Skorpion Mann - Sexuelle Astrologie

In his own words…

Eine Erinnerung

“We met at a small bar, and she was dressed so sexy. Her clothing and attitude seemed to say ‘take me’ yet her eyes said ‘not yet.’ We had some drinks and food. We flirted and made sexual gestures. We were aware that others were watching. I felt myself getting excited. We went for a walk under a bright moonlit night, touching each other. The erotic tension built. I believed that everyone who saw us was jealous. We talked about what we would do to each other when were alone. The heat was growing. We found a private place and acted out our conversation.”

Attraction and Dating a Scorpio

WAS REIZT SIE AN JEMANDEM?

What Scorpio notices first about a woman is her general physical fitness. He appreciates someone who takes care of herself, a woman with style, someone who carries herself with a sense of self-assurance. Someone who comes across as insecure, even if very beautiful, will not appeal to him.

“I notice her proportions, confidence, and inner beauty.”

Once he is physically attracted to a woman he will begin to notice the specifics.

“I am first attracted by eyes. I care that a woman makes direct eye contact. Then I notice her proportions, and look for nice-sized breasts. Perky nipples are a turn-on, and being clean and pretty.”

“Physical attributes: breasts, behind, hair, teeth, smile.”

“Nice hair, skin tone, good communication skills, the sound of her laughter.”

“I notice a woman who seems to be all together, ladylike, feminine. I notice whether she is a good listener, intelligent and is current with what’s going on in the world.”

“What first attracts me is confidence, humor, an easy feel for joy in things. Physical attributes take second chair to the above.”

But more than anything physical, it is a woman’s intelligence that is indispensable to the Scorpio man. He isn’t all that interested in small talk. He wants his partner to be someone with whom he can share confidences and from whom he may get a different perspective. Passion is important to him not only in bed but also in his approach to life. A woman who is deeply involved in her work or her community is intriguing to him.

WAS KÖNNTE SIE ABSCHRECKEN?

His list focuses on behaviors far more than looks. One thing stands out, however. While he likes his partner to look appealing in public, he doesn’t want her to reveal too much flesh. A suggestion excites him more than everything hanging out and he doesn’t want her to expose too much in front of other men.

“A woman who is fresh, in your face, tries too hard to be cool, into wisecracking.”

“Not listening to me, low self-confidence, no sense of humor, and smoking …”

“Negative attitude, rude people, disinterest, snobbish women, game players …”

“Smoking, grossly overweight, or an unkempt person …”

WAS MACHEN SIE GERNE BEI EINEM DATE?

Whatever else he might enjoy, dinner is always on Scorpio’s list. It provides him two important opportunities, the chance to talk with a woman at length and to look her in the eyes across the table. He intimidates many people with his unblinking gaze—think of the eyes of Pablo Picasso—so he wants to be with a woman who can meet that gaze comfortably.

“Dinner, movie, and alone time …”

“Eating out, moonlight walk, talking, getting to know the person.”

“Feeling comfortable with the person, good communication sharing food …”

“I like quiet evenings with dinner, taking a drive, going for a walk, sitting and talking.”

Erinnerungen

“Anonymous sex with another over-sexed person.”

“An afternoon rendezvous at a motel, then taking a day off and resting.”

“Sex with my wife when she was nursing our child. Breast milk was awesome.”

SIND SIE KOKETT?

Scorpio is flirtatious, but subtly so. His energy is quiet and full of intrigue. It isn’t usually his style to be obvious. Instead, he has a way of lowering his head, seeming to appraise the woman he’s studying, and looking at her until he has her attention.

“Yes. Flirting is like playing a game. It is fun.”

“If I am attracted to someone, I certainly do flirt with her.”

“I can be very flirtatious, especially if I see a potential for some kind of relationship.”

SIND SIE EIFERSÜCHTIG?

Scorpio can be jealous—especially those in their twenties and early thirties. He watches how his lover behaves in social settings with other men. There is no question that he will be displeased if he thinks she’s flirting with them in anything more than the lightest fashion.

WAS HALTEN SIE VON DER ZURSCHAUSTELLUNG VON ZUNEIGUNG IN DER ÖFFENTLICHKEIT?

Being secretive is a fundamental Scorpio trait, so public displays of affection need to be kept to a minimum both in frequency of occurrence and depth of passion displayed. Holding hands is comfortable, but having a partner hang all over him is not to his liking.

