Leo Woman – Sexual Astrology

In her own words…

A Memory

“A four-hour sexual encounter that started with him lighting candles and playing soft music. He gave me a complete body rub that seemed to last forever. I returned the favor and did some oral sex, too. We then slid around on the bed for a while before he picked me up, pushed me against the wall, and took me there. After he climaxed we moved to the kitchen table, cleared that off, and proceeded to go at it like bunnies again.”

Attraction and Dating a Leo

WHAT ATTRACTS YOU TO SOMEONE?

Leo has considerable energy and wants a partner who matches her. She wants to be the center of his attention. He needn’t be exceptionally handsome, but she prefers a man who is fairly slim.

“I don’t really pay attention to physical attributes. I notice a man’s smile, attitude toward life, behavior toward me and other people.”

“I look for someone with physical energy, who feels confident about who he is.”

“Physique, I prefer a lean build: muscular but not huge. I’m more turned on by a sense of humor and by romance, consideration of what might make me feel good.”

“Penis size is not an issue with me, unless a guy likes me to give him oral sex. Smaller guys are great then, as you can really make them moan. But so long as he knows what to do with it, I don’t care about size. I care more about endurance and rebound, lasting longer and starting over later after some cuddling and touching.”

WHAT MIGHT TURN YOU OFF?

Leo is a woman who is exuberant about life, so a man who lacks a sense of playfulness or who has little sense of humor will not hold her interest. Also, arrogance and disrespect for others turn her off.

“I am turned off when a man does not appreciate me or when a man feels I am lucky to be with him, and also when a man discusses other women with me.”

“Boorishness, rudeness, ignorance, substance abuse, poor hygiene, bad teeth, self-neglect …”

“The biggest turnoff is rushing me to perform before I am ready; that and being unclean. Other than that I can find something to like about anybody.”

WHAT DO YOU ENJOY DOING ON A DATE?

Talking, laughter, and food are the top three ingredients for a successful night out with Leo. She loves movies and theater and beyond that she enjoys doing active things, from water-skiing to kayaking, playing miniature golf to bowling.

“Good conversation, wining and dining, exploring and laughing, dancing, a moon-light stroll, bathing, lovemaking.”

“Dinner, going to sports events, outdoor activities such as hiking or bicycling.”

Fantasies

“I would like to watch an adult video and do as they do. Then I’d like to make a videotape of my partner and me in the kitchen using all fruits and whipped cream and chocolate.”

“Acting out a romance novel, telling my lover [exactly] what and how to do everything, having total control, bordering on being [a] dominatrix.”

ARE YOU FLIRTATIOUS?

Leo is outgoing and frequently effusive, often making her the center of attention, and yet her behavior is not flirtatious per se. Her behavior is much more about performance, about the size of her personality, rather than about trying to get any one man’s attention.

“Not too much, only to enhance a feel-good atmosphere … I love life and will always have a twinkle in my eyes.”

“I have been told I am. I just think I am interested in people, who they are and how they got there.”

ARE YOU JEALOUS?

Given the fact that Leo is self-assured, outgoing, and dynamic, one would not expect her to be jealous. But she is, and this is true even when she’s in a very long-term relationship.

“I have been married for thirty-two years, but I pay attention if someone is touching or leaning too close to my husband.”

“I can be jealous if I don’t feel completely adored by my partner.”

“Not murderous or harping, but it makes me insecure to think that my guy is looking elsewhere, makes me wonder if something is missing. I won’t tolerate infidelity.”

“I am a green-eyed monster.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION?

Exuberant, open, enthusiastic, charming, Leo is very comfortable having her lover hug her, kiss her, and hold her close in public. She is equally comfortable observing other couples in love.

“I think we should get over our phobias and behave like the French in that regard.”

“I do it all the time in a quick style. Big, fat kisses and quick strong hugs around the waist.”

“I completely endorse public displays of affection, just not grossly physical ones.”

A Memory

“I went out to a blues bar alone and asked a sexy-looking guy to dance. He moved rhythmically in sync with my body. We talked between dances and laughed a lot. When the bar closed, we walked to his car and talked a little. I bent over to kiss him, he got so excited that we kissed and fondled each other very passionately in his car for ten minutes before driving to his place, where we had incredible sex. He sixty-nined with me. At one point he held my arms down, totally turning me on even more, and he made love to me in all the major positions. I screamed so loud [I] woke up his roommates.”

Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Leo enjoys frequent sex, perhaps five times per week. When she thinks about it, she wants to get to it.

“I’d say approximately six times.”

“As much as my body allows it …”

“Every day would be wonderful, but three to four times a week would be okay.”

