Libra Man – Sexual Astrology

In his own words…

A Memory

“We woke up one morning and began kissing, fondling, and masturbating each other. I knew her so well that I could make her achieve climax with a few movements. We kept making each other climax and then we would hold each other and start all over again. We did this for twelve hours and never left her house. We did not even eat that day. Above all, it was the intimacy, passion, and tenderness that made it one of the best days of my life.”

Attraction and Dating a Libra

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

Libra is the Sign of the arts, of decorating, and beautiful things. Thus, it is a pretty face that first gets his attention. In addition, since Libra rules the lower back he will notice a woman’s posture and butt.

“I first notice a woman’s eyes, her face, energy, intelligence, hips, ass, behavior, spirituality, and her boobs.”

“Beauty, energy, behavior, firm body, eyes, hair …”

“I like a pretty face. I also want a person who is a good person on the inside; the body type is not as important.”

“Her physical attributes, eyes, butt, laughter, hair, and the way she carries herself.”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Libra has a refined disposition. A woman who is loud or crude, in public or in private, will turn him off. He also cares about style. A woman who has little interest in how she dresses and does her hair or makeup won’t hold his attention.

“I don’t like rude people or anyone who makes a scene. I’m more of a laid-back type of person.”

“A woman whose behavior is ignorant or crude turns me off.”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

Libra is an Air Sign and the Air Signs are all good conversationalists. Whatever else Libra might do on a date, he always makes time for talking. He enjoys treating his woman to a lovely evening and is likely to bring her flowers, but he is not necessarily a big spender. Dinner will be good, but not at a five-star restaurant. The flowers will be lovely, but not necessarily long-stem roses. His gestures will be loving and charming but never ostentatious.

“I like movies, theater, the ocean, music, and just driving around talking. I think the best date is time set aside to get to know the other person better.”

“Being together, talking. What we do isn’t important. It is the person that is important.”

“Stimulating conversation, trying a new restaurant or place …”

“Holding hands, talking, dinner, movies, time to spend together …”

A Memory

“The first time we had a threesome with a new woman I will call ‘Kim.’ There was instant sexual chemistry among the three of us. To see my partner and Kim kissing while I penetrated Kim—first vaginally, then anally—was so erotic. To have them willing to do whatever I asked of them was such a strong exchange of power that the atmosphere was incredible.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

Libra is a friendly, relaxed man. He is comfortable talking with people in all kinds of settings, and his natural charm has a flirtatious quality. It is unlikely that he will be pushy or will behave in a manner that would make a woman uncomfortable.

“I do flirt … just enough to get me in trouble.”

“I’m more of a quiet type. I do like to flirt.”

“I flirt on a pretty regular basis. I mean nothing by it—it just helps get though the day.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

The Libra man is capable of feeling jealousy, but it is by no means a problem of any consequence in his disposition. He is far too independent to be possessive.

“I do feel that emotion but strive to keep it under control.”

“If a woman doesn’t want to be with me and would rather be with someone else, it’s her loss. I don’t want to be made a fool of and I don’t have time for games.”

“I would say no. I do not covet what others have and I am not angry if another man finds my partner beautiful and flirts with her.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Libra is romantic, loving, and at ease showing affection. Observing other people is also pleasurable. The couple kissing in a gondola in Venice or engrossed only in each other outside the Louvre Museum is a moment he remembers forever.

“Love it. I love to hold hands, kiss, hug … and whether it is in public or private it does not matter.”

“Holding hands, kissing is just fine. Of course, some awareness of the effect a couple is having on others is important.”

“Public displays are okay within limits. Kissing is okay, short caresses okay, sex is not okay.”

Memories

“It was a rainy, hot, and humid day. We made love in my car. I remember hearing thunder, seeing the lightning strike as our nude bodies [were] intertwined as one. Sweat was dripping off my face, onto my partner’s. I continued thrusting my cock hard into her pussy for at least an hour.”

“… Being thrown down on the bed by a woman I was dating but hadn’t seen for a while. She was completely aggressive, which was a major turnon for me.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Libra is a very sexual Sign. This man thinks about sex at least once every day and would be very

happy, if time permitted, to have sex seven times a week. As that is often not possible, he will be content with three or four encounters weekly.

“I’d like it every night, but work gets in the way sometimes.”

“I would like it at least once a day, preferably more.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

Libra would prefer having at least two hours devoted to sex, but one hour is the average time that he spends. Sometimes foreplay is almost all of that time, but it may be as brief as 15 minutes. He likes quickies to some extent, though not often.