“I do not believe anyone just walking around should be exposed to another person’s animal instincts.”

“Rather not in front of friends and family; okay out and about.”

“On occasion, it is okay as long as it is minimal.”

“I like them in the right setting.”

Sexuelle Einstellungen und Verhaltensweisen

HOW OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEX AND HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

Scorpio is the Sign of sex and desire, and he has sex on his mind often. It is when he has a few moments alone, apart from noise, even music, that his mind will turn to things he finds most gratifying. Sex is always on that list. He might want sex more frequently but three times per week will satisfy him.

“Oh, daily, please. Well, maybe every other day and a half.”

Eine Erinnerung

“Dancing in a club … it was our first date. We went straight to the dance floor and wrapped ourselves around each other—eyes looking longingly into the other’s—and then [we] started kissing. We held hands all night long and were always touching each other. We danced to techno music, and were both sweaty. I loved the way the sweat glistened on her body. She bit my tongue and that was highly arousing.”

HOW LONG DO YOU LIKE TO SPEND HAVING SEX AND HOW MUCH OF THAT TIME IS FOREPLAY? DO YOU ENJOY QUICKIES?

He enjoys lengthy sex on occasion, but his preference is from a half-hour to an hour. Quickies can be a lot of fun as well. With Scorpio, foreplay is likely to last from five to 30 minutes.

“Depending on the mood, I enjoy both long and quick sessions. Quickies can be a perfect means to an end … or a beginning.”

“I would like more than we usually do. Most of the time, after about ten minutes my lover tells me to ‘put it in.’”

WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU PREFER TO HAVE SEX?

No way can Scorpio make a choice here. Sex is great whenever he can get it.

“I love the afternoon, but we usually have sex late at night.”

“Oh … A.M., P.M., evenings …”

HOW OFTEN PER WEEK DO YOU PLEASURE YOURSELF?

When he is single, the Scorpio man pleasures himself five to seven times weekly. When he is in a relationship, he does so rarely—perhaps once or twice a week.

“I am married and have sex whenever I want to, so at this point I do not pleasure myself. When I was single, I pleasured myself at least seven times a week.”

Fantasien

“I imagine my wife on the dance floor wearing thigh-high boots … that is all she is wearing.”

“My fantasies include having sex in an airplane and anonymous sex with strangers.”

“If I see an interesting woman on the streets, I imagine I am doing her in an adult video.”

“Woman with blonde hair, makeup, jewelry, satin night gown, perfume, satin sheets. I can have a huge erection and do it all day.”

HOW LONG DO YOU WANT TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE GETTING SEXUAL?

While he may not be in a mad dash to get a woman into bed, Scorpio prefers that a relationship become sexual in short order. When he is seriously interested in a woman, he will wait until she makes it clear that she returns the feelings before broaching the subject.

“I prefer to have sex with a woman I really like. I want us to have talked about it … probably about a month or two.”

“That depends, I want to feel comfortable. It could be one hour. It could be several months.”

“It does not take long, maybe a week or two.”

“I am not impatient the way I was in my twenties so it depends on the situation. It could be momentary … it could be weeks or months … I can wait.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD CASUAL SEX?

Anonymous sex has its drawbacks and Scorpio acknowledges that it is not safe. All in all, though, he likes it.

“It is unsafe, but I don’t complain about others having it.”

“It’s fine, but I know it is risky and I do worry about STDs.”

“In some ways fun; in others, [it’s] emotionally unsafe.”

“It is fine as long as there is at least some connection between us.”

GLAUBEN SIE AN DIE MONOGAMIE?

Scorpio is a fixed Sign. When he gives his word to be faithful he intends to abide by it. But if he is unhappy with his partner he is likely to seek sexual gratification outside of the relationship.

“Once in a committed relationship you should stay that way.”

“Yes, if that is the understanding between two people, honor it. If both agree to other possibilities, that is okay too. I would like to try an encounter with another couple.”

“I do. I am a damn romantic. I believe in the possibility of total satisfaction with one partner.”

DOES SEX HAVE A SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU?

Perhaps he remains open-minded to the possibility of a spiritual connection with sex, but for most Scorpio men sex is rewarding and fulfilling on its own.

