Sagittarius Woman – Sexual Astrology

In her own words…

A Memory

“I was at my parents’ house and my boyfriend was visiting. He was staying on the sofa bed in our guestroom, directly underneath my mother’s bedroom. We started making out and fooling around on the sofa bed, but it began creaking noisily and I swear I heard footsteps upstairs. We moved to the floor and made sure that the door to the guestroom was shut. He had already started going down on me and when he went to go down again, I had to have him inside me. Once we were having sex, he was on top and grabbed my hands, pushing them over my head and holding them there. He got really into it, almost rough, but it was amazing. I had to try very hard to keep from screaming. I did not want to wake anyone up, but then again, the fact that I might get caught was a total turn-on.”

Attraction and Dating a Sagittarius

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

Sagittarius is a strong woman, active and straightforward in nature. She is attracted to men who are energetic and self-confident. While there are certain physical attributes that catch her eye—a nice butt and muscular legs, and she does care about penis size—it is a man’s intellect and behavior most of all that attracts Sagittarius.

“What attracts me to a man is an overall sense: chemistry. As to looks, his physique and height make no difference to me. It’s his heart, sensitivity, and energy that matter.”

“I love guys that are bigger than me: tall and bulky is great. I love big, hardworking hands. Aside from the physical aspects, I am attracted to understated confidence, maturity, friendliness, humor.”

“Beautiful hands, clean and self-confident, sense of humor.”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

A man who pays no attention to style—for example, thinks it is okay to go out for the evening in sweat pants—is out of shape, and either arrogant or insecure won’t hold Sagittarius’ interest for long.

“Dull conversationalist, no sense of humor, bad hygiene, clothes [that] don’t match, too clingy, stuck in a time warp.”

“Lack of polite manners; willful ignorance; being rude, crude, or socially unacceptable …”

“Low self-confidence, being insensitive, no sense of humor, putting others down …”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

Sagittarius, being an energetic Fire Sign, enjoys evenings out that involve activities from simple walks to exploring caves, rock climbing to canoeing. She loves a man who challenges her by expanding her range of experiences.

“I love to do things outside like walk or kayak, or go to the driving range, the beach, or amusement park.”

“Sightseeing, movies, eating, picnics, museums, amusement parks, dancing; listening to live music …”

A Fantasy

“I am asleep at the stern of a boat drifting on the ocean. He wakes me up with kisses and by rubbing his lips over my cheek and jawbone. We kiss slowly and gradually build in depth and intensity. We walk into the cabin where I rub my hands over his shoulders, back, and chest. I unbutton his shorts, while he slides my swimsuit straps from my shoulders. We lie on the bed. The rocking of the boat on the waves, the smell of the warm sunshine and ocean lend a slow, sleepy pleasure to the leisurely pace of our exploits.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

She is a Fire Sign, loves attention, and even though she is not aggressive, consistent with her direct approach (after all, she is the Archer letting fly her arrow), Sagittarius is highly flirtatious. Any man on whom she sets her sights will be well aware of her interest.

“I am generally pretty friendly and I can flirt like hell if I want to, but only if I am really interested in someone.”

“Yes, I am always flirting. I have to get attention from men.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

Sagittarius is a self-confident woman. She speaks her mind and confronts situations when they surface rather than let them fester. As a result, she is not overly possessive or by nature jealous.

“If I am feeling jealous then it is a red flag that the relationship isn’t right.”

“I get very involved in trusting, probably too much for my well-being. I know jealousy is never good.”

“I didn’t find out I was jealous until twenty years of marriage [when] a waitress touched my husband’s shoulder. I saw red.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Sagittarius isn’t exactly an exhibitionist, but she does believe that tasteful public displays are just fine. In other words, she welcomes her lover’s affection but doesn’t want to attract negative attention from onlookers.

“I think [they are] great. [They] really show how comfortable the couple is together.”

“They are great, but not to the point of being sickening.”

“I never used to like them, but now, seeing older adults walking down the street holding hands and stealing a kiss is wonderful.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

The Sagittarius woman would enjoy having sex daily. Only time constraints put a damper on her sexual appetite.

“Three times is nice, two times is okay; less is frustrating, more is fine.”

“Every day if I could, twice even …”

“I could have it seven days a week.”

A Fantasy

“My sex fantasies usually take place by the ocean or a bubbling stream and involve someone famous or an athlete. He is strong but gentle, kind and considerate, and takes charge. He’s thoughtful and completely enamored with me. We are perfect for each other. Our bodies mold together perfectly.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Plan on devoting at least 45 minutes for sex with Sagittarius, and more time is even better. Time for foreplay varies from ten to 30 minutes, preferably on the longer side especially if a new sex toy is part of the mix. Quickies are okay, but not as a steady diet.