“When in a relationship, as often as possible: a minimum of four or five times a week.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

When time permits, the Leo woman enjoys long sexual sessions. Generally 15 to 30 minutes is just right for foreplay. She also derives pleasure from the occasional quickie. What matters most to Leo in any sexual experience is the feeling that she is appreciated by her partner and that her behavior thoroughly pleases him.

“I take it whenever I can get it, however long it takes. Yes, I enjoy an occasional quickie.”

“I prefer to draw out pleasure. Quickies are okay if followed by slow sex.”

“All day if time allows, otherwise 15 minutes will do.”

“I like variety. Some days I’d like just foreplay and other days I’d like immediate sex.”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

Whenever her partner is appropriately adoring and regardless of the time on the clock, Leo enjoys having sex.

“Anytime, but I do enjoy nights better.”

“Lovemaking is fine anytime we both agree on and want it.”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

Attention turns her on, so self-stimulation doesn’t do much for Leo. She pleasure herself rarely, on average once or twice a week.

A Memory

“After a party my boyfriend and I were resting on a couch. We took our clothes off and necked lazily. Then he got up and knelt between my legs and began slowly caressing my thighs and between my legs, staring the whole time between my legs. He slowly leaned forward and began performing oral sex on me. I came immediately and wildly.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

Leo has an enthusiastic and spontaneous nature. If she feels a connection with a man, she is apt to get involved physically quite soon. In such cases it is because she truly believes there is the potential for a significant relationship to develop.

“The length of time depends on the other person and how we click with each other.”

“It depends on the person. If there’s good rapport, immediately is okay as long as precautions are used … condoms.”

“It depends. For some the connection may be instant, for others it may be a month or two.”

“As long as it takes me to be comfortable … there is no set time frame.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Without the potential for a relationship to develop and for a man to become more than just a sex partner, the Leo woman has no interest in engaging in intimacy.

“It’s unsafe, but I’ll resort to it after months of celibacy if I’m in the mood.”

“I think that it is unsafe and I would prefer to be in a committed relationship.”

“It is unsafe and unhealthy for your mind and body.”

“For me there’s no use in having a sexual relationship that is not going to be a meaningful one. I’d rather be single than have meaningless sex, which I find self-deprecating.”

DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY?

Leo is a Fixed Sign, meaning that once she makes up her mind about something she maintains that position. In other words, when she commits to someone she sticks to that commitment. Monogamy is a matter of trust and connection with her partner.

“If you are in love, you don’t need to go out and cheat. It is respect.”

“Yes. It deepens the pleasure to know that what we share is just for us.”

“Yes. Why be in a relationship at all if one partner is not enough?”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

For Leo all the world’s a stage, and sometimes sex is almost like a performance, one for which she appreciates applause. But sometimes, when she feels exceptionally close to her partner, sex is more than merely physical.

“Sex is sex, but I believe there is a difference between sex and lovemaking. When you love someone, you are involved emotionally and physically, whereas sex is physical only.”

“Yes. When I am with my partner I feel like we are one … it makes me feel as though I am better connected to God.”

Fantasies

“I’m out in the evening and a very good-looking stranger approaches me. There isn’t much talking and we proceed to his house. He is dominant and I’m very submissive. Everything he does to me is more incredible than I’ve ever known. After a delicious night of raw sex I go home and never see him again.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Self-confident and rarely self-conscious, Leo is completely comfortable initiating sex. There is no doubt, however, that her mate must be a strong and independent man who knows to take charge most of the time.

“I will so long as I’m not the only one to do it.”

“I will initiate in the beginning, like kissing and stuff, but then he has to get to the real sexual stuff.”

“Very, as long as he initiates more often than I do …”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Reflecting her nature as an active Fire Sign, during the sex act Leo will communicate more with gestures and body language than with words.

“It’s fun to demonstrate what pleases me.”

“I communicate through vocalizations: moans and groans.”

“Both, but mostly with body language …”

“I communicate in any way possible. It is very important that he knows what pleases me and that I know the same about him.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

Leo is open to anal sex, bondage, dominance and submission, and having sex in public places. She may be willing to use sexy underwear, wear costumes, shoes and boots, and incorporate food in her sex play. She will also enjoy trying out accoutrements such as dildos, vibrators, and anal toys. Overall her range of sexuality is fairly experimental. She is the star in her sex fantasies, a super-woman figure whose mere presence, body, and voice drive her lover wild. In fact, a Leo woman wants to be worshiped.

A Fantasy

“My partner is so obsessed with me that he calls at all hours of the night and day. In fact, the sexual attraction is so intense that when I call him at his office he can’t help touching himself as soon as he hears my voice. He gets so excited that he has to beat off before he can carry on a normal conversation. I make him speechless! Ha! And vice versa!”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

Showing her Fire Sign nature, Leo extends herself for her lover with her actions. Without waiting to be asked for her help, she volunteers to run errands for him; for example, she might pick up the dry cleaning or mail off packages.