“No, but it is beautiful to meet a girl, talk, and love.”

“I figure this is the Garden of Eden and while you are in the garden you may as well eat some fruit.”

Eine Fantasie

“Two exceptionally attractive women ask me to make love to them. The three of us entangled, kissing, stroking, sucking, caressing, fucking, and after we’re done, showering together.”

ARE YOU COMFORTABLE INITIATING SEXUAL ACTIVITIES?

Scorpio has a considerable libido and his partner is always aware of his sexual interest in her. There are Scorpios who are quite overt in their approach to this subject, while others rely more on that sense of chemistry. Either way the Scorpio man is not likely to be shy about initiating sex.

“I’m the spark, but I also enjoy taking a lead from my partner.”

“I am always horny, so yes, I am the initiator.”

HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE TO YOUR PARTNER YOUR SEXUAL WANTS AND NEEDS?

Scorpio is not necessarily at ease stating his preferences. He relies mostly on body language. On the other hand, Scorpio wants to satisfy his lover, so he dearly appreciates having her guide his hand or tell him how to satisfy her.

“I wish I were comfortable using words, but I normally make gestures instead.”

“I usually just go with the flow.”

DO YOU THINK OF YOURSELF AS BEING IN THE MAINSTREAM SEXUALLY, MORE EXPERIMENTAL, OR OPEN TO ANYTHING?

The traditional Scorpio enjoys kissing, fondling his lover’s breasts, oral sex, and intercourse. On the more experimental end he is likely to have sex in public places, try some bondage, or play around with food during sex. Sexual pleasure for him is much more about the intense involvement with his partner rather than the use of sex toys or any peripheral accoutrements.

“I am mostly mainstream but with some experimental behaviors, definitely not open to ‘anything.’”

Images prevalent in Scorpio fantasies involve sex in public places and being dominant over his partner.

Eine Fantasie

“She is in an upright position, bound with arms and legs extended. She is blindfolded. Candles are lit. She is wearing little clothing that I … remove. I caress her body; maybe use the vibrator to excite her. Then I shave her pubic hair. She struggles against the ropes but is held. I lick her body and bring her off. I bite (little) her nipples and excite her more. Finally I untie her, put her on the bed, and make love.”

HOW DO YOU DEMONSTRATE AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER?

He demonstrates his attentive and romantic nature by doing things such as household chores, bringing his partner flowers, and sending her cards.

He enjoys being helpful when there is need and can be relied on to be supportive when his partner is having a difficult time emotionally. He prides himself on being a good listener.

“By doing things such as housework, sending flowers.”

“I help her when she needs me, caress her, and listen to her.”

“Spontaneous giving of special gifts and surprises … I try to keep her happy.”

Eine Fantasie

“In my fantasy, I encounter my wife unexpectedly, run into her somewhere out of the ordinary. Unbeknownst to her, I follow as she is shopping or just walking around. She doesn’t see me, but I get off looking at her without her knowing that I am there. Then I go over to her and tell her I have been watching her and that I find her very sexy. We head off to some secluded place and have passionate sex.”

Die fünf Sinne

HOW IMPORTANT TO YOU IS THE SEXUAL ENVIRONMENT?

In all aspects, Scorpio is a very sexual person and he appreciates a woman who makes an effort for him with a clean and comfortable environment. Romantic music, candlelight, and a hint of perfume will be noted and much appreciated.

“Cleanliness is important, lighting and décor matter only if planning something special.”

“Very important. Candlelight helps. If we are in a room, it has to be clean.”

“I like it clean. Ambiance matters. I set the scene, as if I did nothing to prepare, yet I cleaned the house and adjusted everything just a few degrees to my liking.”

“Cleanliness and orderliness are important, softer lighting can be more romantic but is not necessary.”

WO HABEN SIE GERNE SEX?

As the sexual environment is important to Scorpio, he prefers the comfort and privacy of the bedroom or other rooms in the house. Apart from that, Scorpio is a Water Sign and if he is involved in sex outdoors, water often figures in.

“Bedroom, house, outdoors, in a lake or pond …”

“Indoors, anywhere it is unlikely we’ll be seen.”

“Bedroom, beach, car, whenever it happens …”

“Sex in a car is fun, as well as on a blanket spread on a mountainside.”

WHAT PUTS YOU IN THE MOOD FOR SEX?