“I love spending an afternoon or a couple of hours, including a nap at the end, but I also enjoy quickies.”

“I like romantic foreplay, a long slow buildup to climax, romantic cuddling afterward. Quickies, not really …”

“I enjoy quickies, but prefer more time with foreplay, dining, humor, innuendoes, and discussion of what is to come.”

A Fantasy

“I’m on vacation or in a club, approached by a couple with whom I have been making eye contact. The wife tells me her husband would like to have sex with me. She says she would like to watch. I agree. We go to their hotel room. Her husband is taking a shower. She has me undress and lie on the bed. I end up having sex with the husband several times during vacation, frequently including the wife. We do not exchange numbers but everyone has a memorable vacation.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

Just about any time is fine for sex, though Sagittarius does have some preference for mornings and mid-afternoon.

“Anytime of day is good, but sex in the morning makes my entire day a good one.”

“Afternoons are great, morning too. Sometimes at night I am too sleepy.”

“I like mornings, but any time is good.”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

She’s far too independent to rely on a man to take care of her sexual needs. When she feels sexy, she pleasures herself—perhaps as often as five times a week.

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Any man who hopes for a sexual relationship with Sagittarius better make up his mind to be patient. She is blunt and to the point about this; she won’t be rushed.

“I need to reach a comfort level with someone, get to be friends, however long it takes. That could be in one month, maybe more.”

“I really have to love the person before I get sexual with him.”

“I take my time. I don’t share my body with someone unless he deserves it.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

For Sagittarius, sex and love—or at least some amount of emotional connection—are bound together. Casual sex isn’t usually among her behaviors.

“It is not for me. My heart and body are linked together. I need to be in a somewhat committed partnership to enjoy sex with a man.”

“I prefer being in a relationship and I think casual sex is unsafe, too.”

“It is unsafe. I have to be in love to give myself to someone.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

Honesty, trust, and being candid with her partner are very important to Sagittarius. In most cases, she prefers monogamy; however, an open relationship might be okay with her. Having a clandestine affair or learning that her lover has been cheating would not be acceptable to this Sign.

“I believe in finding that one true partner, and having the relationship last for life.”

“If you love someone, why would you want to hurt them by being with someone else?”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Sex is much more than a physical experience for Sagittarius. The connection that sex enables her to make with her partner, especially at the height of the sexual experience, is transcendent.

“Sex leads to a deeper connection with the universe and the Creator.”

“There is something about looking into each other’s eyes during sex that is amazingly spiritual.”

“Absolutely. Sex is soul energy exchange. That is why an emotional connection is essential for me to be sexual.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Given her flirtatious nature, her bluntness of speech, and her innate self-confidence, Sagittarius is quite at ease suggesting sex.

“I am plenty comfortable when I know it is welcomed.”

“Of course! Men like it, though it depends on how well I know a person.”

A Fantasy

“I fantasize about the UPS man coming to deliver a package. I’m not completely dressed. He picks me up and puts me on the counter and gives me oral pleasure. I return the favor and we have sex all over the house in different positions.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Known for being direct, Sagittarius is forth-right in expressing her desires and responses. She uses a combination of signals to indicate her wants and needs.

“Gentle words and gestures …”

“I try to be subtle, using more gestures than words, but I will ask if I have to.”

“I tell him in plain English.”

“I use words, sounds, and gestures.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Sagittarius is an experimental lover who is likely to explore a range of sex acts, including anal sex, dominance and submission, spanking and bondage, wearing costumes, and using chains. She is willing to have sex in public places and incorporate foods such as fruits and chocolate.

She doesn’t use a wide range of sex toys other than vibrators, dildos, and some bondage accouterments.

“I will try anything once, maybe twice.”

“I own three vibrators. The Jack Rabbit is God’s gift to women.”

Her fantasy life reflects her actual behavior. It may include images of dominance and submission with strangers or multiple partners, and often takes place in or near water.

A Fantasy

“I get picked up off the floor and brought to the Jacuzzi, and as he lifts off my thin dress, he realizes I am wearing nothing underneath. He follows me into the Jacuzzi and moves to the front and starts biting my neck and shoulders, then starts to caress my vagina with his two fingers under the water. As he feels my body begins to move into his hand he slips his fingers inside me and moves them about as he grabs the back of my neck and pulls me to him for a deep passionate kiss. He then slides his fingers out and his enlarged penis in. My body trembles as he begins to pump in and out. He tells me how tight I feel and starts to pump faster and faster. I cum and just as I peak I feel him explode inside me. We melt together as one and cuddle without a sound, under the stars.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Words of love don’t cut it with Sagittarius unless they are backed up with action. Therefore, she is more likely to demonstrate her regard for her partner through her behavior than through cards and gifts. In return, she respects the man who is competent and who makes himself useful around the house and with joint responsibilities.