“For sex, about an hour and a half … Foreplay as long as possible—that is what sex is all about.  Quickies are okay, just not as enjoyable.”

“Two to three hours is my preference, but quickies are fine in a different way. I like spending a lot of time on foreplay. It is my favorite part.”

“I enjoy as much time as we have, preferably a couple of hours. Unfortunately, real-life intrudes sometimes and that is not always possible.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

Libra enjoys some daylight streaming through the windows. Beyond that, the time of day is irrelevant to him.

“It can happen anytime.”

“Afternoon delight is best.”

“Any time of the day when I can get it …”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

He pleasures himself on average four times a week, more often when he is not in a relationship.

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Libra seldom gives a simple, definitive answer to a question and so it is regarding the timing of sexual encounters. He may decide to approach a woman about sex on a first date or he may wait a few months. A woman who tries to short-circuit his process of reaching this decision may be more likely to become a casual relationship than a long-term one.

“That varies with every person: a few hours to a few months. Generally, I want to have a good feeling about her before any sexual activity.”

“It can happen right away if it is right.”

“As long as it takes until we are both comfortable with it.”

“Depends on the woman, but it is better when I have known someone for a few months.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Casual sex is not usually his choice, but he is a diplomatic man and not likely to judge others by his own standards.

“Been there, done that. Not for me anymore.”

“Haven’t done casual sex more than twice … It’s unsafe …”

“For me it is not okay, for others it is fine.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

Monogamy is okay but it’s a matter of choice within any relationship. Yes, monogamy is important to the Libra man if two people have promised to be faithful. On the other hand, he considers multiple partners just fine when in an open relationship.

“A person’s feelings are not to be used. If you want a partner to be monogamous then you have to treat her as you would want to be treated.”

“I believe in monogamy only with the woman I truly love. Every fantasy is fulfilled by my mate.”

“If you choose to be monogamous that’s great; if not, that is great, too.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

If the term “spirituality” is seen as connoting some religious aspect, then sex isn’t spiritual in Libra’s view. However, the intimacy of sex does take it to a level that transcends the physical plane.

“I wouldn’t say it’s spiritual. Intimacy is more than physical, but not religious or spiritual.”

“Perhaps, to the extent that sex can bring two people closer together.”

“Sex is spiritual to the extent that I feel like we both become one.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

He is quite open about approaching a partner for sex when he is ready. Libra is far too diplomatic and considerate to ever be pushy or aggressive. As he is always welcoming, he appreciates it when his partner initiates.

“Most of the time I let her. She knows I will always go for it.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

As an Air Sign, Libra is usually comfortable expressing what he has on his mind. On the topic of his sexual needs, however, he may hold back. Worse yet, he may assume a woman will just know what he wants in bed. A smart lover asks her Libra partner whether he likes “this” or “that” better. When Libra is given a choice of two options, he’s quite at ease making a decision.

“I tend to be more concerned with getting my partner off more than myself.”

“My partner knows what I need and when I need it.”

“I use both: sometimes a whisper in her ear, otherwise a handful of hair.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Libra’s range of sexuality goes from mainstream to experimental. On the mainstream end he is likely to perform anal sex. He may be something of an exhibitionist and likes to have sex discreetly in public places. He enjoys having his partner dress up in sexy lingerie, leather and latex, and boots or high heels. Sometimes he finds it fun to incorporate food with sex. On the experimental end he may try bondage, dominance and submission, spanking, and role-playing during which his partner wears costumes. He enjoys a fair range of sex toys such as glass dildos, vibrators, body clips, butt plugs, and bondage accouterments.

“We love toys. We have several glass dildos that are our new favorites. Being involved in the BDSM lifestyle, we have a huge assortment for these activities: whips, floggers, chains, cuffs, canes, paddles, feathers, furs, vampire claws.”

In his fantasy life he envisions multiple partners and being in the dominant role.

A Fantasy

“I imagine myself dominant over a group of female prisoners. Some of the women will be punished, some praised, some made to perform sexually for me, and some made to perform sexually with me. I want to be the center of the group in the end, with my cock being worshipped by all of them.”

HOW ELSE DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Libra is a kind and affectionate Sign. He is also a romantic and loves to give small gifts of candy or flowers. He appreciates receiving token gifts and love notes as well. He does his best to tune in to his partner and please her. He will appreciate a woman who is straightforward in describing what makes her happy; in return, he won’t disappoint her.