Everything! Scorpio is the Sign that rules sex. Very little is required to get his mind on the subject, and once he starts thinking about it, he is ready. Focusing on things such as touching his lover, talking about sex, or watching X-rated videos all put him in the mood.

“Back rubs, front rubs, erotic touching.”

“Caressing, sensual conversation or eating, watching adult videos, or some Internet sex will put me in the mood.”

“Showering, adult videos, lover’s breath on my neck … just about anything … I am always in the mood.”

“I do not need help to get in the mood.”

“My girl in satin lingerie, the smell of perfume, jewelry, staying in bed.”

Eine Erinnerung

“One of the best sexual experiences I ever had was in a small, dingy, motel room on vacation. It was very aggressive and unplanned.”

WHAT’S YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD ADULT FILMS?

Scorpio likes adult movies, not only for self-stimulation, but also as an art form. On occasion he enjoys watching it instead of network television. He likes to use adult media both when he is alone and with a partner.

“I like adult videos if they are not trashy.”

“I like it and believe that it has its place for adults.”

“Just to keep my sexual stimulation, it’s useful.”

“It’s rousing … amusing … artful at times, even inspiring.”

“I like some adult films they are done well, such as films by Andrew Blake.”

HOW MUCH CUDDLING DO YOU ENJOY, ASIDE FROM SEX?

While Scorpio is the Sign of sex, this man is extremely self-controlled. At the same time he longs for intimacy. He enjoys holding hands, cuddling, and kissing—often without it leading to a full sexual encounter.

“I like making out, kissing, touching. I enjoy being held.”

“I can cuddle for hours … days, work permitting.”

WIE TAKTIL UND WIE ORAL SIND SIE?

The Scorpio man has a way of looking at a woman that can make her feel almost like she’s being physically touched. His hands seem to be a continuation of that intensity. They are highly sensitive and it is obvious that he loves to touch. Amazingly, he is even more oral than he is tactile.

“I like to feel her body. I love to squeeze her breasts and nipples.”

“I will massage until melting point … I have time on my side.”

“I enjoy kissing, Frenching, and sucking on neck or ears. I love eating pussy. I can suck nipples until I sleep.”

“Kissing is great and I love how women respond to cunnilingus.”

“Very oral … I dream about kissing and sucking … I’m dreaming of my partner’s taste right now.”

“It’s all great. Sensual touching really turns me on and I love kissing everywhere on her body.”

Fantasien

“The ultimate: three women. Enough said.”

“Masturbating on my lover’s face.”

“I fantasize about sixty-nine, and I also like to imagine us wearing costumes and getting into some casual and even silly role-playing to lighten the mood.”

WHAT SEX ACTS DO YOU LIKE MOST AND LEAST?

Scorpio doesn’t hesitate long in answering this question. His favorite sex acts are inter-course and oral sex. He doesn’t like anal sex. In addition, although Scorpio is the Sign of reproduction, he does not want to assume responsibility for birth control.

AS A LOVER, WHAT’S YOUR BEST SKILL?

He is particularly proud of his oral skills, deep kissing, nursing at his lover’s breasts, and cunnilingus. He has great self-control and will hold himself back from orgasm until he has thoroughly satisfied his lover.

WHAT SMELLS AND TASTES ON YOUR PARTNER DO YOU ENJOY?

Scorpio does not want any of his partner’s smells covered up by chemicals. Shampoos, deodorants, or perfumes that interfere with his ability to smell her as she really is will diminish his pleasure, not enhance it.

“Her skin (neck) and her pussy …”

“She smells good all over.”

“The smell of clean right after a shower …”

“It can even be what others consider odor if it is coming from someone I am fascinated with … the smell of her feet. In the absence of my partner, her panties will have to do.”

Erinnerungen

“Recently when we returned home after a concert, my partner played with me hard, then slowed down and it became sensual. After a while she pulled me on top of her for a fantastic mutual orgasm. Afterward we cuddled, showered, and went out for an excellent dinner.”

“It was the first time that my future wife and I were together and it was awesome. The day was extremely hot and humid and we were sweating and sliding all over each other. I remember how great it was as we explored each other for hours.”

FOR SOME PEOPLE THE TASTE OF THEIR PARTNER’S CUM OR SECRETIONS IS UNPLEASANT. IF THAT’S TRUE FOR YOU, WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT THE TASTE?