“Small gestures like bringing dessert home or planning a surprise, massages, doing his laundry, folding it.”

“Cooking, buying gifts, holding hands, picking events or items that I know will make him happy.”

“I make his favorite dinner and go places willingly that he enjoys even if I don’t.”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

While she is not overly concerned about the environment, soft lights, quiet music, fresh clean smells, and a comfortable bed are very appealing to her. She also likes to have sex in a variety of locations were setting the stage may not be possible. In these cases, cleanliness is the only factor that matters.

“It must be clean, although natural scents are okay. Lighting and décor have nothing to do with it. Is there décor in the woods?”

“Cleanliness and lighting are important. I like my bedroom to be comfortable and private, with curtains, and soundproof if possible.”

A Fantasy

“I would love for my partner to drive down a dark alley and get out of the car and walk around to my side and grab me out of the car and throw me up against the wall. Him talking naughty to me the whole time. Whispering in my ear how bad he wants me. Then he lifts my skirt and we have hot, steamy, aggressive sex.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

Sagittarius rules the woods, open plains, and fields. She finds such settings exciting turn-ons for sex. She would love to have her partner take her for a drive, surprise her with a blanket and perhaps some wine and a light picnic, and park in a quiet dark forest.

“Outdoors is fine or on a boat or in a car as long as it is not likely that we would be caught or heard. That is not a turn-on for me.”

“River, lake, ocean, swimming pool, on a boat, on a private beach …”

“I have done it all. No place is off limits as long as you do not hurt anyone or expose yourself to unsuspecting people.”

“The bedroom is nice, but I have explored other places also. My worst experience was in my boss’s office with my ex-husband, late at night. I kept thinking ‘What if there are hidden video cameras?’ Totally ruined the moment …”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

She has a busy life and an active mind. Quiet time, a sort of stop-the-world feeling, and cuddling all put Sagittarius in the mood for sex. She also has a romantic streak and is somewhat of a daydreamer. Thus it is that creating a setting, real or imagined through erotica, helps to turn her on.

“The environment sets the mood for me, like being outside at night or on the beach or a dark bar. Sometimes just mid-morning does it.”

“Candles, elegant settings, music in the background, cuddling up watching movies …”

“Cuddling, a glass of wine, lit candles and soft music; sometimes watching adult videos; putting on something sexy.”

Memories

“At the beach in a semi-secluded area; we had sex on a large rock with the sound and the smell of the ocean in the background. Later we realized that at this little encounter we had conceived our daughter.”

“In an alcove in the rocks, overlooking the beach, with people walking around and above us but unable to see.”

“On a private beach during the day behind a small clump of bushes.”

“We used to have sex in the soft grass outside a cabin in the woods in Vermont.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Adult videos are okay sometimes. Her preference is for videos that reflect the kinds of settings that turn her on, that trigger memories of wonderful personal encounters, especially in out-of-the-way places. As a steady diet or a substitute for foreplay, though, adult videos turn her off.

“Some of it is good. Some of it sucks … pardon the pun.”

“It’s okay. I wouldn’t mind adult videos that are more loving and less kinky.”

Fantasies

“A man with a large penis; someone who can do me well from behind without me having to arch my back as much as I have had to in the past. Someone who will hold my hands back or put them in handcuffs while he fucks me.”

“My latest sexual dream is that my favorite man who lives out of state comes in through my window, sees me in bed with another man, ties him [up] and then makes him watch as we make our usual wild and wonderful sex.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

At night on the couch, in bed while saying goodnight, or when walking cuddling is great but Sagittarius is a Sign that needs her space. Too much holding on becomes cloying and puts her off.

“With someone I know well, I like it a lot; otherwise, almost none.”

“Physical contact is very important to me, being held, holding hands, frequently but not on a constant basis.”

“On many occasions, cuddling is as good as sex.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

She is more oral than tactile in her approach to sex, preferring kissing to fondling and oral sex to having her partner pleasure her.

“I have an oral fixation: love oral sex, deep kissing, and licking.”

“I love it. I start at the toes and work my way up.”

“I love kissing, can never get enough, long and hard or soft and sweet. I enjoy giving oral sex or receiving [it].”

“I love deep kissing and often judge my partners by their kissing. Oral sex is wonderful.”

A Memory

“I was once seduced by a friend who took complete control of my pleasure and drove me wild. It was daytime, on a bed, my legs in the air, his hands holding my legs; and he really knew what to do with his dick.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

She enjoys most everything in the mainstream range of sexuality, from kissing and fondling to oral sex and intercourse. She especially loves deep penetration during vaginal intercourse.