“I cook, get his clothes ready for him every day, buy things for him that I think he will like, send him flowers, touch and kiss him frequently during the day.”

“Give him cards and handmade items (photo collages, poems), buy clothes for him—including sexy undies for me or both of us.”

“Give massages, fulfill fantasies, read books aloud, support dreams, hold hands, and give personal space.”

The Five Senses

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

In keeping with her theatrical flair, with her sense of being the center of attention, Leo cares about the sexual environment. She strives to make the setting appealing not only to please her lover but also for her own gratification.

“I love to keep my own bedroom looking beautiful. It turns me on to show off my taste in décor, my artistic flair, and to be appreciated.”

“If it is not a quickie, the environment has to be clean, comfortable, well scented, and preferably lit up with candles.”

“I like to be comfortable if possible. If we are in a public place then the environment does not matter, the man matters.”

“It’s important. I can’t get my libido moving well in filth, and I hate a messy place.”

WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX?

Given her concern about the setting, Leo prefers to have sex at home, primarily in the bedroom. The creative man might set up a comfortable array of bedding and pillows in the living room just for a fun alternative. Leo is seldom interested in much of anything more adventurous than that.

“Anywhere that is clean [and] where we can have privacy.”

“Outdoors, under the trees and the stars…”

“Anyplace sheltered from view: a locked restroom, camping, outdoors in a secluded spot …”

A Fantasy

“The complete romantic experience: soft lighting, bubble baths, and nice music, with him lovingly washing my hair and body, teasing the appropriate places, then him drying off, drying me off, then brushing out my hair. Through it all he is praising my beauty and sexiness, then he lays me on the bed and makes my every sexual wish come true ’til I orgasm at least twice. Then he comes with me the third time.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Above all, that which is crucial to put Leo in the mood is making her feel that she is adored. Her lover may do this with a smile, a hug, or a word. It may be the way he looks at her, holds her a bit more forcefully than necessary for a kiss or, most effectively, the way he rubs her back.

“Knowing how much the other person desires me. Material things and activities are not that important to me.”

“How the guy talks to me and touches me.”

“My partner puts me in the mood. Watching him shave and a massage always make me want to make love.”

“I am only stimulated by the person himself. If he does something cute or sweet, or just smiles at me, I get in the mood.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Leo is the star, the center of attention. How could she possibly get much pleasure out of watching some other woman engaging in sex? The only kind of adult video that Leo might enjoy is fetishistic, going into areas of sexuality that reflect only her fantasy life.

“Most of it bores me, entirely lacking in emotional content on any real level.”

“No interest and would prefer that my partner have no interest.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

Considering her effusive nature and the way that she envelops people with her personality, hugging and other indications of regard are always welcome. Leo enjoys being close to her partner and appreciates loving touches without sex ensuing.

“When my husband and I were dating, we took every opportunity we could to be alone and make out. Sex was out of the question at that time, but it was pretty heavy petting.”

“Cuddling is what turns me on most, having a guy hold me, giving me the time that I feel I deserve. Absolutely love cuddling; it is a requirement.”

“Lots: hand-holding, hugs, hair touching, feet stroking, love it.”

Fantasies

“In one I am strung up and teased with sensual toys. In another I dominate, tying him down, pouring raspberry honey all over him and licking it off, or dripping hot wax on him while having sex, and then pushing him against the wall and demanding that he meet my needs.”

“He is standing. I go down on him. He wants me to stop. I don’t. He yells with delight and shakes all over. I completely dominate him.”

HOW TACTILE AND HOW ORAL ARE YOU?

Leo loves all aspects of sex. When her lover is appropriately appreciative of her, she proves to be an expressive lover both in terms of touch and oral aspects of sex. In return, she loves having her partner explore her body with his hands and mouth.

“I love running my hands over my partner and exploring his body and discovering the spots that make him moan the loudest. I am also very oral. I cannot picture sex without the oral aspect.”

“On the oral scale of 1 to 10, I think I’m about a 12, except for anal stuff. That is only a turn-on if I’m really emotionally enthralled with the person.”

“I am very oral. I enjoy making my lover gasp whatever way I can.”

“I have done and enjoy all, except taking a load of cum in my mouth and rimming. I love kissing, licking, and having the same done to me.”

“I love to kiss. I could kiss all day. I do not lick rectums. I would give the right man anything except suck his toes or lick his anus … but I like having my anus licked.”