Scorpio is very matter-of-fact about his partner’s sex juices. Generally, he finds the taste pleasant, especially when she is clean and her secretions are fresh.

“I’m all for taste, and will take it as it comes.”

“I like the taste and apply honey or other liquid.”

“Normal secretions taste great. If unpleasant, I do something else.”

DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING YOUR PARTNER DURING SEX AND ORGASM? DO YOU ENJOY BEING WATCHED?

It may seem a bit puzzling that Scorpio, Sign of sex, doesn’t much like to be watched; however, keep in mind that this Sign is somewhat inhibited. Put a blindfold on him and watch him relax.

“For the most part I don’t like being observed.”

“It is very pleasurable to watch, but being watched depends on the confidence and trust I feel with the right person in the right situation.”

Eine Erinnerung

“I entered a hotel room for a BDSM scene. Two big, beautiful women were being dominant over me, making me call them [both] ‘Mistress.’ I was standing, blindfolded, tied up with my wrists behind my back. I was paddled and flogged with leather tassels, as well as with various brushes and some kitchenware. I was kissed and touched for a very long time. When my hands were untied I was allowed to fondle one woman’s breasts, though not permitted to suck on them. At the same time the other woman lubed my asshole with her finger. They put me on my knees and while one woman stroked my cock, the other fucked my ass with a strap-on. I came in her hand and she wiped my cum on my tongue.”

The Big “O”

HOW DO YOU REACH AN ORGASM AND HOW OFTEN?

He achieves orgasm with ease virtually every time he makes love in almost any position. “It doesn’t take much,” intercourse, masturbation, oral sex, or a combination of these for the Scorpio man.

“I can cum from any act and I like to reach climax at least once, maybe twice.”

WAS IST IHRE LIEBLINGSPOSITION?

He’s not fussy about the position for most satisfying sex, as he finds that they all work. He is a bit controlling and likes to get his partner all worked up with oral sex before backing off and allowing her to please him.

“I love to look at her face when she is on top. It feels good when I’m on top and it’s satisfying face to face. I guess I like all positions: mutual oral sex, doggie style … they all work.”

“They are all excellent, but my partner likes doggie style least and I really enjoy it when I can get it.”

Fantasien

“I never used to fantasize during sex. When I was alone, masturbating, I would imagine a powerful woman dominating me, having her way with me. Now that we are into BDSM I live my fantasy every time we play. She can use me any way she wants.”

“I fantasize about sex with two women. After perhaps an hour of foreplay, I am blindfolded, then I mount one woman missionary style while the second one takes me from behind with a strap-on.”

SOME PEOPLE ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BRINGING THEIR PARTNER TO CLIMAX BEFORE HAVING AN ORGASM THEMSELVES. OTHERS STRIVE TO REACH ORGASM TOGETHER. WHICH IS TRUE FOR YOU?

It is so important to Scorpio to satisfy his partner that he enjoys sex most when he brings her to climax before cumming himself. He has the stamina to go on and on, and he enjoys achieving mutual orgasm after his partner has had her first climax.

“I prefer to bring my partner first, in order to make sure that she is satisfied.”

“I bring her first, and then I usually cum immediately after.”

“Partner first. I aim to please, then you aim to please, too.”

“Her first, then me, but together is okay for our second time.”

SIND SIE BEIM SEX STIMMGEWALTIG?

As Scorpio communicates about sex primarily with body language, it is rare for him to make much noise during sex and orgasm.

“I am only a little vocal. I think about being more so. I was with an uninhibited Leo once and she wanted me to be vocal. It was some of the best sex I’ve ever had.”

WAS MACHST DU NACH DEM SEX GERNE?

The time after sex is important to Scorpio. He will want to go to sleep, but not right away. This is a man of considerable mystery who desires intimacy and the intense feeling of closeness that sex brings. So after sex he wants to prolong that sensation.

“My ideal scenario is to talk for a while, then take a shower, have more sex, and fall asleep.”

“Hold hands, listen to music, cuddle, talk, shower together, stay in bed, eat, sleep.”

“Cuddle, smoke, eat, laugh, prepare for more.”

Hot Words He Secretly Craves (and Can’t Resist)

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=> Hot words he secretly craves (and can’t resist)

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