“I bring her small gifts, a touch just to let her know I am there supporting her and doing things that are important to her, and by making a phone call during the day just to say hello.”

“I tell her how much I love her, call during the day to ask if she needs anything.”

“I send flowers and cards, hug her, or give her a nice soft kiss for no reason.”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

He claims that the setting is not extremely important beyond cleanliness, but in fact, Libra is the Sign of luxury and he appreciates a pleasant environment, a cool space, an open window, nice sheets, and a soft comforter.

“Cleanliness is very important, an orderly environment; lighting is secondary.”

“I need a clean place where we won’t be interrupted or distracted.”

“I like the place to be comfortable. It does not have to be immaculate, but it does need to be clean enough so that it is not a distraction.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

Libra is seldom interested in having sex outside the most traditional places. He doesn’t want to be rushed. Any quiet, clean spot in the house or in a motel is his preference.

“I prefer a place where we have no distractions, where we can explore each other’s desires. It’s also fun in the shower.”

“Mostly in the bedroom or other rooms in the house, but I am open for other suggestions.”

“Bedroom, shower, car, outdoors, anyplace my lover is interested in trying.”

A Memory

“A wonderful first date with a woman who was full of surprises. First, I never expected to have sex with her that night. But after dinner she invited me to her place and before I knew it we were in bed. Not only did that take me off guard but also there was a second surprise. Her vulva was completely shaved!”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

It takes very little stimulus to put Libra in the mood, but he is truly turned on by femininity. He loves to watch his partner moving, the contours of her body silhouetted beneath her dress. He finds the smell of gentle perfume on her neck or in her hair exciting.

“I am a man. Pretty much anything puts me in the mood.”

“Being awake is usually enough, but I like making love to rock and roll, to Jimmy Hendrix, and to groups such as The Grateful Dead and Yes.”

“Any woman with a heartbeat excites me.”

“The woman I am with.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Libra likes adult videos. When he knows his partner fairly well he will want to watch it with her. He also enjoys a wide range of videos such as those that explore fetishes, dominance and submission, and multiple partners.

“I think adult movies are fantastic when it is done well.”

“It’s got me through life. Sometimes I think it helps.”

“Love it; naked people are beautiful.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

Libra is a highly independent Sign, but it is also the Sign of marriage and partnership. He wants closeness and loves to cuddle, at least for a while every day. Cuddling is satisfying for a sense of connection.

“A lot! We set aside at least an hour a day and just sit on the couch, watch TV, and talk about our day and things that are happening in our lives.”

“I like to cuddle when watching TV or a movie. But if I’m really tired—I have a demanding physical job—I may not be as willing to cuddle.”

“That depends on the partner, but with the right person I like it a lot.”

A Memory

“A few years ago I ran into the mother of a childhood friend, first at a supermarket, a little later at a local restaurant, and then later again at another store. I had not seen her in a number of years. When I was a teenager, I thought she was so hot. She had put on a few pounds but she still looked great. We started to talk and about an hour later she invited me over to see her new apartment.

“We had some wine and listened to music. Before I knew it we were making out. She went down on me and then I went down on her. We moved into the bedroom. I started to fuck her missionary style. She was very flexible; her legs could go way back. She was really into it. We moved into doggie style. This is when I blew my load.

“We continued seeing each other for a while. I did things with her that I had never done with anyone else. She did things to me that no one has done ever since. She turned me on to anal sex which I had always wanted to do. One night she started to lick my ass. Before long she had her finger up my ass and eventually we progressed to her using a vibrator on me. We also got into other sex toys: nipple clamps, cock rings. I used double-dildos on her, love beads. Amazing.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

While he is quite a tactile lover, Libra is even more oral. He loves to kiss his partner: her lips, her breasts, and every part of her body. Performing oral sex is nearly as exciting to him as it is to her. He enjoys virtually everything about oral sex except, perhaps, rimming.

“I am quite tactile, but especially as part of cuddling as opposed to when we are having sex. During sex I am highly oral and I enjoy kissing, licking, but no rimming.”

“I am very oral … love kissing, sucking nipples, oral sex, and rimming.”

“I am very tactile, but even more oral. I enjoy kissing her mouth, her breasts, and all parts of her genitals.”