A Memory

“Nighttime, the room was dark. He was lying on his back and I was on top of him, with my legs between his and my chin on his chest. We were just looking at each other, listening to a Barry White CD, breathing together. I asked him to make love to me. He kissed me, rolled me over, and made love to me so slowly and beautifully while looking into my eyes and kissing me softly. It was the most beautiful and memorable experience.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

On a regular basis, Leo prefers to stick with mainstream sexual behaviors: kissing, fondling, oral sex, and intercourse. For longer sex play, when time allows, she broadens her perspective into the experimental range by enjoying dominance and submission and incorporating food. If a lover is skillful and sensitive, she also enjoys anal sex.

“Kissing, oral sex, intercourse, fondling breasts, and licking [the] body.”

“Kissing, intercourse, oral sex performed on me if the man knows how, and being touched. I also like to have my toes sucked.”

“I love to kiss and to have my breasts fondled during intercourse.”

“I enjoy it all, but I’ve never had anal sex. With the right partner and moment, I’m willing to explore the possibilities.”

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

The Leo woman is strong and independent. She loves to perform and she appreciates praise. This woman takes charge, gives her lover a great blow job, and is only satisfied when he acknowledges her mastery.

“I am very good at oral sex: the way I use my hands, mouth, and tongue together.”

“The ability to give an amazing blow job using my mouth and hands …”

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

She enjoys the smell and taste of her partner’s skin either just showered or with a hint of sweat. If she likes to mix food with sex, Leo prefers sweets like melted chocolate and raspberry jam.

“Mmmm … I like the smell of his skin, hair, mouth, genitals, underarms; love male musk; and the taste of his mouth, penis, fingertips, butt cheeks, neck.”

“I like the way certain people smell naturally. I also like cologne. Some people taste good sweaty.”

“I love the smell of his skin and breath and the taste of his kisses, his skin, his cum—all of it.”

A Memory

“It was the first time I inhaled his scent and touched his lips; it was the most erotic sensation. The room was so quiet we could hear our hearts beating. I knew I just couldn’t wait much longer to give myself to him.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Leo loves to bring her lover to the point that he is writhing in ecstasy and she does this best with oral sex. The taste of his cum may not be her favorite thing, but most often she swallows willingly.

“It’s slightly unpleasant, but making him feel good overrides any bad taste.”

“I don’t love it, but I don’t hate it. I swallow or he cums externally; or I hop on before he orgasms.”

“I let him cum in my mouth, but I let it ooze out and he is none the wiser.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

Being a performer at heart and loving to be the center of attention and wanting to please, the Leo woman considers watching and being watched important turn-ons for her during sex and orgasm.

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

Leo almost always reaches orgasm in every sexual encounter, mainly through oral sex and masturbation. She seldom climaxes during intercourse.

“Oral sex and masturbation … I have yet to reach it through intercourse.”

“Never have through intercourse, every time through masturbation … Usually through oral sex if the man is patient and follows directions.”

“Through oral sex, him masturbating me during, or before intercourse …”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION?

Leo enjoys a variety of sexual positions, especially missionary style with the man on top. When it is time for her to cum, the Leo woman can achieve orgasm best in a position that allows for oral or digital stimulation of her clitoris.

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

Given the fact that Leo seldom climaxes during intercourse, it does not matter to her who reaches orgasm first. She does want to cum and she also wants her partner to be satisfied. The sequence is irrelevant.

“I don’t orgasm during sex, so I usually orgasm first during oral, and then he orgasms after he enters me.”

“Reaching orgasm together would be crazy. I would love that. I don’t have to have an orgasm to be fulfilled with sex. I just need for the man to be satisfied … If he wants me to have an orgasm, all the better.”

“Not too many men are capable after their own orgasm, so I strive to reach orgasm with him or climax before him.”

Memories

“My first sexual encounter with my boyfriend. We were in his room. He had lighted some incense and there was reggae music playing. He was gentle, but not too gentle. He was singing songs to me during sex. It was very special.”

“My best lover was great at cunnilingus and loved watching me cum. One night after he climaxed, he enjoyed seeing me climax so much he told me to pleasure myself again and again.”

“An all-nighter with an almost complete stranger, in front of a fireplace, in the still of the night, with the sparks, heat, sound, and sight of the fire.”

ARE YOU VOCAL DURING SEX?

Leo prefers body language to words during sexual encounters, and she is most likely to express her pleasure with moans.

“A little vocal; I am tender and romantic.”

“Somewhat vocal; depends on the man. If I know that he likes for me to talk then I will talk.”

“I can be quiet if the situation calls for it; otherwise, I am rather vocal.”

AFTER SEX WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO?

After sex the Leo woman enjoys luxuriating in her lover’s company, just lying back, taking it easy, cuddling. She may like a shower before going to sleep.

“Cuddle, stay in bed, share food, laugh together, good conversation, sleep.”

“It depends on the time of day. At night, I like to sleep. In the morning I like to shower. Midday, I like to lie around and gear up to do it again.”

“Hold hands in the silent dark, enjoying the feeling in body and mind.”