“I enjoy anal sex, mutual masturbation, kissing, oral sex, and being controlled during sex.”

“My favorites are cuddling and kissing. When it is with someone I love, oral sex is exciting and fun. I enjoy both performing and receiving it.”

“I enjoy kissing, both giving and receiving oral sex, and intercourse. I have tried anal sex, but I am not sure if I am interested in it.”

“All of them are part of the sex act. I am not fond of anal sex, but will consent at times.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

Fire Sign Sagittarius is a confident lover who puts energy into pleasing her partner with her hands and even more so with her mouth. Perhaps her best attribute is her willingness to experiment and move beyond traditional sex acts.

“How I use my hands and mouth. It is all pressure and timing,”

“I bite. People seem to like that. As a skill I am very good at, kissing mouth and body parts.”

“Everything I do drives him crazy. I think I am great at everything I do.”

“My partner tells me that it is my response to his actions that is the real turn-on.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

Sagittarius is responsive to her partner’s smells and tastes fresh from the shower or dabbed with cologne. When it comes to adding flavors to sex, she prefers fruit and sweet tastes.

“The smells I enjoy include clean skin, ocean salt, soft scents like Bay Rum cologne. For food tastes: chocolate, wine, Irish Mist.”

“Smells: skin of his neck, his colognes, the inner elbows and his hands. Tastes: chocolate, whipped cream, and strawberries.”

“I love Curve cologne. Lucky You is nice, too. Tastes: Cool Whip with the little bit of salt I can taste on him after a round of rowdy sex.”

A Fantasy

“It’s hot and humid, and I’m at an outside dance place near water. I’m wearing a short skirt and no underwear and a tight, sheer top. I’m dancing very closely with some man, and he has his hands all over me even under my skirt. Men around start to watch and then start to touch me, too. I have hands all over me. Then someone takes me from behind while I start to suck someone else. Still hands everywhere. I take as many men in me as I can at one time. After, I just go lie on the beach on a blanket, naked, while someone touches me gently.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Being such an oral lover, Sagittarius accepts handling cum as part of the experience. The greater the love she has for her partner, the easier it is for her to swallow his cum.

“It is unpleasant and I try to block out thinking about it. I do swallow.”

“I tolerate it and swallow as fast as I can.”

“My partner tastes great. I take turns swallowing and rubbing it all over myself.”

“If it is unpleasant, I make sure I have something to spit it in.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

She likes to see her partner’s expressions during sex and orgasm but she has mixed feelings about being watched. This is a bit unexpected, considering that she is so open in most other ways. When she’s comfortable with her partner it gets easier.

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

She reaches orgasm often during intercourse, more frequently via oral sex and always by masturbation. She isn’t shy about taking care of her own orgasm.

“Reaching orgasm depends on the partner but I believe it is important, so if my current partner can’t do it I will pleasure myself. He likes to watch. I can cum through oral sex as well as intercourse.”

“I reach climax by oral sex performed on me [but] not through intercourse.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

The Sagittarius woman enjoys being on bottom or top. If the latter, she enjoys a particular variation—she faces away from him.

“I like to be on top, facing away from my partner.”

“Being on the bottom, maybe on my tummy …”

“Woman on top, sitting on the man’s lap, facing away from him …”

A Memory

“It was during an orgy, a man started fondling me while in a hot tub and when we emerged we had sex, including anal penetration. He was very gentle and asked permission to cum inside me when having anal sex. During a second orgy, I was having sex with one man, while another man was lying beside us watching TV. He watched us the entire time and was so turned on [he] took his turn having intercourse with me when the first guy was finished. They alternated having sex with me, including using toys, throughout the night and [the] following morning.”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Sagittarius loves to achieve orgasm with her partner. If this isn’t possible, she prefers to cum first because she derives greatest pleasure from the penetration.

“We try for togetherness.”

“I can orgasm several times before my partner and [I] like to orgasm again after him.”

“It’s nice if it is together, but I’m not too concerned about timing as long as we both climax.”

“My favorite partner makes certain that I have several orgasms, then we do it together.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

People always know where they stand with Sagittarius because she expresses herself freely on all topics. This is true also during sex. The Archer’s lover will surely know when he’s pleasing her.

“I am extremely vocal during sex.”

“My partner would say I never shut up. Talking is arousing as long as the topic is not the kids, house …”

“I am somewhat vocal; not a screamer.”

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

Since Sagittarius likes to take her time during sex, whatever activities might come later, she prefers to take a nap or to at least relax a while, just after sex.

“Cuddle for a while, shower together, wait a while, and do it again.”

“Immediately after sex, sleep cuddled up. Later, it depends on the time of day and where we are.”

“Just relax. It’s sort of like having ridden a horse for a long time. I need to rest.”