“I am a total toucher. My hands never leave my lover’s body. And as to oral sex, I love it all.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

True to the nature of his Sign, Libra has a hard time choosing what he likes most. Oral sex is wonderful, whether giving or receiving. And then again, intercourse is such a thrill. Does he really have to choose a favorite? He hopes not. The least pleasurable act for the Libra man might be anal sex.

“I like sex, pure and simple.”

“I enjoy kissing, oral sex, and touching naked. I don’t like anything that I consider too extreme, such as sex with animals or golden showers.”

“Favorite acts: kissing, intercourse, oral sex, rubbing breasts and ass, as well as mutual masturbation. I don’t like anal sex.”

“I enjoy receiving oral sex, performing anal and vaginal intercourse, breast intercourse and masturbation. I can’t think of anything I really like least.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

Here again, Libra has a hard time choosing one of many. He says his best skill is both this and that, what he does with his mouth and tongue, how he uses his hands. In fact, Libra does have a wonderful touch and a gentle way of bringing his lover to ecstasy.

“I believe it is a combination of everything working together that makes me a skilled lover.”

“A combination of kissing, how I use my hands, and how I move my cock inside her.”

“Being able to assess my partner’s needs and map out her erogenous zones quickly.”

“How I use my body. It is a whole-body experience.”

A Memory

“The fireplace was blazing in the bedroom. Through the sliding glass doors we could see snow falling. My beautiful woman [was] dressed in lace [and] waiting for me on top of the bed. There were candles [lit] all around the room and soft music playing. I don’t remember any words being spoken or needed.”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

He is romantic by nature and enjoys the scent of gentle body lotions, shampoos, and perfumes, and the basic scent of his lover’s skin.

“I love the smell of her skin and her natural tastes.”

“She uses lotion on her skin and hair. She always smells great.”

“I like the smell of her skin, perfume, shampoo, vagina, and the taste of her clean skin and her vaginal juices.”

“The smell of her hair and body turn me on, and I love the taste of her lips and pussy.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Most of the time, Libra enjoys his partner’s taste. On occasion, if he doesn’t like it, he might have some sex oils nearby to rub on to her clitoris and vagina.

“It is not unpleasant to me. I swallow it and will lick my lips.”

“When I am pleasing my partner orally, and she cums in my mouth, and I feel that warm gush it seems to make me harder. It definitely makes me horny.”

“Grin and bear it. If you love them for who they are, you do it.”

“It is not a problem, but if it were, I would suggest a scent for her to douche with to be more appealing.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

He loves to see his lover’s ecstasy, but he isn’t enthusiastic about being observed. When a room is dimly lit and he isn’t totally aware that she’s watching, he’s more likely to relax.

“Watching my lover is a major turn-on.”

“Being watched isn’t something I’ve really thought about, I guess it doesn’t matter to me overall.”

Fantasies

“Two women having sex with me, one giving me oral as I perform oral on the other.”

“I imagine watching my lover strip nude on the beach, and then making love to her with everyone else looking on.”

“The image I have is of my partner and [me] encased in rubber, alternating [between] having sex and lying next to each other all day.”

“I get hot thinking about having a threesome with my wife and her best friend.”

“There was this woman I found tremendously attractive. I imagine that she is a nurse and services me while I am in the hospital.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

How often Libra reaches orgasm depends upon the nature of the relationship with his partner. When he is deeply involved with his lover, he always cums. When a relationship is new, he may not cum every time.

“I cum most of the time when my partner performs oral sex.”

“How often depends on the method: nearly always through masturbation, sometimes by intercourse, sometimes by nipple play.”

“I cum all the time from a combination of masturbation, oral sex, and intercourse.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

Libra enjoys several positions, including either man or woman on top. But as one who admires a beautiful butt, Libra’s favorite position is doggie style.

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

The Libra man is divided between bringing his partner to climax first and striving to reach mutual orgasm. For him an ideal sexual encounter includes satisfying his partner first and then in a second go-round, striving to cum together.

“I need to bring my partner to climax multiple times before I can climax.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

Libra expresses pleasure during sex and orgasm very subtly by making only a little sound, usually some moans of pleasure.

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

He enjoys having sex in the late afternoon, or early in the evening followed by going out. Only if it were quite late would Libra prefer to go to sleep right after sex.

“If it is at night, cuddle [in] bed. During the day, shower and go on with the day.”

“Talk, sleep if there is time, shower, and go to dinner.”

“Sleep or go out if it is early enough.”

“Hold each other until we fall asleep, or pay the bill and leave.”

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