.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

He loves to hug and caress extensively. Although he doesn’t expect his lover to hang by his side at all times, he wants a lot of cuddling nightly before drifting off to sleep.

“I like cuddling and talking even more than sex.”

“A lot … I like being touchy-feely.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

With Virgo it’s a tie. He gives great pleasure and derives equal satisfaction from both the oral and tactile elements of sex. He is very good with his hands and he loves to please his partner with his mouth and his tongue.

“I love to feel, squeeze, slap. Oh boy, I love it.”

“I am very oral, as long as my woman enjoys it,”

“I love licking, kissing, [and] eating the pussy because I know they love it.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

His favorite acts include pleasuring, fellatio, and intercourse. He also enjoys fondling a woman’s breasts and teasing her. Though many Virgo men enjoy anal sex and become very adept at it, others have no interest in it at all.

“I dislike anal sex. If I have to use a condom it has no feeling. If I go without a condom I get sick. Forget anal.”

“I enjoy intercourse, touching and kissing the breasts and nipples, [and] giving and receiving oral sex. I don’t enjoy mutual masturbation, rimming, or anal sex.”

Fantasies

“I’d like to have my own harem girl. She would ask how to please me, and I’d have her dance for me.”

“One of them is being transformed into a woman.”

“To have several sex slaves, all of whom live to obey me in any and all ways. To be able to take any liberty with them and push their limits.”

“Morning sex and waking my partner orally, slowly, waking her body before her mind. Kissing her softly all over until she is hot for me.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

Take his orderly nature, add in his sense of fair play, and Virgo becomes the kind of lover any woman would appreciate. He is as concerned about pleasing her as he is about deriving pleasure himself. He takes his time and is responsive to her cues. Overall, Virgo’s desire to satisfy his lover is his best skill.

“My partner loves the way I use my tongue, so I really do my best for her.”

“Teasingly slow penis entry, pulling out a little, then back in a little, then into the vagina a little more.”

“I know how to give a multiple orgasm. It’s like I know my partner’s body better than my own.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

Keep it simple. He prefers the smell of his lover’s skin unadorned by artificial scents. Sniffing panties is a real turn-on for him; in fact he enjoys all of his partner’s natural aromas and tastes.

“The scent of a woman, period …”

“I would rather put my tongue and mouth between her legs than on her lips.”

“I like the natural scent of a woman; her panties if pleasant and mild. I also like the scents of food such as vanilla, coffee, cinnamon, cloves, and spice.”

“I do not like the taste of perfume, makeup, or anything synthetic but some foods are a turn-on—flavors like cinnamon, vanilla, chocolate, sometimes whipped cream.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

His partners’ secretions are usually appealing to Virgo men. If he finds the smell or taste somewhat unpleasant, he still aims to please.

“I do whatever makes her happy … it’s no worse than tuna fish.”

“The musk and taste of my partner is the biggest turn-on to me.”

“I love those juices if clean, and I swallow happily.”

Fantasies

“I imagine a guy with breasts dressed in a sexy woman’s outfit looking very much like a pretty girl, and we have sex all day long.”

“I dream that I am naked on a deserted island and five hot women come along. One gives me a hand job while another has her pussy in my face; one licks my ass while the other two do a commentary, [a] play-by-play, of what is going on.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

He enjoys watching his partner during sex and orgasm. It adds to his pleasure enormously to observe the effect his efforts are producing, but he doesn’t necessarily want to return the favor.

“I love the way she looks when she cums.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Except when he chooses to hold back, the Virgo man achieves orgasm virtually every time he has sex, whether through intercourse alone or intercourse in combination with masturbation.

“I can climax through intercourse and masturbation about 90 percent of the time. Maybe ten percent of the time I get aroused but can’t cum.”

“Sometimes I hold back from cumming because I want to prolong the experience.”

“I usually have an orgasm during sex. Sometimes I choose not to.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

Primarily because he wants to watch his lover, Virgo prefers positions that put him on top of her. Occasionally he likes to switch off, putting her on top of him.

“Most of the time, I am on top. Once in a great while her on top and rarely doggie style …”

“Missionary with one or both legs held up in the air and sometimes with a pillow under her butt.”

“I like them all but sixty-nine least because I like to do one thing at a time.”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES.

OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

As he enjoys taking his time and because feeling her sensations is an important part of the experience for him, Virgo likes to have his partner achieve orgasm before he cums.

“I like to give before I receive. I really can’t have pleasure unless she does.”

“It doesn’t matter: she cums, I cum … no problem. You cum first or after me, I don’t care.”

“She cums first almost always. I love seeing and feeling her build. Then it is my turn and she can enjoy mine.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

During sex he is only moderately vocal, as he communicates his pleasure more with body language than with sound.

“Only a little, once intercourse has started.”

“I am, but mostly [in] whispers. Sometimes I can be loud.”

“A little, [like] saying ‘I love you.’”

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

After sex, Virgo likes to spend a little time talking. On occasion, he takes a shower and then goes to sleep.

“Sleep, sometimes just lie there with her and share a little quiet conversation.”

“Quiet things: cuddle, kiss, have more sex, go for a nice walk.”

“I like to talk, [lie] around and bask for a while, shower, take a walk … something nice and intimate.”

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